Hey everybody. My gf knows about my foot fetish, but she was very iffy even coming to terms with it. So I have only been able to give her massages.
How can I move on to bigger and better things?
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
You made a bit of a mistake using the word foot fetish though but the fact that she is trying to accept it for you.
Just give her a REALLY good foot massage then slowly move her foot towards your lips and give gentle kisses... then measure her reaction and see what you can do.
Talk to her, ask her how she feels about it.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
NIKE has a saying: "JUST DO IT".
Posted by lovesize7s (Member # 34342) on :
I have no idea how any of you guys could consider a girl that would have a hard time accepting our fetish.Are you sure you are not the Girlfriend instead.I'm not trying to be a dick but any girl I would consider dating knows about my fetish inside of an hour.Thats the reason I'm hitting on her in the first place.If your girl is iffy than she's not for you.It will end,so why waste your time with a closed minded girl.This subject really dumbfounds me like no other.Are you so young that you think she is the only girl you will ever have?I have NEVER had an iffy girl.Take charge tell her her feet are beautiful and put them in your mouth.Dont go on Oprah about it and explore her emotions,be a man and get it done or grow some balls and find another girl.
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
quote:Originally posted by lovesize7s: I have no idea how any of you guys could consider a girl that would have a hard time accepting our fetish.Are you sure you are not the Girlfriend instead.I'm not trying to be a dick but any girl I would consider dating knows about my fetish inside of an hour.Thats the reason I'm hitting on her in the first place.If your girl is iffy than she's not for you.It will end,so why waste your time with a closed minded girl.This subject really dumbfounds me like no other.Are you so young that you think she is the only girl you will ever have?I have NEVER had an iffy girl.Take charge tell her her feet are beautiful and put them in your mouth.Dont go on Oprah about it and explore her emotions,be a man and get it done or grow some balls and find another girl.
pretty much.
If she cares about your desires, she should and will indulge your foot fetish...thats my opinion, but I practice what I preach. Any girl I have ever been with... I would do whatever they wanted sexually aside from involving another guy. Even if I didnt want to do whatever the act was...I did it because SHE liked it, not cause I liked it, and I expect the same in return. 2 way street if ya dig what Im saying.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
quote:Originally posted by lovesize7s: I have no idea how any of you guys could consider a girl that would have a hard time accepting our fetish.Are you sure you are not the Girlfriend instead.I'm not trying to be a dick but any girl I would consider dating knows about my fetish inside of an hour.Thats the reason I'm hitting on her in the first place.If your girl is iffy than she's not for you.It will end,so why waste your time with a closed minded girl.This subject really dumbfounds me like no other.Are you so young that you think she is the only girl you will ever have?I have NEVER had an iffy girl.Take charge tell her her feet are beautiful and put them in your mouth.Dont go on Oprah about it and explore her emotions,be a man and get it done or grow some balls and find another girl.
Tough love!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by lovesize7s: I have no idea how any of you guys could consider a girl that would have a hard time accepting our fetish.Are you sure you are not the Girlfriend instead.I'm not trying to be a dick but any girl I would consider dating knows about my fetish inside of an hour.Thats the reason I'm hitting on her in the first place.If your girl is iffy than she's not for you.It will end,so why waste your time with a closed minded girl.This subject really dumbfounds me like no other.Are you so young that you think she is the only girl you will ever have?I have NEVER had an iffy girl.Take charge tell her her feet are beautiful and put them in your mouth.Dont go on Oprah about it and explore her emotions,be a man and get it done or grow some balls and find another girl.
Couldn't have said it better myself!
Actually....just an addition. Sex. Give it to her good. Make her orgasm. Be a great lover. But keep the same attitude as above. When you do right by a woman alot of things open up to you. Imagine being on top of your girl and giving it to her good....then pulling her feet toward your mouth for some love....you get more turned on and harder, giving it to her better than before. In the end you both orgasm. Will she have a problem with you touching her feet again? I think not. She'll actually be all about your thing for feet knowing that your foot love+ her feet+ her = her orgasming and good feelings for her. Give and take.
Having the attitude captured by my sig below this post will also work in your favor. If she's not into our fetish....i'd bet a billion dollars theres another smarter hotter girl out there for you that will. This attitude is priceless and is conveyed subtley.
GQ
Posted by gigiti (Member # 27251) on :
Thanks for the tough love. This is my first relationship ever with a girl, so I'm still just trying to get the basics down. But I will definitely take into account what has been said.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Hopefully you didn't use the term 'foot fetish' toward your GF. Not that it's necessarily going to hurt ya but the best way is not to ask. Rub them more often getting more affectionate with her feet, and finally just slip the tongue out! I can't think of any simpler way than that, and before you slip the tongue to her feet make sure she's aware you find her feet sexy not to come across random.
Posted by lovesize7s (Member # 34342) on :
I think GQ finished my thoughts perfectly.I love his summation of adds at the end of his comments.SO TRUE!!!!!!
Posted by FabulosoFeet (Member # 3205) on :
quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: NIKE has a saying: "JUST DO IT".
lol what the worst that can happen anyway?
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by gigiti: Thanks for the tough love. This is my first relationship ever with a girl, so I'm still just trying to get the basics down. But I will definitely take into account what has been said.
Your openness and eagerness to learn will serve you well.