I just extinguished a relationship I had with a gorgeous girl I've been dating over the last month. She was attractive, intelligent, good natured, giving and open minded. She even agreed to give footjobs (which were not that good).
The chemistry just wasnt there for me but more importantly she had some unacceptably ugly looking feet. I just couldnt end up with someone having feet like that despite the other amazing qualities she possessed. Feet feature that prominently with me, that they are intrinsicly connected to my sexual well being. (RPM, I just couldnt overcome !)
Posted by The_FJCruiser (Member # 6007) on :
Hey man you gotta do what you gotta do. I'd do the exact same thing tho.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
Any pics of her feet so we could see them and judge for ourselves?
Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
I would of ended it as well sucks not being able to have your cake and eat it too. Sometimes two people just are not made for each other oh well there are plenty of fish in the sea
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
Sounds like you did the right thing
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
you have your standards and you're sticking to them
nothing wrong with that
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
What did she look like celeb-wise? And did you try to make her feet prettier? I'm sure with a professional pedicure and little practice w/ the footjobs, she could have been wrthwhile. but yeah, like cain said, do you have any pics?
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
To be quite honest - common sense ia not that common. If you think about it.
Sexy feet are waiting for you - don't settle.
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by Elvzz: To be quite honest - common sense ia not that common. If you think about it.
haha ain't that the truth
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
Better you got out sooner rather than later imo.
Posted by Turm (Member # 1048) on :
It probably feels bad now, but you'll be happy you made this decision when you land the next girl with much prettier feet.
Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
I wouldn't have done that...
Posted by curly09 (Member # 33380) on :
fucken oath get outa there, ive had same thing happen.smart hot chick-ugly feet just didnt take care of them,short nails and never painted.but when she went out and put on a pair of closed toe heels she was back on,it was when they came off i just couldnt bring myself to like them.bounced outa that.
Posted by skipperbob (Member # 28525) on :
Like going in the opposite direction. I went with a girl in high school who could have been called at best plain looking (most guys thought she was ugly) but she had amazing legs and feet and was so grateful for the attention she would do anything to me with her feet! Had a great time until her family moved away senior year! Still think of her, wondering if she fixed herself up or if she still likes feet.
Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
Ugly feet is pretty much a deal breaker for me too. It's that important.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Hey guys loved your input, seems like we all think alike. We're still dating though, she didnt wanna let go. She is a sweet girl, I just cant look at her feet.
Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :
what makes them ugly?
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Massive bunion, crooked toes, no arch.
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
Ozboy, you sir are a better man than me.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
Hell yea you did the right thing..
Id rather settle with an average looking girl with smarts, good nature, blah blah blah...but has killer feet, than some hot girl who has smarts, good nature, blah blah blah and ugly feet.
Theres so many girls out there to choose from dude! But whatever one you choose, make sure she meets the "feet criteria"...as i like to call it...
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
In such matters, you gotta stick with your feelings; if there's no magic there, it better serves both of you to go separate ways.
Posted by Mr. Manny (Member # 6895) on :
I will never forget an experience in college in which I had this gorgeous girl who really had a crush on me. However, her feet were just plain ugly. The best pedicure would not have made a difference. People just couldn't understand why I didn't find her attractive. Most of the guys in my class thought I was out of my mind. They absolutely had no idea and I wasn't going to tell them a thing as to why. That was my business. The sad unfortunate truth is that she had troglyte feet. Instead I had a crush on this cute little babe that was flat chested with great nipples, a nice round back end, skull crushing legs and the sexiest feet you could ever hope for. Maybe she wasn't no beauty queen but she really rocked my world. People couldn't understand my reasoning but that was OK. I was in Nirvana. You got to know what you want in order to be happy in the end. REMEMBER THAT!
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Massive bunion, crooked toes, no arch.
The above description is a deal breaker. I don't care how hot or great of a person you are.
There is just too many hot women with great personalities and perfect feet to justify settling.
Posted by Jak (Member # 7343) on :
Like Elvzz said, bottom line: don't ever settle. Not only would it be unfair to you but also to her. Don't rest until you find someone that makes you truly happy every day.
This reminds me of one of my exes, not just any ex though she was THE one in my eyes. Perfect personality (so I thought), just my type physically, but she just had ugly feet. Even though she had ugly feet I was SO in love with her. She actually ended up breaking my heart but at the end of the day I don't know if I would've been truly satisfied with her feet since feet are such an important part of a woman to me. So I look at it as everything happens for a reason.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
quote: quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by ozboy: Massive bunion, crooked toes, no arch. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The above description is a deal breaker. I don't care how hot or great of a person you are.
There is just too many hot women with great personalities and perfect feet to justify settling.
Guys what you say makes absolute sense. However my situation is unique. I'm a divorced 36 year old guy with 3 kids. This chik is 30 without any kids. Its taken me months to find someone who is attractive and willong to accept my situation. Unfortunately I need more justification to dump her.
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