i know most of us are visual to a point, but just how much is differnet. i was, for most of my life, primarily visual. i had not urges to touch a womans foot or have any contact. even now, i dont usually feel that way about any woman's foot except for my wife's feet. i am mostly happy to just look.
one way to really test this out is imagine you have a woman who is really hot and has sexy feet. now you're in bed with her and you are getting all hot and heavy and things lead down the foot related path and you are getting your favorite foot-related activity.. whether it be a FJ, sucking toes, whatever.. how would it impact your enjoyment of the activity if the light were off?
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
I always leave the light on when my wife's feet are in my face.
Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
Same here...I am probably 90% visual, maybe even more. A bit of dim light is usually a must in bed.
-Hal-
Posted by tonyiii2000 (Member # 8177) on :
I might be 100% visual. I don't know if I'd ever cum with the lights off. But with them on! My wife can press the right buttons to call me a "minute man"...
She also doesn't understand why a foot in my lap while watching tv always leads to sex. If she left her feet under the blanket I could hold out, but she teases by letting them out of the blanket...knowing I'm catching looks.
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
I would say i maybe 50/50.... I like for kim to give me visual aids while she strokes me or i service myself while looking at her. However, even in the dark i know what part of the feet i'm at and servicng and have no trouble getting the load deposited
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Pretty near 100% for me too! Hate it with the lights out, and not just for her feet!
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I'd say I'm about 95% visual...for example if Im getting a FJ in the dark I can last a helluva lot longer because I have to use my imagination a lot more! But if the lights are on..well..things are over a lot quicker,plus its more enjoyable because I can see my dick fucking her feet...as opposed to imagining what it looks like.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
hum.. by near default of our Y chromosome, we'll want the light on.. that is cross cultural too. men want to see.
that said.... i'm a visual-auditory-tactile person.. yeah.. it's a mouthful.. and when i was first told that.. i was like.. wtf.... the school counselor who discovered that said that is a rare combo.. most are either visual-tactile... or visual-auditory (women are different combo's.. men tend to be a combo of visual and something else).
so.. yes.. i want the light on.. but i can live with it off and get 'off' just fine.. but the other senses takes a little more time.. but i much rather the light on. thankfully,my wife doesn't insist on the light off.. and i don't always object to the light off.
RPM
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
I'm very visual, as to better appreciate the beauty of the woman or girl I'm fooling around with. I'd like to say that I use 100% of all my senses.
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I like being able to see what pair of feet I'm enjoying
Posted by fraqtal (Member # 2073) on :
Feet are just great to all the senses. Touch. Smell. Sight. and i suppose "sound" of feet are good, like softly rubbing against your ears.
i like to be able to see them, but i could get off either way whether the lights were on or off because SMELL is more dominant of a sense for me.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote:i like to be able to see them, but i could get off either way whether the lights were on or off because SMELL is more dominant of a sense for me.
this is exactly what i was getting at actually. obviously all of us are visual primarily because we're men and that is just typical. that being said, when i am kissing my wife or get oral or having sex, i do not need the lights on at all to enjoy it. i'd say it was 80% tactile/20% visual. seeing her and what we're doing certainly adds to the excitement and pleasure, but if was to never have the lights on again, i wouldnt suffer. when it comes to any foot play, i think i might be almost opposite. i would so much rather see her feet than actually touch them. when sitting on the couch, i'd rather her have them propped on the table between me and the tv than on my lap under a blanket with my hands massaging them, trying to warm them up.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I am very visual of all women's feet... Obiviously i only want to reach out to touch or fondle the sexy ones but i am married so i mostly enjoy them from a distance unless i get the occacional lap dance from a stripper or such. I am getting upset as the colder weather approaches and the sexy feet get tucked away for winter hibernation.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
I'm very visual too. If the lights are out I'll have to turn on a lamp to see. I wonder if blind people have a problem fucking? Hmmmm....
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I have a visual preference. I've had no problems getting off on a woman's feet before when they've either been under a blanket or it has been dark (or both). However, I think I get off sooner when I have the visual aid of seeing her feet in the process.
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But if the lights are on..well..things are over a lot quicker,plus its more enjoyable because I can see my dick fucking her feet...as opposed to imagining what it looks like.