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Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
Let me explain this a bit--a few months ago, I posted a video clip that turned off at least 3 dudes (meaning 3 was all that responded to show their dislike--more probably saw and didn't like but didn't post) It was a video of 1 guy with 3 girls--at one point, the guy is getting blown while getting his ass licked and fingered.

(The video went off the deep end for me--the first 5 minutes is what I just explained--the remaining 20 minutes or so involved the guy gettin fucked with a dildo--that I don't like even in my head)

This is something that has always turned me on in my head, but I think I'd be too weirded out to try it out. It looks like it would feel amazing, but in a way it may be too gross for me to subject a girl too. Now it goes the other way too--I've gotten off to vids or just fantasies of me licking a girl's ass to orgasm. I don't know if I would really try this.

To bring it on home to a foot theme, I fantasize all the time (and am in fact excited right now) about worshipping a girl's feet right out of sneakers with no socks. In my head this turns me on as much as anything, but as something I've actually tried in real life, (as opposed to any ass action) the smell is just too strong for me, and in fact, as a specific type of smelly foot guy, is not the type of smell I like in feet.

How is this to be explained?
 
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
You have never tried licking a womans anus? Well I advise that, it's hot as hell. Be safe though, make sure it's clean or use a dental dam.
 
Posted by FFMike (Member # 30698) on :
 
It's great although the first time you lick a balloon knot it tastes like a copper penny. It's unbelievable how much a woman gets turned on by this.
 
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Too true FFMike, if you can lick a woman's ass half as good as you do everything else she won't forget it.
 
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by DancingFool:
This is something that has always turned me on in my head, but I think I'd be too weirded out to try it out. It looks like it would feel amazing, but in a way it may be too gross for me to subject a girl too. Now it goes the other way too--I've gotten off to vids or just fantasies of me licking a girl's ass to orgasm. I don't know if I would really try this.

Fantasy, especially if not bounded by reality (in other words, you've never experienced it) can be extremely heady. Unfortunately I've found that the fantasy can often surpass the reality.

I'll often get quite horny and aroused planning sexual activites to do with my wife, but often the reality just doesn't happen the way I fantasized about it. In some case I fantasize about things she'd never do- that can be extremely arousing.

[ March 24, 2009, 09:39 PM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
 
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
 
This is an interesting question that really has me thinking. I'm of the type that likes to keep my fantasies bounded by reality. I don't really have anything that turns me on in my head but wouldn't do it for me in real life. However there are some fantasies that I have that absolutely must involve a certain person if they were to happen IRL though they can never realistically happen. It's more than a fantasy about a certain person mind you. I think it may be a comfort thing. [Cheers]
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
the day i discovered that my "reality based" fantasies didn't have the potential of exciting me that much in reality, i made a point of limiting that amount of mental energy!

some scenes, had i been single still, or with another woman, would take place and can be very very arousing (not like in my head) but just as instense.. however.. my lady isn't really into that scene or themes.. she's played along, but not with much enthusiams to make me happy. so.. i've stopped.

i hate getting reved up and excited only to be let down.. so.. i stay away!

so, for feet, i don't allow myself to get too excited about when i'll play with her feet straight out of pumps. because she's not the very 'active' type when it comes to that. but.. every once in a while she surprises me. she rather sit and watch me enjoy.

further more, she tends to only wear her heels on the weekends, not to work like when we used to date.

RPM
 
Posted by Soopaman Lova (Member # 2743) on :
 
I'm probably gonna get chewed out for this but....footjobs. I have always been turned on by the idea but I've never had one. On top of that, I don't see how I would cum. I dunno. I guess it's becuase I never had one.
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
soopaman.. you're not alone there.. i thought a FJ with hose would be fantastic.. never had one.. but came close twice with wifee.. not the same way i pictured it in my head!!!

RPM
 
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RPM:
.. my lady isn't really into that scene or themes.. she's played along, but not with much enthusiams to make me happy. so.. i've stopped.
i hate getting reved up and excited only to be let down.. so.. i stay away!

Exactly. Same sentiments here my friend. Nothing pours cold water on a "get together" faster than your fantasies not coming true or your desires getting met. And half enthusiasm is the same as none at all to me.
 
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
 
Sure -- getting married and having kids.

In my mind I imagine the perfect scenario, then I look at people engaged in the realities of being a parent and/or spouse and I'm turned off completely.

I'd rather spend my time, money and energy elsewhere than on a marriage. I certainly don't want the responsibility of being a parent.
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
Hmm, I hadnt thought of the 'wife/girlfriend not being into it' angle--thats a commmon reason a fantasy wouldn't live up to expectations. Had a girlfriend once who said, and I quote, that me licking her feet 'felt like you were licking my thigh or something.' My pleasure is tripled if the girl gets into it vocally.

Something else that didn't quite live up to the fantasy in my head is getting a blowjob with my hands tied--not that it wasn't great, it was, but the bondage didnt add anything to the experience--I might as well have been literally sitting on my hands.
 
Posted by FootFugger (Member # 3098) on :
 
I'd have to say my one and only 3 way experience. Perhaps because it was me, my former best friend and his now ex-wife. She had always been flirty with me and forward. She pressed him to have a 3 way on more than one occasion and he got down right pissed a few times. You have to bear in mind I was 19 and they were both 20 at the time.

Eventually he caved in and I was like hell yeah. Being 19, single and care free. Why not, she was pretty, had a great body (1 kid) and nice D cups. Later on she also ended up being my first Footjob. [Smile] It ended up being more awkward than sexy. lol

She took turns sucking us both and I swear it took me forever to get fully hard I was so nervous. I didn't know where to look or what to look at half the time. I was going with it, then I would realize I am banging my BFF's girl with him. lol Kinda would weird me out for a minute.

I mean here I am hitting her from the back while she blows him. We both look at each other and are like...uhhhh....and look away real fast. I'm kinda chuckling thinking about it now. The only cool part was that I lasted forever and I purposely didn't stroke for like a week and a half before that weekend.

So when she asked me to cum on her tits I blew a massive load. My friend...not so much. Then again he was getting laid like every night to my couple times a month if I was lucky at the time. lol Long story short she was too freaky for him.

They were together from 15-20, married at 21, divorced at 22. She went a little wild, I think the 3 way kinda set things in motion and he knew it. Jacked our friendship all up. She ended up stepping out on him, I gotta admit they were still together when the footjob happened.

So in retrospect I kinda wished it had never happened. It was kinda cool and sexy. But it seemed a lot of damage resulted from it. Probably would have happened either way, but it still sucks to know I was part of it.
 
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
 
I promised myself I wouldn't post this....but I gotta tell somebody. I really luv it when women wear strap-ons!

Before anyone gets any weird/sick ideas....I'm not daydreaming about chicks fuckin' me up the ass!! I refuse to "go there!" But what's even more sick than that...is admitting that I've actually asked my ex-gf {who owns a vibrating dildo} to stroke it for me ~ as if she were masturbating! (That gets me off!) Please don't ask me why. [Cry]
 
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by LuckyTeen:
You have never tried licking a womans anus? Well I advise that, it's hot as hell. Be safe though, make sure it's clean or use a dental dam.

I always like to share a shower with my lady before I lick her ass. I make sure it's clean that way, because I clean it for her, and she absolutely loves that also. I love fingering her ass in the shower and her ass and tits all soaped up too. Dayum, I'm getting sort of out of control just writing about it. But, ass licking is just like the old saying, "if you ain't tried it, don't knock it."
 
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Agreed [Cheers] And those that wonder, no it doesn't taste nasty but if the woman didn't look after herself properly then... [Puke]
 
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
 
i know what you mean.

i fantasise about licking a womans anus and for her to fart on my face.

i know that the fart would not be nice in reality. lol

i am still lick a womans anus properly. i think i will enjoy that.
 
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
 
well well well. eating a woman ass is among my favorite thing to do to a woman. to me it isn't a fantasy. it is a reality; and one that i experience every time i have sex.
 
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FFMike:
It's great although the first time you lick a balloon knot it tastes like a copper penny. It's unbelievable how much a woman gets turned on by this.

Ha, Ha. Now that lets me know you know what yer talking about FF!

Eating a woman's ass is heavenly (as well as her reaction to it)! Janet once said that men who like women's feet tend to also like women's asses. Uuuuuh, that would be ME!!!
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
one learns new things everyday!!!

i've always thought i'd enjoy licking the spot where the buttcheek meets the leg/thigh. from fantasy to reality.. oh yeah!!!!

at first wifee thought it'd be weird.. but now.. she finds it very arousing and pleasing. but sometimes 'over-arousing'.

interesting thread.. really
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
Where do you guys stand on armpit licking? Now that I've tried--the best scenario for me is having my lady take a long hot shower, preferably on a hot, hot summer night (I showered WITH a woman once and it's kind of a pain in the ass for me--I'm kind of a big guy and it's just awkward, I don't know--a bath is different though) and after the long shower, we fool around hardcore, get all sweated up, and then I lick her sweaty, undeodaranted armpits. Now that's hot!

It makes sense that foot guys would be into ass--I'm also into licking the back of the knee. That about completes the list of widely regarded 'dirty' parts of the body. But for you guys, is it the taste that turns you on more, or the sensation of these body parts on your tongue? For me, it's both--I'd say 60% to 40% in favor of taste--the woman's reaction is also a key, but that goes without saying, so I won't even include that. Although, how insistent would you be in licking any of these body parts if the woman, even after numerous encounters, was totally NOT into it? That would ruin it significantly for me, and I probably wouldn't force the issue, or, more accurately, not date the girl for that long!
 
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
For me it's just really the act itself, so dirty and wrong but I love it. It turns me on that the woman gets turned on having her ass licked.
 
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
 
Maybe it's an aquired taste, but I like it. Mostly though, it's the fact that I'm doing something so downright dirty and raunchy and she LOVES IT even though she thinks it's dirty too. Her reaction to it is key, because if it turned her off, my arousal would dampen significantly.
 
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
ass licking definitely ranks up there for me. my wife and i both love it. how many here have gotten their ass licked tho? hmmmm?

quote:

Where do you guys stand on armpit licking?

one nite, in jest, i tried this in my wife just after she had gotten out of the shower.. and she got majorly turned on. i do it once in a while.. when she is fresh and clean and hasnt put on deoderant. it doesnt do anything for me, but the way it gets her going is cool.
 
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Never recieved it, I am not interested in getting it done to me, just want to give her the pleasure.
 
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
 
I like kinky stuff and have had quite a few experiences concerning things that some might think are odd, but usually they're just as good as fantasy. Only a few things I can think of that I haven't done yet,
 
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
 
This post is hilarious! Eating ass, sniffing pits. I love it. Let freedom ring.
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by nusuth:
ass licking definitely ranks up there for me. my wife and i both love it. how many here have gotten their ass licked tho? hmmmm?

quote:

Where do you guys stand on armpit licking?

one nite, in jest, i tried this in my wife just after she had gotten out of the shower.. and she got majorly turned on. i do it once in a while.. when she is fresh and clean and hasnt put on deoderant. it doesnt do anything for me, but the way it gets her going is cool.
Pretty interesting there mate. I'm intrigued by this idea, and was in fact the basis of this topic for me. I posted a video here a while back, and I got some hell for it.

Tell me what you think. Here is the vid:


http://www.tube8.com/fetish/girls-fuck-a-guy-in-the-ass/75030/
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
Maybe I shoulda put that clip in the adult section? I don't know, but it pertained to the conversation, so I thought it should be here. Wu? Should I remove it?
 
Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by DancingFool:

This is something that has always turned me on in my head, but I think I'd be too weirded out to try it out. It looks like it would feel amazing, but in a way it may be too gross for me to subject a girl too. Now it goes the other way too--I've gotten off to vids or just fantasies of me licking a girl's ass to orgasm. I don't know if I would really try this...
I fantasize ... about worshipping a girl's feet right out of sneakers with no socks. In my head this turns me on as much as anything, but as something I've actually tried in real life, the smell is just too strong for me, and in fact, as a specific type of smelly foot guy, is not the type of smell I like in feet.

How is this to be explained?

I have found that a lot of things that seem cool in a dream world are either repulsive or boring in the real world. At one point I was saying that dreams have to be a counterpoint to reality. But that's not really it. It has more in common with waking up next to somebody that looked beautiful the night before, but now I'm like what was I thinking.
Sex is all part of the reproductive system and everything we feel is somehow related to that, sometimes in indirect ways. Sometimes in complicated ways. Maybe feeling attracted to ass and sneakers is just nature's way of removing obstacles to intimacy. But then when you try to embrace ass & sneakers, nature says whoa- you're close, but that's not your goal, don't get distracted.
We don't have to do as nature directs all the time because reproduction is not always our goal every time we have sex or get sexy. (True love and intimacy is a better goal anyway, but getting off aint so bad either.) But if we're surfing on nature's way we want to know how the wave breaks - "how nature thinks". I think nature's way is basically to try everything, preferably all at once. Like if nature provides a variety of men attracted to all different parts of a woman's body, then whatever part of her body a female is most comfortable sharing, there will be some males attracted to it. To them it might seem all about that part of the body, but to nature's way it's a possible access point to a bonding that could end up increasing the birth rate.
What do the other animals do - the other mammals? I know a lot of them sniff piss and asses - I think some of them lick it too. It's part of their ritual. And then they make babies.
 
Posted by Not Dougal (Member # 34090) on :
 
Hmmm...yes.

Foot related, I like the idea of smelly feet and domination but I'm a not a submissive person in real life at all and it wouldn't work if I knew the person.

If the line could be drawn between roleplay and real life then that'd be fine, but I can't see the two things remaining fully separate.
 
Posted by KpandP25 (Member # 10345) on :
 
I love the thoguht of being trampled by a big woman .. totally dominated. But when it happened I found out I was working to hard to keep my chest from collapsing that I did not enjoy it.

On the ass licking thing... I really get into it when I am drunk. And I agree that most women I have done this to absolutely loved it.
 
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
quote:

Sex is all part of the reproductive system and everything we feel is somehow related to that, sometimes in indirect ways. Sometimes in complicated ways. Maybe feeling attracted to ass and sneakers is just nature's way of removing obstacles to intimacy. But then when you try to embrace ass & sneakers, nature says whoa- you're close, but that's not your goal, don't get distracted.
We don't have to do as nature directs all the time because reproduction is not always our goal every time we have sex or get sexy. (True love and intimacy is a better goal anyway, but getting off aint so bad either.) But if we're surfing on nature's way we want to know how the wave breaks - "how nature thinks". I think nature's way is basically to try everything, preferably all at once. Like if nature provides a variety of men attracted to all different parts of a woman's body, then whatever part of her body a female is most comfortable sharing, there will be some males attracted to it. To them it might seem all about that part of the body, but to nature's way it's a possible access point to a bonding that could end up increasing the birth rate.
What do the other animals do - the other mammals? I know a lot of them sniff piss and asses - I think some of them lick it too. It's part of their ritual. And then they make babies.

uh.. i think you're way off on this one darwin. lol. sex is ALL about reproduction in about 99.9% of all living things. our fetishes's, whether it be foot smelling or getting pissed on, are an abnormality. it's not a way to make sure all females get impregnated. in strictly biological terms, if a woman is not attractive, she's a potential genetic dead end. biology does not ensure that all women produce offspring, only the most viable ones. the things that all males are attracted to are signs that they will be able to produce strong offspring ensuring the continuation of YOUR genes. big boobs? good to nurse your young. sexy curves? sign that she is healthy and can produce young and live to raise them. etc. sure, those things dont mean shit now, but we are basing that on only the last 500 years or so.. place that next the 1,000's of years before that, our biological impulses havent had time to change to reflect what will ensure your lineage.
 
Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by nusuth:

uh.. i think you're way off on this one darwin.

You're probably right. My theorizing is speculative. But the reason I keep speculating is because I think there are too many footguys for it to be just an aberration. I keep thinking there must be more to it than that. Oh well, dream on . . .
 
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
tom, dont bother bud. realize that its an aberration that is based on no biological need and is just purely for pleasure.

glass half full my friend [Wink]
 
Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst:
This post is hilarious! Eating ass, sniffing pits. I love it. Let freedom ring.

hahahahaha well said [Tongue] MLK would be proud
 


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