As you go out there and approach many women, you will see some women are naturally bitchy when they talk to strangers. Here are three ways to deal with these women.
- The Guilt Trap
The first way is to make them feel bad by acting disappointed at them. Let them know that their behaviour is incongruent with their image and how disappointed you are. Say something such as, "You know, you looked like a nice person so I thought you would be interested in making new friends. But I guess not. Pleasure meeting ya." Then simply leave and go back to doing whatever you were doing.
This will make the woman feel guilty without lowering your own status. After all, you have turned the table around and made it clear that SHE is the one who's being the loser. Sometimes, a woman will approach you and apologize for being a bitch before.
- Lower Her Social Status
The second way is to make her feel bad by asking her friends, "Does she always act like a bitch to new people?" Then turn to her and use the guilt trap in front of everyone. Before anyone can answer, leave and go back to do whatever you were doing.
By bringing other people into the picture, you will lower her status in front of her own group. She will feel bad in front of her friends, and sometimes her friends may even come talk to you after.
- Slam Her Back
The last method is to make her feel bad by being a bigger bitch than she is. Say something such as "Well, just because your parents never raised you properly doesn't mean other people have to take your bullshit. Have a nice evening."
Note that even with this method, you should still keep your cool and say something positive at the end such as "Have a nice evening." This will keep your social status high and make it clear that she's the unreasonable one here.
Just remember the following: When you stand up to a woman who always acts like a bitch in front of men, two things may happen. She'll either submit to you and feel the need to please you, or she'll get even more bitchy in order to see if you will back down. If she chooses option one, good. If she chooses option two, then just keep your cool but stay dominant without giving in. She'll probably go crazy cause she can't control you, but eventually she'll fall into place. (If she doesn't, chances are she may have serious character problems, and you should avoid her as much as possible!)
-National
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hmmmmm. I think humor wins. She testing you to see if you'll walk away. Keep your frame and don't acknowlege her bitchy behaviour as being a bad thing. But more in the same way you would if she were a cute 4 year old thats used to having her way....which she pretty much is! And like that bitchy 4 year old if you continue to have fun she'll join in. Never let a woman feel sorry for you. It's not sexy. You'll never hear a woman say "i felt soooo bad for him, it made me sooo hot"...perhaps "i felt soo bad for him, but he handled it like a man: cool calm collect. It made me so hot"
See the difference? Get past that bitch shield cool calm and collected and she'll be eating out of your hand. You see....she's been waiting all night for you ;o)
GQguy
Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
... why would you want to hang out with a bitch anyway?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I just act ignorant back to them, seems to work. Perfect example, I went to a pub last night where the band Priestess played(awesome band by the way) and my buddies g/f came, unfortunatley.
The g/f always gets little jabs at me, for no reason, I never give her reason's to such as being a douche to her or about something she likes I could be talking about hockey for fuck sakes and she will find a way to say something ignorant to me and this can and will involve the "foot thing"...
So basically on a bitch scale shes about a 12. So I just am fucking sick and tired of it so last night I decided that she will NOT ruin my evening. She would say something and at first I tried the ignoring part(she wouldn't even be saying something ignorant to me either) but that just made me look like a bit of an ass to people, so I switched methods. I went snarky on her, there was a couple of hot girls come into the bar and I gave my friend's foot a kick to give him a heads up to them and he didn't catch on and said you trying to play footsies or something? I was just waiting for her to jump all over that which she did, something to the effect funny he would try and play footsies, I said sure as the fuck wouldn't play footsies with your fat ass feet.
Just little stuff like that I did all night and I think she has gotten the hint because tonight we were supposed to drink and watch the hockey game but now she has "to study" Posted by Soopaman Lova (Member # 2743) on :
Lmfao, Well, how we deal with bitches is how they deal with us around here. They do things to embarrass you,we just serve it back to them. Me being a "Dirty Dozen" Champion, I have made plenty women who were bitches, cry thier eyes out by just words.But if it gets to a point of being physical. I just pay either my sister or some of my homegirls that still stay in the hood to come to whereever I am and whoop the bitches ass for me and go back home. That's bascially the best way to deal with bitches,lmao.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by Athena K: ... why would you want to hang out with a bitch anyway?
Just about to ask that haha
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
You don't.
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
I'm of two minds about "dealing with the bitch shield".
She may see it as 'manly' that you let it roll off your back.
But isn't it also kinda strange to still WANT to talk to a bitch?? LMAO!
Ugh! People really mess with my head sometimes.
Posted by sofatater (Member # 4209) on :
Women really don't get bitchy with me. Then again I'm so fugly I've been known to scare dogs and make children cry. Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
This is all good stuff. I get a kick when a see a bitchy chick just suddenly smile Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i don't deal with them. i remain professional and polite and move on.. no time to waste here!
my best "move".. i said.. "it appears I was gravely mistaken in saying hello.. good day"..walked away.. her daughter began to dig on her for being so rude to me for trying to help solve a problem of hers.
sadly, where I live, ignorance seems to be the rule, not the exception.. so walking away is usually a very wise choice.. but having good detection skills as to never come into contact with such a woman is by far the preferred method of living.. saves you the headache all together!! and i've wisened up a lot and have gotten really good at the avoidance!!
RPM
p.s. Footgirl, you're a sweetheart in my book that I can't seem to keep up with... oh well.. can't win them all Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
i deal with them, i guess. happens all the time, just used to it.
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
I dont deal with bitchy women any more I refuse too.
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Yea, being called dependable or nice is like being called short or bald...responding to a bitch with kindness is like checking in on a crying baby, it becomes expected. Fight fire with fire - the bitchness could be a test. I have 2 montras:
1) women do not always know what they want, although they always know what they are doing.
2) A woman will reveal herself to you (married, w.bf or otherwise) most women are never alone just waiting for a better option before selling the stock they own.
Once had a model that was a scientologist and they are into stats: money, cleanliness, car - mostly material items increase your stats. Women can smell em from miles away - regardless of the religion (cult).
If I could tatoo my fico score on my head I would - but it doesn't work that way - plus, there will always be a man with more money than you.
Can you dig it?
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