Don't get me wrong here i absolutely LOOOVE feet, but the fantasy of me sucking toes or licking the foot, whatever seems way better than when you actually do it. My girlfriend is a little bit into my foot thing, allowing me to do whatever i want, but i usually just give them a little kiss cos im embarresed to what she could be thinking. Anyway i had not seen her for two weeks, and when i saw her she painted her nails this absolutely gorgeous bright neon pink. I immediately gave her a foot massage which she loves, and they were looking so hot so she just looked at me and said go for it
I was really hesitant at first for reasons already mentioned but then i thought who cares she loves me and i have not had any feet or fanny for two weeks ( i was really horny!!! )
To put this topic into perspective, i could not wait to have those toes in my mouth, i fantasised about it every day and when i finally stuck them in my mouth i was like whoah disappointed, its just like licking or sucking any normal piece of skin, i don't know what i expect it to be like (not into stinky feet), but the thought of sucking her toes was way hotter than actually doing it if you know what i mean.
I have sucked on her toes loads of times over 4 years and i only really love it when we are shagging ( she likes it too ), everytime its the same thing its a little of an anti-climax. I don't know why i absolutely still love doing it and im thinking about it right now and i cant wait but when the actaul act of sucking her toes happens i feel kinda let down?
Why is this , am i expecting too much, what are your views?
Cheers
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
know what you mean but in all respsect, toes are just a bit of skin but the thought that your sucking the toes is what makes it wild.
you wait till you do it when she slides her toes into your mouth fresh from barefoot flats.
mmm hmmm
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i totally get this. the thought is so much more exciting than the act is physically. what you need to try and do and experience it more mentally. the physical act is just how you described it.. sucking a bit of skin and there is gonna be no physical pleasure out of that. there have been times where i have felt a bit of disappointment, but overall.. i would never stop Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Um yea if it is a woman I am dating and has the toes that I like to be a gf and she is just placating me? That is short.
If it's Sabrina Fox, Gabby another model or a woman I am just into - not much to be disappointed about unless I sucked one of the metatarsals off.
Otherwise, I only suck long toes - so I don't waste my time worshipping her.
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
Although I'm not into really stinky feet either, your story illustrates why I do prefer at least a mild aroma vs no smell at all. It makes all the difference for me in terms of arousal. Now I like the "freakiness" of the act of licking feet in and of itself, but without some aroma, I may as well be licking her fingers.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I don't think I can say I've ever gotten disappointed sucking on a woman's toes. I like working a woman's toes along my tongue as I slowly suck on them. If I can get a woman to like or to, at least, appreciate the sensation as well, then it's a bonus.
Posted by BratPrincessSarah (Member # 34538) on :
I would suggest turning the lights off, maybe playing music that puts you into "space," and getting into that space. You will be doing the act, but appealing more to your inner beast. I have often had this issue with fantasy vs. sex, especially as I was developing my sexual drive. I started to worry that maybe I had burned out on insane fantasies and could only get off while playing a dirty "movie" in my mind. Now my mind has filled in a bit and allows itself to expand into...well, reality. Also, like "traditional" oral sex (I love oral on the toes...omfg...), if she is noticeably not as passionate about it as you are, that *may* have an effect. Those are just my thoughts...
Posted by Soopaman Lova (Member # 2743) on :
Wow, dude said Fanny. One thing I love about this board is that we are International. Everyone is from everywhere but come together on common ground. But..yea,I'm with "Five for Feet". A little aroma would be nice in your situation. I know you said you aren't into stinky feet, but they can be lightly scented. Not just absolutly foul-smelling. But what's happening in your head that isn't going on in front of you. In your imagination, is she talking? Are her feet more active in your visions? I enjoy dealing with womens feet simply because they are pleasing to all senses. Sight,Sound(if she likes to vocally express pleasure),Touch(smooth foot and instep, soft and wrinkly soles),Smell(like I said, a little aroma is nice but not overbearing),Taste(well, flavors vary between women). But as long as all senses are satisfied, so am I. But think about it. Maybe you are leaving something out. Something that is going on in your imagination but not in reality. But at least she is accepting of your desire for feet.
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
couldn't the same be said about any body part? just piece of skin?
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
sorry to hear that
Posted by PrimeFootWorship (Member # 26591) on :
imagination is always better than living it out because its your fantasy. I only get disappointed when I buss too fast from being so excited.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote:I would suggest turning the lights off
for me, that would actually decrease the arousal cause i am very visual.
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
No I can relate COMPLETELY. Toes LOOK amazing but your other senses don't interpret it the same way at all.
Eyes say: "Wow!"
Mouth says: "What's the big deal?"
I had to laugh at myself for getting with someone the other week who had NICE feet but I found myself prefering having a "hug and kiss" so to speak.
Maybe they have to be REEEEEEEEEAAAAAAALLYYYY nice. The first foot job I ever got caused quite a "reaction" from my little man if you get my drift. And I DO remember her having VERY above average feet. PLUS I'd had 'energy' stored up. I hadn't 'released' for a while, so maybe you need these combinations?
Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
Haha no I rather like it myself! but the fantasy side seems better than the real side... i think thats because my girlfriends feet NEVER smell and rarely dominates (which is part of it for me).
Posted by haydenpanettierefeetslave (Member # 2512) on :
nope I have never got disappointed
Posted by toesuck22 (Member # 12439) on :
i dont think i ever get disapointed but i enjoy it alot more when she is giving me a bj or we are having sex at the same time, that really gets me off :-)
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
I never get enough.
Posted by UK_luckyguy (Member # 15149) on :
get her to ram them in your mouth straight out of her flats whilst she's giving you a blowjob.
If the resultant load doesn't blow her head off you're not doing it right Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I've also experienced the "fantasy is better than reality", but couldn't tell you why it happens. As BratPrincessSarah mentioned her "lack of enthusiasm" could play a part. NOTHING kills my enjoyment more than my wife not being enthusiastic or "into" what I'm doing to/with her.
Specifically as to sucking toes- I've never been dissappointed by that so far largely because it's still something very special and relatively new to me and my wife. (only been doing it a few years)
Posted by alienshe (Member # 34583) on :
the most disappointing experience i had was right after the girl had taken a shower and the shower had just recently been scrubbed with bleach. the taste was horrible and i had to gargle a ton of listerine afterwards.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Fantasy is a strange thing. We spend hours, days, weeks, months and years fantasizing about something and when it happens, it usually ends in disappointment of some kind.
Sometimes its better to leave things as a fantasy so you can always enjoy it and return to it. Other times, and depending on the person, its better to act out your fantasy and move on to the next. I think it depends on the person and the amount of fantasies they can imagine or stir up.
In this case, your fantasy meets reality. The fantasy is based on your girlfriend who has nice feet and you fantasize about them on a daily basis, the question is what are you fantasizing about feet or your girlfriend? My guess is feet, which means when the scenario comes to life, guess what, its your girlfriend at the end of those feet. It sort of kills the fantasy as you know its your girlfriend and you can have her any time, including her feet.
I think if you met a stranger on line and convinced her to meet you somewhere private that your fantasy of kissing and sucking her toes would be a little more interesting. I don't think you would want it to end because you know you will never get it again.
In having said all the above, wouldn't you agree that a fantasy is a fantasy because it is not supposed to happen or if it does, it will be on a rare occasion? Thats why we spend so much time fantasizing about it in the first place. We don't think it will really happen.
In your case, its worse, it will happen and it will happen over and over again, thus killing the complete essence of the fantasy.
Not sure if I helped or not.
MWAH D
Posted by nolefan (Member # 34752) on :
Unfortunately I'm right there with you brother. I have been in LOVE with female feet since I turned twelve. I have fantasized often about sucking toes. As an adult, I have sucked on my share of toes but always seem let down afterwards. I think its just in our heads. Trust me. I will keep sucking toes til I'm satisfied. Danelle Moore has delicious looking feet. I wouldn't mind sucking on her little piggies
Posted by vanderfeet (Member # 8733) on :
LOL @ UK_luckyguy
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
I do not get disappointed at this particular time in my life. I really enjoy it.
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