Long and short, Ive never had much exposure to the FF community as a whole till maybe about a year ago, when I started opening myself up more. The wife even is cool with it and has done a few picture sets here and there. Well where im getting at it we joined this large fetish community to post our pics up and its like, never mind the fact that we (more importantly she) has established that she is married and isnt interested in any kind of play partner BS, that we are there do share and share with others of a like mind, under the banner that we all love pretty female feet. So the masses, while ignoring the former, constantly sending overly inapropriate messages to her 24/7, while giving me the finger, completely just being rude; and to top it off not a single person reciprocating. I get blocked for every friend request she accepts. Its like, "Um hello...I'm the photographer, shes able to post pictures because im the one that shoots them in the first place". I dont know, im just venting...just these folks got me rubbed the wrong way.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
Yeah, Athena doesn't get any guys propositioning her on here (fortunately). The odd set request which we're totally cool with, but - at least she's never told me - that anyone's been inappropriate with her.
Stay on Wu's Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
One of the things about most fetish sites is that most people are thing with their dicks and not their brains.
Posted by KaunNarazu (Member # 38786) on :
Yeah, I do beleive im going to just start posting them here. Where do you guys typically post your pics at, just the generic picture thread? We do take requests, just my wife is only about doing foot shots only, no face/body etc. I just finished up a grape squishin clip last weekend too, ill post it up soon as i figure that out lol
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
You have to realize this is Ugly America in which there are a lots of cowards in this country.
--------------------------------- By far, "White Women Wrinkled Soles are the Sexies of them all." WW FEET said!
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
Yes a lot of people are unbelievably self absorbed.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I very much so know what you mean! I'm the model and I still get rude people. They will request stuff to me on youtube and get MAD as hell and igorant if I dont get right on it. HELLO, I have a website that I maintain along with my job, family, and friends. Not to mention the stuff I put on my Youtube is FREE.
If we are just venting.. lol
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
Good luck with this site. I hope you have a good experience.
Posted by ffetish87 (Member # 41718) on :
lol, I'm surprised this wasn't expected. This is foot fetish. Feet are like boobs to them. You're posting pics of her boobs and you're surprised horny people are messaging her obscene messages and ignoring the guy? Seriously go to a fashion show or don't give away emails except on forums like this one if you don't want all that.
Posted by cliveman (Member # 19258) on :
If the forum allows it, just block everyone that's trying it on. As long as there is anonymity, there will be assholes.
Remember, this is the internet, don't let it get to you.
Posted by cliveman (Member # 19258) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I very much so know what you mean! I'm the model and I still get rude people. They will request stuff to me on youtube and get MAD as hell and igorant if I dont get right on it. HELLO, I have a website that I maintain along with my job, family, and friends. Not to mention the stuff I put on my Youtube is FREE.
If we are just venting.. lol
I made a very specific request about 10 minutes ago. Why is it not up yet!?!?
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Im sorry but how can you be surprised. Your posting pictures of a sexual nature (to us) on a website geared towards that fetish. You want a bunch of dudes to friend you (also a dude) when they friend a female model?
You also expect them to NOT make sexual advances towards her even though there are pictures of a sexual nature being posted? That's just weird.
Posted by realbean (Member # 3172) on :
I'd love to post some pics of my girlfriend's feet but there's no way she'd let me.
She says the idea of guys jerking off to her feet is creepy she only likes me to do it.
Also I would be as annoyed as the OP is....
Simple lesson - don't exhibit yourselves if you cannot handle the comebacks.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by cliveman:
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I very much so know what you mean! I'm the model and I still get rude people. They will request stuff to me on youtube and get MAD as hell and igorant if I dont get right on it. HELLO, I have a website that I maintain along with my job, family, and friends. Not to mention the stuff I put on my Youtube is FREE.
If we are just venting.. lol
I made a very specific request about 10 minutes ago. Why is it not up yet!?!?
[/ sarcasm] Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
quote:Originally posted by realbean: Simple lesson - don't exhibit yourselves if you cannot handle the comebacks.
Well said.
I'm going to keep this in mind for when I find women to pose for me.
Posted by solebrotha985 (Member # 2347) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: Im sorry but how can you be surprised. Your posting pictures of a sexual nature (to us) on a website geared towards that fetish. You want a bunch of dudes to friend you (also a dude) when they friend a female model?
You also expect them to NOT make sexual advances towards her even though there are pictures of a sexual nature being posted? That's just weird.
i think u summed it up pretty nicely. any time u are on a forum that is sexual in nature u will get those type of responses. whether its feet, tits, asses whatever. like others have said its the internet
Posted by KaunNarazu (Member # 38786) on :
It's not that I cant handle it or anything, it is more on the lines of, "Hey, you see what we're about, would it kill you to drop yer dick for like five seconds and contribute something in return?"
I mean, two years ago I never thought I could even talk her into this sort of thing, when I used to see guys sharing pics/clips all the time; so when I finally step up to the plate to participate, BUPKIS. So I'm just like, wtf? I showed you mine, now show me yours! lol
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
On a related note, I've come to the conclusion that many people in our community are just plain rude!
Back when I was active on MySpace, I created custom links to lots of the females on my friends list. All of the links were squares showing the girls' faces and feet. Some of the girls were foot fetish models, but a number of them were friends who took the pictures so that their squares would be in keeping with the theme of my page. As soon as I added their squares, the ladies started complaining to me that foot fetishists who were on my friends list were harassing them about their feet! Not just complimenting them, but repeatedly sending comments and questions of an explicit nature. I responded by posting a notice on my page right next to the picture squares explaining that not all of the girls were foot fetish models, and asking fellow foot fetishists to please refrain from badgering them about their feet. My pleas fell on deaf ears. Finally, it got to the point where some girls asked to have their custom squares removed, and i decided to stop accepting requests from any guys who expressed even the slightest bit of interest in feet unless I knew them. It's a practice that I've taken with me to Twitter!
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote:lol, I'm surprised this wasn't expected. This is foot fetish. Feet are like boobs to them. You're posting pics of her boobs and you're surprised horny people are messaging her obscene messages and ignoring the guy? Seriously go to a fashion show or don't give away emails except on forums like this one if you don't want all that.
quote:Im sorry but how can you be surprised. Your posting pictures of a sexual nature (to us) on a website geared towards that fetish. You want a bunch of dudes to friend you (also a dude) when they friend a female model?
You also expect them to NOT make sexual advances towards her even though there are pictures of a sexual nature being posted? That's just weird.
seriously? because lots of people do it, its ok? its sad that you guys defend these guys instead of saying that they are jerks for being disrespectful. the excuses thrown around are pathetic... its sexual so its expected. bullshit. my wife and i are swingers and she talks to men online and its not often some guy will overstep the boundaries and get rude. she expects to be treated with respect and if she doesnt, they're gone. i speak to the women we meet the same way.. and i dont think it can get much more sexual than what we're doing.
grow the f*** up and learn some respect.. and step up and demand it of others.
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Thats why this is such a wonderful forum and I dont bother with others.
True- and sometimes I fell that I get a bit preachy about trying to maintain this place in the manner you mention- but there are alot of people in this country today who feel who feel this great sense of entitlement to be rude,hateful or the like- and then are quite proud of being that way. That's why I always want people called on their bullshit when it comes around this forum.
Posted by fteater (Member # 42705) on :
Thats why my wife (Nikki from Nikkis-Arches.com) got out of it. She was in the scene for about 9 years and got tired of the crap not to mention a stalker found our home address and phone # so we decided it was time to take a break. I think we are going to start posting again soon and updating her site.
[ June 01, 2011, 02:19 PM: Message edited by: fteater ]
Posted by archman218 (Member # 37912) on :
yea hmm u posted FEET on a site that was made for FOOT FETISHISTS...we JERK OFF to feet...I wonder why sexually explicit things may have been on the minds of your website's visitors???? this is basically what u must've said to yourself: "HEY LET ME MAKE A WEBSITE ABOUT FEET AND FOOT FETISHISM....AND IF ANY FOOT FETISHISTS GET HORNY IT'S THEIR FAULT." Yea sorry when my dick is in my hand i might say things in an email that are a bit explicit. My gosh it's like setting up a hot dog stand and then getting pissed when people ask for ketchup.
Posted by fteater (Member # 42705) on :
archman218, you may have a point, but there still is something called respect. Maybe it's just because you havent seen some of the comments or lived through it, but like I said watching Nikki go through it for years then some asshole stalking her... Thats a bit much.
[ June 01, 2011, 01:32 PM: Message edited by: fteater ]
Posted by archman218 (Member # 37912) on :
Well ur just using a ridiculous emotional appeal, I certainly don't care if your wife got stalked, you're the ones who put yourselves on the internet, fire burns just in case u didn't know, and if ur gonna put up feet on a site revolving around fetishism of feet, ur gonna get nasty, disrespectful emails. ya'll disrespected your own intelligence by thinking anything different was going to happen.
Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
quote:Originally posted by oscarthemonkey: That's why I always want people called on their bullshit when it comes around this forum.
I feel the same way. And it's grating when people post bullshit and then don't get called out on it.
Then you have other people complaining that it's "too nice" here. It can be a source of confusion, honestly.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
quote:Originally posted by archman218: Well ur just using a ridiculous emotional appeal, I certainly don't care if your wife got stalked, you're the ones who put yourselves on the internet, fire burns just in case u didn't know, and if ur gonna put up feet on a site revolving around fetishism of feet, ur gonna get nasty, disrespectful emails. ya'll disrespected your own intelligence by thinking anything different was going to happen.
This post deserves the Billy Madison quote, changed and directed at the above:
"(Mr. archman218), what you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
Patrick
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
quote:Originally posted by fteater: Thats why my wife (Nikki from Nikkis-Arches.com) got out of it. She was in the scene for about 9 years and got tired of the crap not to mention a stalker found our home address and phone # so we decided it was time to take a break. I think we are going to start posting again soon and updating her site.
Sean
I hope so...promise I am no stalker either! Posted by realbean (Member # 3172) on :
I want to be clear that what I said isn't me condoning sending disrespectful stuff or stalking (wtf?!)
Just - it is to be expected somewhat and you're probably best to avoid the whole thing.
Posted by Mr. Mule (Member # 35514) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: Im sorry but how can you be surprised. Your posting pictures of a sexual nature (to us) on a website geared towards that fetish. You want a bunch of dudes to friend you (also a dude) when they friend a female model?
You also expect them to NOT make sexual advances towards her even though there are pictures of a sexual nature being posted? That's just weird.
Yeah what he said!
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
quote:Originally posted by fteater: Thats why my wife (Nikki from Nikkis-Arches.com) got out of it. She was in the scene for about 9 years and got tired of the crap not to mention a stalker found our home address and phone # so we decided it was time to take a break. I think we are going to start posting again soon and updating her site.
I am sorry that your wife (and you) were subjected to that sort of inappropriate behavior.
Posted by Mr. Mule (Member # 35514) on :
Whether its a chatroom or forum footmen are going to swarm on any "real" women they come in contact with boyfriend or husband in the picture it doesn't matter. Not to make excuses for anyones behavior but lets be real the internet is the only outlet for many men to express their fetish so sometimes they might go crazy. Im not sticking up for this behavior at all (the stalking is definately over the line) but I understand where its coming from a place of horny frustration lol!!!
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
If anyone thinks guys won't ask/talk sexual need to look up "common sense."
Anyone who suggests that those people have the right to stalk/threaten someone need to get their ass kicked.
There is a line and respect. I wish people would just be mindful. A lot more of that would make the world a better place.
Patrick
Posted by KaunNarazu (Member # 38786) on :
Maybe I need to clarify what exactly constitutes as "inapropriate". Sexual comments and things of the like, extra attention etc, is not the issue; fuck, im just as guilty as the next guy for that type of shit. No, what im talking about is purely just the disrespect, askin shit like "why dont you leave your man", or messages where theyre just going to invite themselves the fuck over to our house whenever the fuck they feel like it.
Im not dense, I knew what the fuck this shit was going to be like. I just happen to be gettin some shit off my chest at a time when she showed me some overly disturbing messages. I dont mind sharing/swapping some photos, maybe making some new friends. Sure im guilty just as the next guy when it comes to compliments/sexual comments. but I have yet told any women that i was going to foot fuck and rape them when their man leaves the house. Its disturbing and tasteless. If you were a boob man and someone comps yer wifes rack, in some cases, dood is kool with that; might even make'em feel good "my wifes rack is awesome and everyone loves'em & theyre all mine". Go and lay a hand on her tits though and he's gonna knock yer dick in the dirt.
I think its great that so many people have shown a liking towards her pretty peds, but the stalker shit is abit much.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
well i guess we know what kind asshole lameass loser *cough*archamn*cough* is trolling women online and acting like an internet casanova.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
quote:Originally posted by archman218: Well ur just using a ridiculous emotional appeal, I certainly don't care if your wife got stalked, you're the ones who put yourselves on the internet, fire burns just in case u didn't know, and if ur gonna put up feet on a site revolving around fetishism of feet, ur gonna get nasty, disrespectful emails. ya'll disrespected your own intelligence by thinking anything different was going to happen.
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