in the last few weeks, in my male dominated field, i got a new manager. she is an attractive woman. easily better than average. if i were to guess i would say she is between 32-35, 5'6"-5'7" with a porcelain complexion and some absolutely gorgeous size 9's if i was to guess. she ALWAYS wears sandals and has many a pair of them. she is actually very cool so far. i actually made a comment to her one day that she has a ton of shoes, to which she responded, "of course, i'm a girl!" today she was standing next to my desk dipping while she ws talking to my neigbor and i had to make another compliment, this time pointing out my affinity for hot shoes, and she was very flattered. she always has an immaculate pedicure, and from the few weeks she has been in my dept i have noticed that she *ALWAYS* dips dangles and flexes when she is standing still. OMG. and me....i just stare mezmerized. figure i'll never get a pic of them but man did i have to share that she has some gorgeous feet. fan-ta-sy.... now i'm not going to make a move as she is very happily married but if there is a way i can make my fetish known in a safe way (translation: not get fired) i will do it. wouldn't be the first time i have told a woman at work that she has some hot feet....i love a challenge.
Posted by WillJerk4Feet (Member # 21497) on :
Damn dude, you got to go undercover for us and get a pic or two of those babies! That would just tear me up too if she was dipping n dangling all the time at work. Keep us informed of how it's going there every now n then.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
you are a lucky guy.. but i dont get it. why would you make your preference known to her if there is no chance of anything happening and plenty of chances of a bad outcome.. making her uncomfortable, making her wear less sexy shoes, even as you suggested, getting fired.
Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :
i wouldn't say anything if i were you if you know nothings gonna happen or you'll get fired like nusuth said, but sounds like a hell of a fantasy. if your that into her feet maybe you should get some pictures depending on how crazy you get! lol good luck and enjoy the show i suppose!
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: you are a lucky guy.. but i dont get it. why would you make your preference known to her if there is no chance of anything happening and plenty of chances of a bad outcome.. making her uncomfortable, making her wear less sexy shoes, even as you suggested, getting fired.
to answer your question is easy. i dont have to have them to enjoy them. if she knows i enjoy seeing them and in turn makes sure i get to see them, then i am happy. i'm not worried about getting fired. i have a pretty good feel for situations with women and know how to word things in a way that gets my point across in a safe way. i think it is just as fun to get to look and watch her dip and pop and it would be even cooler if she know how much i enjoy just that alone. you never know what situation would arise to address that and that alone. but i am in no way trying to literally have her feet.
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
Honestly in my opinion I wouldn't say anything because you have two things going against you. 1. She's happily married. 2. You're in a work environment.
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
to me there is barely a risk, cos i would have to say something outlandish to get in trouble. i wouldn't do that. most everywoman in my company, hell my building, knows about my fetish and the vast majority of them get a kick out of it. it may sound like i am tooting my own horn here but i have been able to successfully, and in a non treatening way, convey my love of feet in a totally non threatening way. you dont have to always say something direct. keep hammering home the same point and anyone would pick it up. it would be like always complimenting a woman on her hair, or clothes. if she didnt like her feet she wouldn't always wear sandals and have perfect fresh pedis all the time. signs like that give me the chance to often let her know when i like her shoes or pedicure or something. all the women i have encountered enjoy such compliments. i'll bet there are a ton of women out there that would love to hear that someone appreciates the fact that they take such good care of their feet....and i intend to be that guy!!!!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
most gals at my work knows I either like heels or feet. at first, it created waves.. but over time, because I kept things very professional and very light (in terms of my interests) things went smoothly.
If you have a feel for who is whom, you can get away with it like luv points out.
granted, at times, it will come up in conversation and some who didn't know will raise an eyebrow, but in the end, my reaction to it makes it appear as a bad joke played on me, instead of truth being told.
in the end, it turned out for the best. will i be so open at a new job, depends on the environment. at my current job. i have played it cool enough that most gals are cool with it. some even get upset if i don't compliment their work on their toes or choice of heels. to them, it's refreshing that a guy can notice their effort and not act like a perv about it.
so.. Luv.... keep doign what you do. sounds like you found a working recepie. if it wasn't for that, i'd tell you to cool your jets big time!
RPM
Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
You know what you are doing, and your work place situation way better than any of us...so if you feel cool and confident with your hot new boss, then more power too you.
It sounds like you have the perfect work place situation any one here would love to have...especially given your past contributions of your hot co-worker.
Enjoy, have a blast, keep us posted...and be careful too.
Great post.
Regards, 2swift
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
quote:Originally posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s:
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: you are a lucky guy.. but i dont get it. why would you make your preference known to her if there is no chance of anything happening and plenty of chances of a bad outcome.. making her uncomfortable, making her wear less sexy shoes, even as you suggested, getting fired.
to answer your question is easy. i dont have to have them to enjoy them. if she knows i enjoy seeing them and in turn makes sure i get to see them, then i am happy. i'm not worried about getting fired. i have a pretty good feel for situations with women and know how to word things in a way that gets my point across in a safe way. i think it is just as fun to get to look and watch her dip and pop and it would be even cooler if she know how much i enjoy just that alone. you never know what situation would arise to address that and that alone. but i am in no way trying to literally have her feet.
I agree my friend i often enjoy feet from a distance just by gazing at them and ranking them in my mind at how much i like them.
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
Do what I did one night with one of my young (25) managers. She had her back turned to me, totally slipped her foot out of her brown loafer, and I took it. She jokingly asked me where was I going with her shoe, so I gave it back to her. She didn't know I had a thing for feet until she invited me to her New Year's party, and I grabbed her sister (23), a supervisor who I really like a lot, and gave her an awesome foot massage with lotion. I went for hers, but she said she was ticklish.
Another night she dipped her brown loafers with brown socks, I reached down and tickled her foot. She shrieked, and jumped.
But the kicker was the night she waited for her bf, and I finally got my hands on her sweaty brown socked feet and those super stinky brown loafers of hers. I gave her the first and best foot rub ever. It started with a standing neck and back massage, and then after I had her trust, I moved to her feet--still standing.
Later, I moved her to an office, sat her down, and resumed progress. She told me I didn't have to do that. I left her be, and in less than four minutes, her bf finally arrived--in her car.
So to make a long story short, try to tickle her foot the next time she dips near you. Or if she dangles, take her shoe off her foot, and see if she moves it around or wiggles her toes.
And if you really want to get her. Do what I did with another manager (late 30's), and sniff her shoe.
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
don't think i would go that far jedi...but that does sound like fun. yeah as you guys have pointed out here i do have a great feet for the situation as it were and if there were any threat or the situation to bring it up in a very light manner (and this goes for any woman that i would share these things with) weren't perfect i wouldn't do it. but of course i will keep you guys posted....ps todays shoes were some chunky sexy peep toes and i swear she would drive any of us crazy. they weren't ones you could easily slip off but she was fidgeting and you could tell she was trying to dip and shift her foot around in the shoe. i promise if she is standing still she is doing this....drives me nuts, and that is good enough for me!
p.s. swift - just fyi, i have been bumping into my former foot girl at work and she really wants me to have at them so if i get those again, you will be the first to know....
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Sounds like you have a very pleasant work environment. I envy you that. You have made a wise choice to keep it that way!
Posted by cjmeyer (Member # 1621) on :
Are they hiring?
Posted by KpandP25 (Member # 10345) on :
If you really want to keep your job I would just stay subtle about it and not get too bold. I think commenting on shoes and pedicure are a good way to let her know you are checking out her feet without getting you sent down to HR. She might seem reciptive but grabbing her foot is a real roll of the dice... she could easily consider that a form of assault and you could be gone.
Plus, if all the women at your work place know of your fetish then she will eventually find out about it. I know she is married but she might call you in for a review of your work and ask for a foot massage at some point.
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
i'd never try to touch them or anything. i just want to enjoy the view. i do clever things to let the ladies know about my fetish without really saying much of anything. just friday one of my co-workers walked by in some very sexy 4 inch peep toe sling backs. she has gorgeous feet also (i swear the amount of hot women and feet at my job is staggering - helps to be in FL too!) and as we were walking down the hall i looked down and then said to her "as a man who loves such things, i have to tell you that polish color is HOT!" she giggled sheepishly and said thanks. i got my point across as per usual without really saying anything. and i always compliment on polish colors and shoes....after a while it wouldn't take a genius to figure out where i'm coming from. and as you can see there is very little risk involved. plus i have the rep of being the office flirt so i prolly get away with more than others would.
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That would just tear me up too if she was dipping n dangling all the time at work. Keep us informed of how it's going there every now n then.
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