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Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
 
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Just wondering for all you married members, or memebers in relationships on this forum,

does your spouse know that you are using a foot fetish forum?

or are you doing it secretly without them knowing?

or was it a secret at first, then eventually your partner knew......if so, what was their reaction?
or did they catch you using it? and started asking questions?

So which
a) Your partner knows you are using this forum (how do they feel about using it)

b) Your partner DOESN'T know you are using it

c) They didnt know, but then you told them (what was their reaction + Were you nervous to tell them?)

d) They didnt know, but they caught you (did you get in deep trouble? lol)

If somthing exiting happened/or scary, share your story!

would be interesting to see Everyones case..... so EVERYBODY try and reply to this post.
 

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Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
 
She knows. When we got the computer I told her directly I was gonna become a member here, not only because it's something nicey spicy to share but also because I hate secrets, they make you vulnerable. At the time we'd been together for two years already and had been enjoying the footfetishthing to the max since the beginning.

The difference between being seen as a desperate freak or just somebody enjoying a healthy sexlife, lies in how open and relaxed you are about the whole thing, as talked about in a few threads lately.

How 'bout you Whyme, does your woman know you're a proud member of our big 'family'?
 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
my wife knows.. i've posted pics.. and even asked her to look on. at first. no one knew.. but as she and i dated, i told her. and made a point of showing her.. similar reasons as J.J.

she knows of my site too. seen it a few times.. and i've posted her pics on too.

she's not likely to ever join though. not her cup of tea. her initial reaction was that i leave the site.. she wanted feet to be exclusively between the two of us. but later, she realizedi 'm not on here to get my jollies.. and after reading many of my posts.. she sees it more as a social outlet for me than anything. and i don't put here before her!!

it was hard for her to understand how i can be here, yet, crave her feet so much.. but she likes that... and hopes i never stop wanting her.. she can rest at ease!

RPM
 

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Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.

I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.

My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...
 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
welcome and congrats!!
 

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Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
 
I was a member long ago before being married. Got lost in the times of a new relationship and got marrried to Kim almost 9 years ago.. We have both been on this site ever since being married. She has posted several pics, and even been on the contribution page a time or two... We love the site and it's a great place to hang out.
However, before being married when I was single....I had to hide this web site (LOL) as I only had a puter at work...AHHHH Good times!!!
 

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Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
 
i have not been on long but my husband has always known that i was a member here. he didn't want me to post pictures. he has since seen the light and is letting me post. he is even getting involved i LOVE it!
 

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Posted by Mommie Dearest (Member # 18340) on :
 
I will go with option:

a) Your partner knows you are using this forum (how do they feel about using it) lol

My hubby knows full well where I am online ... he even has an account created but doesn't frequent much on his own choice - he gets lost in his own hobbies online and doesn't make his way here enough.
I have never hid my activities online with my spouse ... I find out in the open is the best way to play the game. He is more likely to trust me if I am honest and up front.
 

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Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
 

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Originally posted by mmmtoes:
My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.

I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.

My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...

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Originally posted by mmmtoes:
My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.

I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.

My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...

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Originally posted by whyme:
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I'm getting curious Whyme, what's your story?
 

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Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
 
When I first joined Wu's I was single..had to hide the history on my browser in case my friends used my laptop. Then when I started going out with my girl which was about 2 or 3 months after I joined here I was on the laptop one day and she came into the room and asked what I was doing and I just simply flipped it around to show her. She browsed around the site and it opened her eyes for sure...she as well didn't realized there was so many people with a FF. From then on she comes on and reads some people's posts...hasn't joined yet though. As you know by now she has let me post her pics a few times and is planning on future developments with it though
 

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Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
 
My partner knows as she modeled her feet for Wu´s contribution gallery about six years back. She`s cool with it.

-Hal-
 

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Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
 
My wife knows, i take pics of her feet to post them here, my computer is in the living room, she sees me reading the posts all the time but, i stay way from trouble by not going into the picture thread in front of her.
 

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Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
 
So Hal, have you been here just three and a half years or were you here under a previous name? I've always wondered felt like you've been around longer than that.
 

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Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
 

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Originally posted by J.J.:

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Originally posted by whyme:
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I'm getting curious Whyme, what's your story?

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Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05:
So Hal, have you been here just three and a half years or were you here under a previous name? I've always wondered felt like you've been around longer than that.

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I had another account but I hardly posted back then...thinking back, I have no idea why...considering that Wu`s is the best foot forum around.

-Hal-
 

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Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
 
My Gf knew about my fetish and she was ok with it.
 

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Posted by Sole-fan1 (Member # 22623) on :
 
No, are you Insane??? You don't know my old lady....
 

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Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
 

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Originally posted by conerz:
She knows....she knows I post on a bunch of forums, a few of them being porn related including feet....we have used pics from Wu's ocasionally when we masturbate together so she knows about the site anyways.

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Care to share the list of other forums with us?


 

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Posted by brek44 (Member # 28601) on :
 
B
 

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Posted by 1heartbreakkid (Member # 28712) on :
 
She knows I'm on especially when she lets me post pictures of her feet. She likes to read the comments.
 

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Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
 
For Us it is option A...she does indeed know I am member here and she poses for pics for Our personal use, and to contribute to this fine forum. She does indeed know of My love of her feet and encourages it, indulges Me, and loves My foot fetish.

She will read posts on here, and has even posted on here herself under My handle, but will identify if it is she who is posting. She loves to read the comments here, and to learn about what others think of her sexy feet, and what others love about the fetish too.

She knows I look at the pics forum too, and will even look with Me, and does not have a problem with Me looking at other women's feet either online, or out in public, and even encourages Me if I rarely happen to miss a pair of feet she thinks I will like, she will point them out to Me. She is great like that.

I just love My fetish.

Regards,
2swift
 

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Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
 

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Originally posted by 2swift:
For Us it is option A...she does indeed know I am member here and she poses for pics for Our personal use, and to contribute to this fine forum. She does indeed know of My love of her feet and encourages it, indulges Me, and loves My foot fetish.

She will read posts on here, and has even posted on here herself under My handle, but will identify if it is she who is posting. She loves to read the comments here, and to learn about what others think of her sexy feet, and what others love about the fetish too.

She knows I look at the pics forum too, and will even look with Me, and does not have a problem with Me looking at other women's feet either online, or out in public, and even encourages Me if I rarely happen to miss a pair of feet she thinks I will like, she will point them out to Me. She is great like that.

I just love My fetish.

Regards,
2swift

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My girl said the same thing to me a couple of weeks back as well Swift! I forget now how she put it but it was along the lines of "I was out at the mall today and I couldn't help but notice at Aldo(shoe store) that this girl had some fugly ass feet!" I was like Did I just hear right?? My girl is now judging other girl's feet?! Fuck me gently I'm converting her!
 

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Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
 
My wife knows I come here and is fine with it. As long as I pamper her feet!
 

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Posted by ned land (Member # 8065) on :
 
My wife knows I am on here, knows I post occasionally and I have even pointed out posts and pics to her. She is still not comfortable with me posting pics of her though and I would NEVER try to make her do anything against her will. It's a shame though since her feet are incredible, but I guess she only wants me to enjoy them. Sorry. ned
 

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Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
 
My GF knew about the site here but she didnt even act like it botherd her when I told her that I spend alot of time here.
 

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Posted by USSoleMan_92 (Member # 29124) on :
 
I joined in Jan or Feb of this year I think. At that time, my wife did not know about this forum. She knew that I visited foot sites like Wus often, but seemed to not really mind. One night in Feb as she and I were on our computers, I decided to check my alternate e-mail. As I did, she turned to see my screen. She took note of this and then began to grill me with questions. Feeling embarrassed, I immediately logged out and left the room. After a few minutes time, I then came back and shared with her this forum, my posts and what I have that alternate e-mail address for. I think she was at first shocked by it all. However, as time has progressed, I think she has become intrigued and turned on by it. Like the rest of you, my fetish is a part of me. By discovering this site and sharing it with her, I feel as if her support for my interest has grown ten-fold. I just wished that I would have shared it with her sooner and not kept things so secretive and shy b/c now I am being asked to rub her feet constantly (daily), buy her new shoes/sandals, toe rings, etc. I am loving it! Thus, if you foot guys are seeking advice several have said it already - have confidence, be open with it and do not let it be a big damn secret!

Regards,
USSoleMan_92
 

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Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
 
Even though I was a member before married, I kept it from my wife until about a year ago. I told her that I put some pics of her feet on the internet and a lot of people said things about them. That made her interested in what the people said. So I showed her the comments people on Wu's said and she was flattered. From that point, I showed her everything about here.
 

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