Let me know if you know this feeling: In the immediate moments following orgasm, whether it is with your lady or on Wu's/FootFetishTube or wherever on the net, sex becomes the last thing on your mind and you want no part of it. I don't mean repulsed of course, but just that satisfied feeling where you don't have the feeling of needing sex or women.
I don't know why this fascinates me. I've always taken notice of that feeling. I walk around all day everyday wanting it all the time, sometimes feeling I never get enough, but then when I do actually get enough, I find it to be an odd feeling. But here's the punchline: that satisfied feeling for me usually lasts about an hour!
This hit me also last night during Louis CK's new show 'Louie'--ever see it? It's funny. But there was another guy on there (another great comedian, Nick DiPaulo) who talked about married life, and about how his wife always wanted sex, and he said 'Sometimes you just want to have a burger and turn in.' This saddened me. I hope I never get to that point. I kinda like wanting it all the time. Freud also got to that point. I don't recall all the reasons, but he lost interest in sex partly because his wife was so fertile that she got pregnant every time they had sex!
Any thoughts?
Posted by curly09 (Member # 33380) on :
I have a problem with it big time, there was one time i had a net porn wank day,I pulled myself silly 6 times that day, then that night i ended up at the knock shop. The worst part is i had a girlfriend at the time and she was away for the weekend, that was day one.lol.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
That's just the "refractory period" almost every man has after achieving orgasm. You just want to roll over, fall asleep and let her lay on the wet spot. Younger guys can usually be ready to go again in about 10 minutes and old dudes in about 20 hours.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Sometimes I'll blow a huge load then be ready in about 5 mins other times I blow it and then I'd rather go to sleep or go out and play some xbox Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
Me and my ex used to have unbelievable sex, then afterwards, we'd lay in bed and listen to the police scanner picking up cell phone calls. Of course that was before digital cell phone service. Ah, how I miss those analog nights.
Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
Yes, for days at a time. Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
I can relate. I always thought it was just me, so thanks for sharing!
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
Depends on how well the job is done.
I've had girls run me ragged and felt satisfied (as you put it) for almost a whole day. On the flip side, I've had girls that were... eh.... and had the craving 15 minutes later.
If you REALLY want to be satisfied, find a girl that knows what she's doing and go at it as much as you can. Even if you don't have the urge anymore, force yourself. The right girl should be able to get you going relatively quickly. Meaning 20 minutes later... round 2, another 20 minutes later... round 3. Rinse and repeat until you feel COMPLETELY drained and physically cannot go on. You should be good for at least a day or two, maybe three.
The hard part is finding the right girl. If you can find her, I highly recommend.
[ July 07, 2010, 04:08 PM: Message edited by: longhitter04 ]
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Sexually exhausted, many times.
Sexually satisfied, many more times but the feeling passes all too soon: "That was fantastic! Lets do that again!"
Posted by houseshooz (Member # 10572) on :
Your age has a great deal to do with this.
When I was a teenager I'd fuck a chick for hours and then go home and j.o. thinking about the sex I just had.
Now I stay "satisfied" for days at a time. My point is enjoy it while it lasts.
Posted by MarkM1 (Member # 39757) on :
Yeah, the exact same thing happens to me. It's strange because before I cum, I have this feeling like I want to do it over and over again all night. But then as soon as I finish, it's like.... Wow that was enough... Time for sleep lol.
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