as pointless as this is i just wanted to share this. ever since i was about 12 (23 now) i always liked female feet but never told anyone. i tried to massage my first g/fs feet by making up some stupid 'dare' game that i fixed. didn't work and for years... and many girls later i still hadn't told anyone.
so ive been with my current girl for 5 years now. i suggested we have a night where we tried new things and i asked if i could kiss her foot. she let me and i just kept doing it. neither of us said the words 'foot fetish' but i think she knew! either way she liked it! so for all them years i was hiding behind this stupid fear that she'd dump me or think i was weird. but shes happy because it feels good and i'm happy because... well!
anyone else have a 'coming out' story? Posted by wanttosucktoes (Member # 28591) on :
Me and my girlfriend have sex or at least a blowjob every night we hang out. I have not come out to her about it. But....if we having sex i put her feet in my face, and if shes giving me head i suck her toes and ask her let me suck your toes. she says okay and lets me and only every once ina while does she say something like "why do you like that"? I just say Because your feet are cute. And they are.
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
Everyone who waits always wishes they had said something sooner
Posted by moman (Member # 479) on :
Ahter being together for five years, it's pretty obvious that she really loves you and unless she finds out your an axe murderer or something, she will still love you after finding out about your foot fetish! My wife and I have been open about it for about 13 years now - she suspected it long before that, but didn't say anything - she just let me enjoy her feet while we had sex.
MoMan
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
So it took ya five whole years! Well, better late than never. My girlfriend told me she was already aware of my fetish. We worked in the same office together, and I was kinda open about it.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Good for you man- good for you! And it's not pointless either- it's a hallmark day- one you'll never forget and probably never regret. And if you think 5 years is bad try like 23! That's how long it took for me to get up the nerve. But I'll never forget the kind, loving, understanding words of my wife a I related my fetish to her. She really felt bad that I had held in my "secret" for so long.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
A great weight has been lifted from your shoulders...and that's a wonderful thing. Seems as though she enjoys your interests. Try to remember to find out what her interests are, as well, and service those, too.
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
Congrats' bro'! Seriously well done, I bet you wish you had done it sooner, there really is no point worrying.
Posted by samtheman (Member # 31412) on :
it wasnt without expression though. when we first met and in the first few weeks i was too scared to even touch her feet... just incase she jumped to the conclusion too soon! but she used to always want her feet massaged which was pretty fun. it is so good now though. its really stange but this feels like such a massive step for us. good to know i wasnt the only one scared! almost painted my bellow a nice shade of yellow!
Posted by Rafito (Member # 31512) on :
Don't worry I came out a few weeks ago, after being married for 7 years. Now my wife comes every time looking for foot massages from me.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I do not think it was pointless to share your experiences. Its always nice to here other people's stories and how we learn from mistakes and gain experience through dealing with out fetish. Your story is a happy one.
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Seriously well done, I bet you wish you had done it sooner, there really is no point worrying.