A gal whom I grew up with told me a short story yesterday. We both go to the same gym (her feet are not nice at all) and this very large, fat fellow that we both kinda know got kicked out for "bathing" in the pool. He's got to be 500 lbs and has a hard time walking plus he always looks dirty. Her and I joke about how we'll never go to the restaurant where he is the chef/cook because he's so gross.
Anyway, he ran into her a few days ago at the gym. Outside. Waiting next to her car in his car. He told her he'd been "up here the last three days looking for you." She asked why. He said "I was wondering if I could rub your feet." I said to her "Wow he's got a foot fetish, let him do his thing."
She said "He ain't rubbing THESE feet."
She was clearly weirded out by the whole thing and it just put things into perspective for me. It's such a delicate thing to reveal your foot fetish and has to be done the utmost care. This poor sap has no clue, yet I am sympathetic to his desire and lust for a womans feet with whom he feels he may have had a chance.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
It's all about how you carry yourself too, as in appearance,personality(hygiene lol). He could have told her that he would pay her $300 just to rub her feet and she still wouldn't have taken it probably, because she was so disgusted with the look of him.
Now I'm not saying the guys who have luck with getting the feet from women(random women too) are supermodel type of guys but I'm willing to bet they ain't waddling around at 500lbs while not showering...
Posted by coqui78 (Member # 9702) on :
quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: A gal whom I grew up with told me a short story yesterday. We both go to the same gym (her feet are not nice at all) and this very large, fat fellow that we both kinda know got kicked out for "bathing" in the pool. He's got to be 500 lbs and has a hard time walking plus he always looks dirty. Her and I joke about how we'll never go to the restaurant where he is the chef/cook because he's so gross.
Anyway, he ran into her a few days ago at the gym. Outside. Waiting next to her car in his car. He told her he'd been "up here the last three days looking for you." She asked why. He said "I was wondering if I could rub your feet." I said to her "Wow he's got a foot fetish, let him do his thing."
She said "He ain't rubbing THESE feet."
She was clearly weirded out by the whole thing and it just put things into perspective for me. It's such a delicate thing to reveal your foot fetish and has to be done the utmost care. This poor sap has no clue, yet I am sympathetic to his desire and lust for a womans feet with whom he feels he may have had a chance.
It's a creepy massively overweight weirdo, of course she's going to be weirded out, it wouldn't matter if his fetish was giving her all his money she'd still be creeped out. What do you think her reaction would have been if Brad Pitt offered to rub her feet?
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
omfg LOL! that poor fat guy just really ruined his chances of ever getting some feet from her, and all he did was be honest and bold like most people tend to advise in these forums LOL
oh, what is a foot fetishist to do now?
in a way, i think many of us feel that fat guy's pain. but on a similar note, we know he is a loser and in that regard we root for him as the underdog, cuz we know that if he succeeds, then we might also have our day at the victory stand with some female feet
i just feel bad that the guy lost out big time. and also omg, what are women probably thinking of guys like us when we creep around and ogle women's feet. god forbid that we camp out somewhere and confess our foot fetishes to them. that would be creepy indeed. what are our other options though?
Posted by coqui78 (Member # 9702) on :
Your other option is not going around making sexually crude remarks to a woman you barely know in a creepy and stalkerish manner. It works for most of the human race. You don't confess your fetish to some random woman you've been waiting for outside the gym, you do it to the girl you've been dating who obviously is already into you. Results will be a lot more positive, i guarantee it.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
quote:Originally posted by coqui78: Your other option is not going around making sexually crude remarks to a woman you barely know in a creepy and stalkerish manner. It works for most of the human race. You don't confess your fetish to some random woman you've been waiting for outside the gym, you do it to the girl you've been dating who obviously is already into you. Results will be a lot more positive, i guarantee it.
I agree completely!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
did the fat dude already know the girl?
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: A gal whom I grew up with told me a short story yesterday. We both go to the same gym (her feet are not nice at all) and this very large, fat fellow that we both kinda know got kicked out for "bathing" in the pool. He's got to be 500 lbs and has a hard time walking plus he always looks dirty. Her and I joke about how we'll never go to the restaurant where he is the chef/cook because he's so gross.
Anyway, he ran into her a few days ago at the gym. Outside. Waiting next to her car in his car. He told her he'd been "up here the last three days looking for you." She asked why. He said "I was wondering if I could rub your feet." I said to her "Wow he's got a foot fetish, let him do his thing."
She said "He ain't rubbing THESE feet."
She was clearly weirded out by the whole thing and it just put things into perspective for me. It's such a delicate thing to reveal your foot fetish and has to be done the utmost care. This poor sap has no clue, yet I am sympathetic to his desire and lust for a womans feet with whom he feels he may have had a chance.
this is probably gonna be me in 10 years, not looking forward to it
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
His being overweight probably had less to do with anything than the way he carries/carried himself. There are many overwirgt people who take pride in hygiene and dresing well which make peolpe look less at their weight. The Poor hygiene definitely heightened the negative thoughts about his weight. IMO
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
You can be a 500 lb overweight fat smelly dude or you can be a 180 lb shredded to shit pretty looking dude, but I think this guy fell victim to being too aggressive and starting off on the wrong foot (pardon the pun).
I've been told by quite a few girls that being aggressive doesn't help in many situations when it comes to hooking up (let's not confuse being aggressive with being persistent). So firstly he was being too aggressive (waiting next to her car outside like a stalker) and secondly he was being too direct by going in for the kill by telling her "I wanna rub your feet".
Alright now this dude more than likely had no chance in hell (even if you think her feet are nothing special) but he could have approached it in a completely different manner. He completely left himself out in the open to be shot down. Was he really expecting to get anywhere with that approach??
Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :
Ok so let me answer a question or two. Yes the big guy already knew this chic. The thing that made me even report this story is that this chic is VERY loose. She's always got some guy she likes that doesn't like her back, or always banging some new dude, just general drama in her quest to have ANY kind of male attention. That's why I was surprised at how DEFINITE she was her statement. She never says "No" to anybody especially a guy.
Yes, he is a fat slob and looks dirty and had no chance at all. And he definitely went about it the wrong way. I will see her this week and I'll try to bring this situation up and see if she has additional comments on the whole foot thing
Posted by wvcple2003 (Member # 5268) on :
If her feet arent "Nice at all" like you say, I would probably refrain from asking her questions about her feet; maybe thinking your interested in them and wanting you to give the a rubdown after your hard workout sessions! Ugly feet combined with smelly feet may be a dick softener from hell.lol