And it got me thinking about how I dig rough sex. Being dominant in the bedroom with a submissive woman is the best. I wasn't always like this till I dated this one submissive girl that got off on me spanking her and holding her down. I didn't like it at first, but slowly got into it. I of course stole those moves and used them with the various women i've hooked up with. What's funny is that they all dig a certain amount of roughness. When ever i'm flirting with a new woman I always toss in that I like spaking, and rarely ever get a negative reaction. They all love the concept of being bent over my knee! It's a fantasy they can get into right off the bat. The foot fetish for the most part takes alot more time for them to get. Most likely because they are playing the dominant role, something they aren't used to. Even with feet they get more turned on if I use their feet to get off than if they actively do the job. It's interesting how the whole cliche of being gentle by way of Marvin Gaye sexual healing is wayyyyy off...at least in my bedroom. Maybe that's why I can't find a nice girl!! Haha.
But how many of us here are into the dominant rough sex? I know alot of guys here are into the submissive side of things.
GQguy
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: But how many of us here are into the dominant rough sex? I know alot of guys here are into the submissive side of things.
i am definitely into the dominant rough sex. i have found though that women are usually too disgusted by me to even want to continue.
sometimes i think it has to do with the fact that their feet smell is still on my face and they don't like me licking their cheeks really hard while i hold their hands down.
they seem quite disgusted by me and i often find myself being the gentleman instead by ceasing my actions instead of making them do something that is uncomfortable.
it's usually their facial expressions that tell it all. i would share some pics of these girls but they are really disgusted by me licking all up in their face when i try to be dominant.
maybe it has a little something to do with the subby foot side of things causing interference. i would like to know of other dominant foot fetishists out there who encounter the same difficulties. i know i'm not the only switch hitter.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I agree, GQ. There are quite a few "nice girls" who like the idea of being taken over a guy's knee and given a good spanking.
I think it has to do with women's fantasy of "being taken". I don't mean that she is forced to have sex. More accurately, women, I think, have a fantasy of being ravished by a guy who they're attracted to, trust, and feel comfortable and safe with.
It really comes down to the concept of the guy leading and taking control of the scenario, which women find very attractive.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I had a g/f once who always said when she got in a certain mood she wanted me to take the P8&^%. I could never actually do it because in the back of my mind I wasn't sure idf she was trying to set me up. Thankfully the relationship ended a withtout this.