Doing things to your GF's or wife's feet while she watches and felt a little wierd? Kinda like you need a little privacy? Sometimes it seems awkward to be sucking her toes and have her looking at me. Just wondered if anyone ever felt this way.
Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
I know where you are comming from, it is like they are watching your everymove lol.
Some suggestions: Get her to read a magazine, watch the TV, use the computer while you get busy..
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
I guess it's that tiny thorn of society-induced contradiction that makes us sometimes self-conscious while we are enjoying ourselves too much at our ladies beautiful feet. Just imagine that she is thinking about the great loving she will receive when you are done getting revved up for lift off.
Posted by ROCK STAR (Member # 2686) on :
get more confidence bro.
i used to feel that way in high school, so i relate. basically.......you jack off alone to feet more than you actually get foot play.
once your foot play happens more than your jack off time for feet, things will change.
but what do i know.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i used to always get tingy shivers when they stared at me like WTF? Then eventually i just got over it, cuz life is too short; just enjoy the feet.
Sometimes if they stare more than i want them too, i just tell them to look at the cameras instead. That's how it usually is with 1st time dates though -- they don't really understand at first.
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
No, I like her watching me, because I can tell in her eyes she likes it and she can see I'm loving doing it and it's turning her on. She can do whatever she wants while I worship her feet.
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
ok guys it's like this. don't you love watching a woman as she is on her knees at your feet BLOWING your mind? doesn't that lil momentary eye contact just make it hotter? seeing how much it turns her on to be turning you on? it's the same thing only your blowing her mind through her feet.
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
I like the eye contact it lets me know if I,m doing right or not.
Posted by sofatater (Member # 4209) on :
Ophillia, your response puts things into perspective. That's why it so great to have ladies participating in this forum. I thank you for your insight. I was never bothered by my lady watching. But, I'm sure your answer calmed a lot of nerves. Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
If you don't like her watching, just roll her over on her belly and do it from there.
_fjb_ Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
My wife has always told me she enjoys everything I do to her feet. Sometimes I do get her to do other stuff while I'm down there.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
there are 2 situations that can happen when i am at my wife's feet. one, she is totally into it and yeah, there is definitely a thrill for her to know i am so into her feet and of course that makes me even more enthusiastic with those toes in my mouth and soles on my tongue. the other situation is when she knows i jonesing badly for her feet and she will so have fun. she isnt really into it, but i also know she accepts me 100% so i feel comfortable doing it.. most times. there have actually been times she's been in bed reading a book while i have been having my fun. lol
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
That is very true. My GF actually said when we started foot fun that she liked watching me and it did make her hot. Sometimes she will just ask me to kiss and lick her feet while she watches t.v or something. I love that.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I'm one of those who doesn't mind having eye contact with a woman if I'm sucking on her toes. Actually, I prefer it. I think it makes for a better experience for both of us, as it allows a connection to happen. Personally, I think it sends the message that I'm sucking on her toes not only to please myself, but also to please and pleasure her.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Though I haven't had that feeling, I think that I can understand it. If I might speculate: There are certain visual images that one does not want to share with the rest of the world. The example that comes to mind (albeit crass) is picking one's nose. I don't doubt the image of you with a mouthful of foot is one that immediately comes to mind as flattering.
As Ophillia rightly points out, this is a wonderful, loving, and intimate act that should be mutually enjoyed.
No one else will be likely to find this funny but I just had a sort of cartoon image flash through my head with a caption of a woman thinking to herself, "There is a man sucking my toes...I'll pretend not to notice."
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
In the beginning my gf and now wife was , but after 14yrs of marriage she knows how I am and finds it cool/ok (in her book). You have to train them how to treat you or (properly) sex you up. If they love you, they are very willing to learn.
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
yeah, I got time to do that.
Posted by xno (Member # 3702) on :
I'd caution AGAINST attempting to do things to get her to look away, not participate, etc. As it is, one of the problems with FF that women seem to have is that to them it seems like you are focused on that interest exclusive of the person attached to the feet. I think it can make them seem dehumanized or somehow secondary to their feet.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Well put xno! My g/f ususally "reads" a book...she never does actually read the book as she is constantly looking at me fucking her feet or sucking on her toes.
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
i would be somewhat insulted if she reads a book or avoids eye contact
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, but after 14yrs of marriage she knows how I am and finds it cool/ok (in her book). You have to train them how to treat you or (properly) sex you up. If they love you, they are very willing to learn.