Met a girl a few months ago at a friends party, we started dating and ended 'getting together'.
I was straight up about my foot fetish right from the start and she was totally into it, like more than any other girl i've been with, really turned on by it.
Anyhow, as much I loved the feet thing and good sex. I wasn't really feeling it so I kinda ended it and hadn't spoke to her for a month or so until about a week ago when she text me 'do you get turned on when girls suck there own toes?' and from there on she's been texting some proper dirty feet stuff, love it.
Met up with her last night and had a few drinks and walked her home and she said my feet hurt in these heels, I said i'll give you a foot massage and she said I want you to do it with your tongue!!!! man, i've never met a girl into havin me do stuff to her feet like this before. I mean i've told all my ex gf's about my foot fetish and they've let me do shit but not have really been into it.
Anyhow, the point is, I really, really enjoy the feet side of things but i'm not really, really into her that much, is it bad to lead her on to get on her feet?
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
first of all, she was texting you after you lost contact with her.
how old are you?
if your a young guy, i say go for it. you have plenty of time to find someone you want to spend your life with. i mean, this sounds like the dream. i never hear stories of ex's doing this, so it sounds like a rare opportunity.
and if your old, i say REALLY go for it. this is beyond rare.
Posted by Dreaming (Member # 5548) on :
I'm 24 so young-ish I guess.
When I ended it we didn't really fall out or anything, just wasn't really feeling it cos she was busy with uni all the time and I work long hours so didn't have time as much as anything for a full time bird.
Still it did take me by suprise when she text me that.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
could be she's digging you more than you thought and is trying to get you back in touch. as busy as she is, she's making an effort. these days, time is rare, and those who make the effort gets more results. that's really a plus for her
RPM
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I'm with Keyfeet- I would enjoy the ride at least for au little while since you've been lucky enough to find this foot freak. It just depends on when you want to start looking for Mrs. "Right" or whether she has any habits or mannerisms that drive you crazy. If neither one o those apply I would enjoy her feet while you can. The only detrimental aspect would be your jaded expectations if the next girl you meet is not nearly as into feet as she is.
Posted by Dreaming (Member # 5548) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetluvr: The only detrimental aspect would be your jaded expectations if the next girl you meet is not nearly as into feet as she is.
That's what i'm worried about! ha ha
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dreaming: is it bad to lead her on to get on her feet?
yes it's bad in the end, but it sure feels good while licking and sniffing, i can tellya that much.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
Women who know that your a kinkster, will sometimes try and "re seduce" you over your kink. I have been in the same situation. I have stayed friends with them, and as long as both parties are down with the fact that it's just "playtime" really, it's all good.
She has to stop liking you in the other way though, or your just hurting her... And still be cool to fuck around with you. That is where time will tell...
Good Luck regardless.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
You will regret not being with her. As said before, you're young.
Go for it. Go out with her. She likes you for who you really are! That's pretty amazing for us right? Plus she's into almost as much as you. You're lives will be excellent.
Take this opportunity with both hands.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
I can tell you this man...it's cool now but just going back to what you were saying before, I mean clearly she's got somethin that's not doin it for you...
You mean to tell me that she lets you do whhhaaatttteeevveeeer you want to her feet, sex is good, and still you managed to go without contact for a month? (which is a long time) And not sweat it? That just tells you right there you could care less if she comes or goes...despite all that other stuff...
Just speaking from experience bro, I've had chicks like this. And what they do is, once they figure out that, ok, this guy is not that into me but let me see if i can get his attention with that foot thing again, they will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS revert back to that...and not to mention they will definitely use it as a means to manipulate you if they can.
You go a month without contact and the first she says is "'do you get turned on when girls suck there own toes?'...WHAT???? I'd be very suspicious of that...and plus dude, your not into her at all, it's gonna get old that much quicker.
There's a TON of freaks out there bro...don't get blown away by this chick just because you THINK shes into feet just as much as you.
Do what you gotta do and move onto the next.
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by skaramunga: You go a month without contact and the first she says is "'do you get turned on when girls suck there own toes?'...WHAT???? I'd be very suspicious of that...
i became suspicious of the entire story at that point
Posted by Dreaming (Member # 5548) on :
quote:Originally posted by skaramunga: You mean to tell me that she lets you do whhhaaatttteeevveeeer you want to her feet, sex is good, and still you managed to go without contact for a month? (which is a long time) And not sweat it? That just tells you right there you could care less if she comes or goes...despite all that other stuff...
Just speaking from experience bro, I've had chicks like this. And what they do is, once they figure out that, ok, this guy is not that into me but let me see if i can get his attention with that foot thing again, they will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS revert back to that...and not to mention they will definitely use it as a means to manipulate you if they can.
You go a month without contact and the first she says is "'do you get turned on when girls suck there own toes?'...WHAT???? I'd be very suspicious of that...and plus dude, your not into her at all, it's gonna get old that much quicker.
I guess it is a surefire sign that I aint too fussed to be honest. I do think she's a cool girl but just really 'not that into her' as in like serious relationship wise.
The text thing was kinda weird, I found it strange aswell that we hadn't been in touch for a while then out the blue she text me that but I think she was horny cos we ended up texting dirty shit all nite. ha ha
Anyhow, i've decided what i'm gonna do now, just gonna have fun with her sexually but explain that I don't want to get serious and if she is cool with that then i'm in foot heaven, if not, as you said, move onto the next one.
Posted by Dreaming (Member # 5548) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by skaramunga: You go a month without contact and the first she says is "'do you get turned on when girls suck there own toes?'...WHAT???? I'd be very suspicious of that...
i became suspicious of the entire story at that point
lol whatever man
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
So, what is/are the reasons why you aren't so into her? Is it her looks, the way she talks, her background, her social interests, musical tastes...?
Is she not good looking? Do you have any pictures of her you can post? I'd like to know more about what could make such a "dream foot woman" so otherwise non-desirable to make a long-term relationship out of, especially since she's so... accommodating.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Like some have said before, you're young so why not go for it? I would only add that you not set off her "relationship radar". What I mean by that is don't hang out with her enough so that she thinks you two are in a relationship. Limit the time you talk to her or see her to only once a week, if that. Then she'll implicitly get the message that there's no relationship that's going on between the two of you.
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It just depends on when you want to start looking for Mrs. "Right" or whether she has any habits or mannerisms that drive you crazy. If neither one o those apply I would enjoy her feet while you can. The only detrimental aspect would be your jaded expectations if the next girl you meet is not nearly as into feet as she is.