I'm helping to orientate a new employee @ my job. She's very petite, and very attractive! Ever since her arrival, she's been flirting with me on a regular basis. (NO COMPLAINTS HERE!) Well yesterday, I finally decided to return the favor.
I couldn't help but notice her polka dot ankle socks. {Her feet maybe covered, but I still get excited seeing a woman's ankle} I'm a bit near sighted...so I used that as an excuse to ask questions: "Are those little pink hearts, or polka dots on your socks?" Not only did she show me UP-CLOSE, she slipped off her clog completely, and very slowly, began wiggling her toes. Her foot was practically in my lap. This lasted about 5-6 seconds. (That's enough to get me aroused!) No one else was around either. I didn't even blink--I just sat there and stared. NO comments...NO eye contact whatsoever. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!? I could've at least rubbed her feet, or something! Why did I FREEZE up?
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Perhaps you were simply mindful of the "work environment" or the gentleman in you was extra-strong today (I hate it when that happens to me, too). Don't despair though, I get the feeling that another similar opportunity will arise in a short time.
Come to think of it, I envy you for as far as it went.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Cool story! But I would also advise that you be discrete, especially since she's a new employee.
Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
you should of gave her a little tickle.. if nobody knows you have a foot fetish at your job theres no way you can get in trouble bro
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Why worry? It's not like you're never going to see her again. You say she flirts alot, well take it one step further and ask her out to happy hour or something. If shes cool ask her out to dinner and bring her back to your place.
Getting what you want isn't up to chance at all. It's all about social intelligence. You didn't mess up. Her feet aren't going anywhere. And if she's into you, she'll make sure you have them to keep you.
GQguy
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I agree with GQ. It's not like you won't see her again. Plus, maybe it was kind of a good thing you didn't do anything, considering you were at work when this happened. You have to be careful in that environment, as even some innocuous looking things can sometimes be made into a big deal and you end up being accused of sexual harrassment.
Personally, I wouldn't make a big deal about the lack of action on your part. It's not like you can go back and do it over again. It's now in the past. The way it sounds with her flirting, there will probably be more opportunities coming your way. In my opinion, you should try and get any foot related things with her outside the work environment, if it's at all possible in ways like GQ suggested - i.e. happy hour after work, cup of coffee and hanging out as friends, etc.. That way, there's no chance of sexual harrassment coming into play and you'll be in a more relaxed and neutral environment.
Posted by Mikayla's #1 Fan (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: In my opinion, you should try and get any foot related things with her outside the work environment, if it's at all possible in ways like GQ suggested - i.e. happy hour after work, cup of coffee and hanging out as friends, etc.. That way, there's no chance of sexual harrassment coming into play and you'll be in a more relaxed and neutral environment.
That's an excellent idea, Fate111 Thanks so much for your feedback, ALL OF YOU!
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
theres nothing wrong with, its just that she made the 1st move, and maybe you wer not expecting that.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
Well you did just meet here so you don't want to scare her off or have her tell everyone that you are a foot freak if she gets freaked so i think your played it safe while enjoying the benefits...
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
because you were at work and want to maintain the fact that you do. But Nice job with the flirting.
Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: theres nothing wrong with, its just that she made the 1st move, and maybe you wer not expecting that.
That happened to me a while back, but this was at MY house, and i wanted to kick myself after the girl left. Long story short, she came over one night after work. out of nowhere she takes her sandals off and says "my feet hurt, rub them for me" and she moves them towards me. I just looked at her and laughed kinda and was like, "your feet hurt?? you really want me to do that" and she was like "yes they hurt alot" and i was like kinda freaking out, I didnt expect that at all. Well to cut it short, nothing happened, she just put them back down after another chuckle from me and we went on to something else. I think the only reason I didnt do anything was because of the fact that I HAVE a foot fetish, and I didnt want her to think anything. I guess I should have gone w/ it, who knows if it would have led to something else? Well theres always that next time.....I HOPE!
Posted by UK_luckyguy (Member # 15149) on :
my best mate's girlfriend once offered me her gorgeous size four foot and asked me to suck her toe because it had come up on a TV programme that a group of us were watching and my best mate wouldn't do it.
I froze up as noone knew of my fetish back then, I didn't tell my close friends until my early twenties. I shook my head and said "no way"
to this day I STILL kick myself. I could have passed it off as just being up for a dare...she has some of the best feet I've ever known. The only girl I ever knew who has religiously maintained salon visits for pedicures.
Ahhh one day. one day.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hmmm. I'm not so sure about sucing on toes of women or giving them foot massages just because they ask me to. I'd give a foot masssage to a woman that I know looks at me as more than just a "friend". Toe sucking? We've got to be getting pretty physical for me to go that far. But thats just me. Sometimes women test you simply for the fun of it and that what the two previous post sound like. A woman testing her feminine "power"(for lack of a better word) over a couple of guys. Just like a girl asking a guy for a drink at the bar and then giving it to one of her girlfriends.
Imagine the reverse. you come home late from work with your coworker and you pull off your shirt to get a back massage? Or you pull of your shoes to get a back massage? Wouldn't work right?
Or the other reverse situation. After watchingtoesucking on tv imagine asking your girl to perform the act, after she declines imagine asking her girlfriend? Wouldn't work.
I'd say relax. More opportunities will come, especially if women are attracted to you. Then you can make your own opportunities.
And if a chick ever takes her shoes off asking for a footmassage. Agree, under the condition that you get a massage of some sort too. That way she gets that you giving the masage is pleasure for you on it's own. Later along you can go without.
GQguy
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
***UPDATE***
Not trying to put anyones business "out there" ~ BUT...
Just in case you guys/gals were wondering
I am no longer interested in the woman I met three-and-a-half months ago! Long story short....
She's got issues Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Sometimes women test you simply for the fun of it and that what the two previous post sound like. A woman testing her feminine "power"(for lack of a better word) over a couple of guys.
Probably a few positives of being an AFC. If you're not in the mood for shit tests you know they won't approach you anyway Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
just imagine if you guys did have a little fling after work and it went sour. Now this chick works with you and probably will tell everyone in the office
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mr.Papers: just imagine if you guys did have a little fling after work and it went sour. Now this chick works with you and probably will tell everyone in the office
Yeah, that would suck!
btw, DeadGoon...what's an AFC?
(a foot connoisseur?)
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Weekend_Warrior:
quote:Originally posted by Mr.Papers: just imagine if you guys did have a little fling after work and it went sour. Now this chick works with you and probably will tell everyone in the office
Yeah, that would suck!
btw, DeadGoon...what's an AFC?
(a foot connoisseur?)
I do believe, if it's the acronym from the singles/seduction community, it stands for "Average Frustrated Chump".
Too bad about the girl having "issues", Weekend Warrior. Sometimes it's just not worth the crap to get with a girl, no matter how hot her or her feet are.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
all is well that ends well. GQ gave some great points early in the thread. and now that you know she has issues, good thing you 'froze' up. it's all good.. being too eager has backfired more than being cautious
RPM
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by RPM: all is well that ends well. GQ gave some great points early in the thread. and now that you know she has issues, good thing you 'froze' up.
Best response I've read all week! Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
quote:Originally posted by Weekend_Warrior: ***UPDATE***
She's got issues
Alas! So many of them do - happens ever more often with age.
Glad you escaped before you became ensnared.
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fate111:
btw, DeadGoon...what's an AFC?
I do believe, if it's the acronym from the singles/seduction community, it stands for "Average Frustrated Chump".
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I could've at least rubbed her feet, or something! Why did I FREEZE up?
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