I was having this discussion with someone i talk to on msn the other day.
but say you have a set of pictures/clips of a girl and she died, how would you feel about watching that material again whilst doing your thing?
me personally id probably have to delete all of it out of respect, but one of my contacts said he would still watch them, what are your views on the subject?
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
HMMMMMMMMMMMMMM...seems like you're following up on the Betty Monroe thread...
I would have to say I'd watch them if they were good.
Unless, it was my wife ,then I'd be tooo upset.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
What if it's an old photo of a barefooted girl? Or an old movie with a scene in it of a barefoot actress? Or an old painting showing a barefoot model? In those cases, I have no problem. But if it was a picture of my girlfriend who recently diead, I guess that would bother me a lot.
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
pornstar Haley Paige died if I am not mistaken and she did some foot stuff. I have no issues watching the vids. A person I know would be different and I would not engage.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
Well, nobody around here ever seems to object to the occasional barefoot shots of the likes of Marilyn Monroe or Audrey Hepburn. I think I could still watch, but like everyone else has mentioned, not if it was someone I knew personally.
Posted by Solelova05 (Member # 11076) on :
quote:Originally posted by Panic: pornstar Haley Paige died if I am not mistaken and she did some foot stuff. I have no issues watching the vids. A person I know would be different and I would not engage.
I have some of her material as well, and I absolutely agree.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Pursuant to another thread from about a week ago, I have a couple of Exes that have achieved room temperature. I do have many nude & foot photos of them and have sorted out the issue, at least for myself:
I can't believe that people do not have erotic memories of loved ones long gone and don't find themselves somewhat turned-on by those recollections. A photograph is simply a piece of captured light from a moment in time...a concrete part of a memory. I think that it helps one more accurately recall the moment.
Additionally, these photos are a gift from that person who knew at the time that there would be "uses" for those photos in the future. One girlfriend asked me if I was going to be tossing-off when I looked at the photos I was taking. I replied in the affirmative to which she responded, "Well, I hope so". Years later, recalling the aforementioned exchange, I asked another girlfriend if she knew what I'd be doing when I looked at the pics. She thought for just a moment and said, "You'll be jacking-off, right? Take more, I want you to look at these a lot."
I can't imagine any of my girlfriends carrying a sentiment forbidding me to think of them and ALL (walks in the park go right along with romps in the sack) that we did should she die later.
Each one would very likely tell me that, in life, they did what they could do to turn me on and get me off; that they could still do it to me from the grave would mean they were every bit as sexy - if not sexier - as they thought they were.
Honestly, wouldn't you like to think that photos of you were stimulating others long after you were dead? (From what I know of them, Anna Malle, Krysti Lynn, and Megan Leigh would all raise a hearty toast to those that joined them in emphatically shouting "YES!!!")
In short then, I've got no problem with it...I'm celebrating them.
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
i'd delete them but not out of respect, how exactly is it respectable anyways?
call me crazy but i just feel that once a person is dead and their body is rotting and decaying they are no longer whacking material
i can't understand how guys still drool over marilyn monroe, knowing how bodies decompose and hers was mutilated during an autopsy
i said before that i liked anna nicole smith in the mid 90's but then she got fat and i never could look at her the same
even when she lost the weight i still couldn't get that impression out of my mind, once she died there was no chance of her ever crossing my mind again in a sexual way