You and your wife/girlfriend are eating at a restaurant. At some point, she takes her shoe off and rubs your leg with her foot. Or if she's really bold, she will rest her foot in your lap. Perhaps she's inviting you to have sex with her, or maybe she's just doing it to make you hot and bothered! This was done well before most people knew about foot fetish. To me, it suggests that women have long known about the power their feet have to seduce men. What do all of you think?
Posted by lickwomantoes (Member # 2404) on :
yes i think the same if a woman know how to use her feet to get a man going he be her slave to her
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i think its a subtle flirtatious thing. its a step beyond her resting her hand on your hand or arm but her foot touching you becomes a little more sexy i think to the non-foot fetish public cause it's out of view and sneaky. i think putting all this emphasis on everything being foot oriented is a little biased.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: i think its a subtle flirtatious thing. its a step beyond her resting her hand on your hand or arm but her foot touching you becomes a little more sexy i think to the non-foot fetish public cause it's out of view and sneaky. i think putting all this emphasis on everything being foot oriented is a little biased.
Very true.
However, having a foot fetish makes the whole ordeal all the more sexy.
The wife does this a lot, and the novelty has never worn off.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
My girlfriend does this, too, and the novelty never wears off!
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: having a foot fetish makes the whole ordeal all the more sexy
absolutely, but i was referring to the original question which was...
quote: To me, it suggests that women have long known about the power their feet have to seduce men
that is the point that i disagreed with. i think we are so foot-centric that we find connections where there are none.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
before the whole foot-centric aspect of connections existed, yes.. footsies did exist. touch has always been a way to communicate. depending on where and what settings you were in, hand or feet could have been used to let the partner know how they felt.
i think what made footsies more 'accessible' for seduction purposes was the advent of the pump. the shoe could now be easily removed and replaced.. opening the door for footsies as a means of communication discretely. that also came around in part with women's increasing power and autonomy (loosely put.... not literally).
have women from 'way back' known about how feet work, i say yes. seen enough history channel to think so. sure, not a major authority......
i think the real 'power' comes now.. that more women know that there are guys who get weak in the knees by feet. that is where the real growth of power comes. back in the day, it was more subtle and more individual and less 'cultural'.
RPM
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
I had an asian gf with sexy slender feet and long toes. I told her about my fetish. Altho. when shen she used to brush up against me with her foot she would say sorry...never got into it I guess. ergo she is no longer with us. So knowing something means nothing unless you do something about it, yea?
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
That's true. She probably wasn't comfortable with it, Elvzz. A shame. RPM: I like the points you made!
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: To me, it suggests that women have long known about the power their feet have to seduce men.
no
nusuth speaks the truth
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
thank you mikey. i discuss 'foot' issues all the time with my wife and it's good to have an unbiased perspective. she always laughs and tells me that the ideas and theories thrown around here are sooooooo biased and that feet are not something women think about on a regular basis at all. that open toes song by katherine mcphee? no, she isnt singing about toes cause she knows their power.. its just a fun song about shoes. a woman getting a pedicure? no, it's not because she knows how it will attract men.. it's that most women like to look good and it's not much different than make-up for her feet. etc, etc, ad naseum.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
nusuth, agreed.. women don't think about feet like we do at all. but one thing is for sure, women do get competitive amongst themselves and will be more aware of what they look like in those competitive moments.
granted, it's not a subject that is on their minds much at all, but when it is, it's rarely about a guy.. and when it is about a guy, it' because they're with that guy or trying to get with that guy and using feet as a means to get to him if they realize he's sensitive/weakened by feet!
like you said, it's like makeup.. trust me, when a gal is going on a date, she will make sure her makeup is on point, just like her manicure and pedicure.. why? to increase her impressionability. and if she likes the guy and thinks he's really cool and finds out he has a thing for feet (and she's not turned off by it)she'll play it up... to enhance her impressionabilty.
outside of that.. feet is more a topic we Wu's guys fall over and trip over all the time.
RPM
p.s. bet your wife may agree with part of this lol
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: thank you mikey. i discuss 'foot' issues all the time with my wife and it's good to have an unbiased perspective. she always laughs and tells me that the ideas and theories thrown around here are sooooooo biased and that feet are not something women think about on a regular basis at all. that open toes song by katherine mcphee? no, she isnt singing about toes cause she knows their power.. its just a fun song about shoes. a woman getting a pedicure? no, it's not because she knows how it will attract men.. it's that most women like to look good and it's not much different than make-up for her feet. etc, etc, ad naseum.
exactly
i've been saying this for years and people said that i'm being too negative, when in reality i'm being realistic
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: seriously how the hell is that negative??
because most FF guys seem to think the world revolves around feet for them AND every one else. any reference to feet is a nod towards us and you, me or anyone else debunking that theory makes them feel marginalized and less accepted.
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by pedactor:
quote:Originally posted by Mikey P:
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: thank you mikey. i discuss 'foot' issues all the time with my wife and it's good to have an unbiased perspective. she always laughs and tells me that the ideas and theories thrown around here are sooooooo biased and that feet are not something women think about on a regular basis at all. that open toes song by katherine mcphee? no, she isnt singing about toes cause she knows their power.. its just a fun song about shoes. a woman getting a pedicure? no, it's not because she knows how it will attract men.. it's that most women like to look good and it's not much different than make-up for her feet. etc, etc, ad naseum.
exactly
i've been saying this for years and people said that i'm being too negative, when in reality i'm being realistic
i agree that its realistic... seriously how the hell is that negative??
because ignorance is bliss and the truth hurts Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Sometimes she puts her feet in your lap simply because they are cold.
As Freud (apocryphally) said: "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".
Posted by Rafito (Member # 31512) on :
My wife, never looked at feet as a way to seduce me until I told her about my fetish. She said, she never imagined her feet would excite me so much. Not now however. Now she knows what she is doing every time she puts her feet in my lap.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
footsy has the same exitement every time.
every time i experience footsy i start shaking and become out of control.
its crazy.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Rafito: My wife, never looked at feet as a way to seduce me until I told her about my fetish. She said, she never imagined her feet would excite me so much. Not now however. Now she knows what she is doing every time she puts her feet in my lap.
Exactly the same with my wife. Though she had heard of foot fetishists, she never dreamed she'd marry one.
As far as the footsie thing- as others have mentioned, it really depends on how sexually savy a girl is, especially her knowledge that some men love feet. To a girl like this, playing footsie is no question footplay foreplay.
Posted by Lord (Member # 2465) on :
A little off topic but I remember the first time I played footsie. The great age of 14 I snuck into Stacey *******'s sleeping bag on a church camping trip. We were both barefoot, still clothed, I wasnt that lucky that night, we talked for hours and the whole time she rubbed her feet on top of mine and sometimes up my leg as far as the knee. She knew nothing of my fetish I didnt discuss it with her but playing footsie in such close proximity just seemed natural to her, innocent, but still breaking the rules. I will never forget that night, I had blue pebbles for a week.
P.S. For the record I did finally consumate the relationship about 4 months later at a church lock in.
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