If you had a boyfriend/husband that was crazy about your feet and wanted a footjob once or twice a week would that be a nusiance for you? I'm talking here in addition to sex.
My question is how would you feel if you knew that the guy you are with wanted a weekly or twice weekly footjob? Would you view this as a nusiance?
Posted by cathymules (Member # 15805) on :
not at all,but i do find giving a footjob tiring though.but the thought of my boyfriend getting off at my feet is a turn on
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
it is a little strenuous for them but a good girl should always be willing to please her man Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
You have to find positions that accommodate both of you. Particularly, positions that put less strain on your partners legs.
Posted by 2sweet_feet (Member # 32107) on :
I actually don''t mind giving foot jobs in addition to sex. But usually my hubby is satisfied with my giving feet =)
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I had one girlfriend, an aerobics instructor back in the 80's, who thought my passion for feet was odd but found that a foot-job given while lying on her back, with me kneeling or standing at her feet, was a great abdominal work-out. I might add that she had great abs.
Posted by AmberLily (Member # 10907) on :
A good girl should want to please her man, huh... I must not be one of those!
I've married a leg man and not a foot guy, but if he *were* a foot guy then there'd be plenty of time for some foot action some weeks and then other weeks -- maybe not so much. Busy lifestyles can interfere with these sorts of time tables, I'm sure we all agree.
Plus, I'm a huge tease... I enjoy *withholding* for the purpose of building up the anticipation. It's not always about the destination, we know we're going to get there eventually, it should be more about the journey. So much more satisfying. Mmmmmm.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: ...crazy about your feet and wanted a footjob once or twice a week
lol, they're not all too crazy about her feet if they only want one 1-2 times per/week. The really loving boyfriend's and hubby's need that FJ at least twice a day LOL Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
quote: The really loving boyfriend's and hubby's need that FJ at least twice a day LOL
Tyler thats all good but this sort of committment isnt sustainable beyond the short/medium term.
quote: Plus, I'm a huge tease... I enjoy *withholding* for the purpose of building up the anticipation. It's not always about the destination, we know we're going to get there eventually, it should be more about the journey. So much more satisfying. Mmmmmm.
Oh Amber, you're making me quiver at my knees...
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
Great topic -
Since I'm married and don't get much foot action (or any action), its nice to hear from ladies who are so accomodating, and rather enjoy giving foot jobs, etc.
To Ladies: My wife is always got her mind on job, her study, and other daily activities. Sex is almost none (1-2 times every 3 months or so). She does give ma BJ once every 2 weeks or so, that too, just to get me off her back. Feet usually aren't part of anything (except when she's giving me a BJ and wants me to hurry, she'll stick her foot in my face). But there's not satisfaction in that, cuz I know she's only doing that so I'd get done Faster - and that she can get the BJ thing DONE WITH!
I'd be happy if she let me do her feet, or even her shoes once/twice a week or so. Any suggestions how I can get her "involved"?
Thanks.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
girlyfootlvr,
Sorry my friend but that is a BAD situation. Sounds VERY unhealthy to me !! Are you happy with that arrangement? If you arent you need to communicate this to her cause to me that is TOTALLY unacceptable!! Otherwise she will have to be understanding if she catches you in the act with someone else...
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
Well I hope not. I do understand life can get busy for all of us and finding time to get some quality time can be a challenge, but I think couples need to find ways to stay connected. FJ/HJ/BJ/lunch@theY --I ain't too proud /massages are great ways to maintain that connection outside of MountNdos . IMHO . And there are other creative ways, but we humans need that physical touch from time to time .
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
Well, we actually love eacth other - at least I do love her. We hug, sometimes kiss (not passionately though), I grab her once in a while, we hang out and like each other's company... (kinda like gf / bf in high school go out to the lake or dinner, etc) BUT somehow, the Romance isn't there. She thinks sex is something for other people, or people who have free time, or its a useless thing.... She doesn't really get turned ON by anything, however, we talk about other ppl a lot.
We don't fight or anything about it, cuz when I do complain, we end up laughing.. and that's about it. She KNOWS I'm into feet, and we both check out other girl's feet sometimes at the Mall, etc. Sometimes she just wants me to shut up so she'll rub her foot on my chest and expects me to get ALL EXCITED about it! However, she doesn't really get involved or do anything to make her feet look nicer...
... Kinda useless relation huh?!!!
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
If that suits you then why not, but for me it wouldnt cut it !!
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
Sounds to me like you kinda like the neglect.
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
quote:Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst: Sounds to me like you kinda like the neglect.
No, I don't. I hate her every night, and we don't talk much in bed. But next day, I still care of her, she IS after all my wife, so I do love her. But just can't put up with this b.s anymore. I'm gonna find a gf for my needs I guess, but dont have the time, or sources right now..
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by girlyfootlvr:
quote:Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst: Sounds to me like you kinda like the neglect.
No, I don't. I hate her every night, and we don't talk much in bed. But next day, I still care of her, she IS after all my wife, so I do love her. But just can't put up with this b.s anymore. I'm gonna find a gf for my needs I guess, but dont have the time, or sources right now..
Consider seeking professional help, dude. There is no shame in your game. 1+1=2 and it takes 2 to really tango.
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by girlyfootlvr:
quote:Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst: Sounds to me like you kinda like the neglect.
No, I don't. I hate her every night, and we don't talk much in bed. But next day, I still care of her, she IS after all my wife, so I do love her. But just can't put up with this b.s anymore. I'm gonna find a gf for my needs I guess, but dont have the time, or sources right now..
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