Have any of you ever noticed how often women talk about their feet? Whether it's shoes, toenail polish, pedicures, foot care, etc. I've even observed women compliment other women on their feet!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
It is true, I see and hear that a lot! I love it too! I also love observing a woman checking out her feet in shoes, noticing her own feet, making sure they look nice!
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
I hear it @ work all the time!
95% of my co-workers are female Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Lucky! Do you ever see them barefoot, much?
Posted by houseshooz (Member # 10572) on :
I used to work with a bunch of women in an office and let me tell you.... When one or two of them went out shoe shopping at lunch they would all huddle in a big circle and ALL try on each others new shoes. Imagine 10-15 women, all at the same time, barefoot slipping in and out of sexy shoes, posing their feet and simultaneously talking about and complimenting each others feet and showing off their pedicures!
Little did they know this was more intense than hardcore porn for me since it was live and I had a front row seat. Bad thing was I had to play it off like I wasn't at all phased by it to avoid exposing myself.
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
i LOVE being a girl. especially since my girls know im "out" of the closet. they are always asking me for opinions and showing me there feet and stuff.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
This is what I have been saying all along but you guys want to keep debating this with me. I get that you have had some bad experiences with SOME girls not enjoying or thinking you were weird for having a foot fetish. I GET IT....but let me assure you that there are more guys with a foot fetish than not. Admittedly some guys just won't date a girl with UGLY feet....so its relatively mild compared to guys who enjoy worshipping feet but in the end a foot fetish is a foot fetish.
Did you see on Dr Phil, the single millionaire DR that wouldn't date a woman unless she had nice feet? Do you think he is weird? HELL NO, no one including Dr Phil thought he was weird.....A lot of woman like the attention that shoes, pedicures etc get them from woman but ESPECIALLY MEN.. You MEN! You just don't understand us. We do things to get attention and you pretend like its no big deal! DISH OUT THE COMPLIMENTS.....Join in on the conversation with the women in the office and say, yes, I like those shoes, they make your legs look FANTASTIC....the girls will think you are AWESOME...
Anyways, Girls love to talk to each other about feet etc, but more so with men. Why do you think women have male Gay frieds? To talk about this stuff with men. So learn from them and be a straight male friend that shows interest in womens likes....I guarantee you will get more action.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
Danielle, you're dead on!!!!! most women who have not had bad issues appreciate a man who knows more than just sports!
one of my close collegues at first was freaked out at the prospect that i may be into feet.. but a little reassurance went a long way.. now.. we're really cool. whenever she's doing somehting nice to her feet, she thinks of me and tells me.. she once wanted to come in to work in flipflops so i could see her new pedi, but work rules prevents the showing of toes at work! she was tempted to ask me to go to her car to show off her pedi, but thought that'd be 'weird'... i've got a photoshoot lined up with her later this summer!!!!!!
it's all in the approach.. don't act freakish, and you're in! many gal pals of mines recently heard through the grapevine called facebook that i appreciate heels and feet.. do you have a clue how many topics of chat came up from that.. and even a few pics of heels. (i've got a shoot lined up already)
RPM
p.s. you won't know unless you try.. but do it properly and confidently.. and you're in (at work, some co-workers will chat away about shoes.. but don't want me in.. for fear i may be hiding a fetish.. they're not folks i'd hang with anyway.. the others wait until that crew is out of ear shot, and then they talk away with me about their new shoes.. their pedies.. and how their hubbies don't massage them enough!) <note... it's a tricky deal, but you've got to do it right, the payoff can be awesome>
Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
i was talking to my cousin about our feet the other day and how they stank after work
i thought of wu's hahaha
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
true! but most gals hate it when we talk about boobs and rears with them around...
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I've heard girls talk about their shoes a lot and rarely put my 2 cents in, worried they might guess I like feet. Posted by omni7phat (Member # 999) on :
My boss has what I would call a shoe fetish. She boasts of having over 160 pair of shoes. I suspect that she knows I have a foot fetish because she teases me about her shoes and wearing high heels when I fill in for when she is gone. Plus, she has caught me looking at her feet. Anyway, I think Danielle is right. I noticed my boss wearing a particularly brightly patterned pair of heels the other day and felt like I missed the opportunity to complement her on her shoes. I bet she would have responded in a positive way.
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: Girls talk about everything including how you are in bed, your size, your quirks... everything. Feet too. You all just notice we talk about our feet a lot cause you are focused on the subject. We talk about our boobs, ass, noses etc... just as much.
BINGO!
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Oh you did miss a HUGE opportunity to talk to your boss OMNI7phat....Be sure to take advantage of it next time.
Yes, I agree that girls talk about everything, I know when I am with the girls, anything and everything goes, especially over a cosmo...lol
However, I know for certain I wouldn't talk about another guys size, my ass, my nose, my boobs with another man present....that just goes against the rules. However, talking about shoes, feet, pedicures etc with another man present, FOR ME, is a small turn on. Just to know that a man can show interest outside of SPORTS is HUGE. I like a man to be a man, but I also like a man to be confident in his sexuality to share in what's semi important to me. aka SHOES, FEET and PEDS...lol
Confidence is the biggest turn on of them all. Seriously guys, a foot fetish is not that big of a deal, only if you make it to be one. Any girl that has issues with something like a Foot Fetish, well you don't want to be around them anyways..>>BORING.
If you doubt me, talk to my good friend Tiffany Granath from Playboy Radio, she will back me up on this.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Danielle Moore: Confidence is the biggest turn on of them all. Seriously guys, a foot fetish is not that big of a deal, only if you make it to be one. Any girl that has issues with something like a Foot Fetish, well you don't want to be around them anyways..>>BORING.
I think all guys who have their doubts, fears, etc. about making their foot fetish known to other women should read the above quote over and over, especially the first two sentences. And, as Danielle said, if a woman has issues with something like a foot fetish, then it's on her and you don't want to be around her.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
on my best confident days, i've been able to talk about a woman's weight at lenght without sticking my foot in my mouth! in the end, it was really a nice conversation between two gals and myself. the funniest part, was when another guy and gal joined the group and found out what we were talking about.. the looks of panic was hilarious! then they blended in and the chat was nice.
confidence is the key.. but cockiness is the killer.. fine line. i think cockiness is like being timid also.. makes the whole topic uncomfy for all.
maintaining that confidence however is tough at times.
plus. some women just aren't that 'aware' of what is out there.. they are not so much afraid of you liking feet, but afraid of the unknown about liking feet. they only know it as some part of their body they stand on and it stinks.. why would anyone like that.. if properly introduced, some can be 'won' over..
Danielle, good points! good points!
RPM
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Thanks Guys....I think you are getting it now.
1/Confidence in yourself, NOT COCKINESS is the key 2/Take things slow and let the woman get to know you a little so she feels safe with you. 3/Introduce her to the wonderful world of foot fetish with a nice romantic foot massage. If she says no, she doesn't like foot massages, then its HER and not you and you likely don't want to be with her anyways. You risked nothing by offering a foot massage. If she enjoys it, plant a small kiss on her toes when you are done. She will think you are so romantic and you still risk nothing and you get a little something for your efforts.
Seriously guys, its harmless fun! There are so many other things out there that are far off worse than a foot fetish.
Now in having said the above, some of you guys are way more comfortable with your foot fetish than most and I applaud your confidence. You jump right in within the first hour and have your way with her feet, shoes, whatever. Personally,if I was on a date with you and you did that to me? To be honest, it would be a little creepy. You would remind me of those guys that I read about in the newspapers and a past date..lol....you know the stories of guys breaking into homes just so they can smell the womans shoes. Remember, not every man with a foot fetish takes things that far. Believe me, I have had both....I had the stalker who broke into my home to steal shoes and I have had the romantic foot fetishist....I prefer the second of the two. I get more of what I want and not what he wants...isn't that the way it is supposed to be? LOL It's a woman's world.
Remember, take things slow and develop that long lasting foot fetish relationship with someone special.
Play Safe!
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
LOL Danielle is telling you all the truth, take heed.
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
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Do you ever see them barefoot, much?
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i LOVE being a girl. especially since my girls know im "out" of the closet. they are always asking me for opinions and showing me there feet and stuff.
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