So, my wife is always down sex. Anal (even thought she won't admit she likes it, the moans say something different), oral, on top or bottom you name it she is good to go. Except, no foot action. Not sure when this started but I am not liking it, she would come home take off her flats and let me have em. It was beautiful, but now, not so much, pedicures are maybe once a month. I'm the kind of guy that loves to see his ladies feet ready to go. Painted and pretty. So how can I change this? Any ideas? I have made suggestions but little success. Little help please.
Posted by Russell71 (Member # 45369) on :
Just talk to her about it. Explain to her how important it is to you. Give her pedies yourself. Tell her how much you enjoy pampering her feet. Communication is key my friend.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Always comes down to communication. You need to talk to her, tell her how you feel, how arousing you find her feet, etc. hopefully she'll come on board.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Communication is very important but it is important to keep in mind it goes both ways.
I would start by just mentioning that you've noticed a decline in foot-play and then ask her about her feelings on the matter. Get a read on her feelings first, then you can address your concerns.
By knowing her feelings, you may save yourself a lot of grief by avoiding saying something that might hit a raw nerve. You'll get a sense of the boundaries within which you can have the conversation.
If this sounds like self-defense, it is.
[ June 17, 2013, 11:00 PM: Message edited by: Toetapper ]
Posted by mywifesfeet (Member # 2630) on :
Be honest, very important. Also, be gentle with her, maybe foot play reminds her of a bad memory.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
Don't want to pry too much into your life, but did you by chance forget about your wife above the ankles? Meaning, did you make it all about her feet and nothing else? I've heard similar things - many times coming from guys that just were all, feet, feet, feet, feet, all the time. Just an idea, but I could be far off.