Guys, i know this kind of stuff is extremely rare, well i thought it was anyway...
But around 1 year ago i found out that my long term g/f has a fetish for nylons/feet also!!!! I was totally shocked and did'nt beleive her. I thought she was just playing up on my fetish but it is totally true!!!
She has always fancy'd women in a "Naughty" way just for a little fun but i never knew nothing about the feet aspect!...
She tells me its more related to Nylons and there smells but loves feet aswell... She tells me it started when she was very young around 6-7yr old she used to smell the girls shoes in class, and steal there nylons from dancing class and take them home with her and smell them!!! All of her friends nylons she would steal!!
I could not beleive what i was hearing... This fetish still continues on to this day and she just recently confessed up to sniffing her female work friends high heels after hours when no-one is looking under there desk!!!!
To be honest, on the one hand i am very horny over it but on the other hand i felt abit "left out" as this had been going on and i had no idea!!!
I am also starting to worry just how much she actually likes woman? I know she fantasizes about them, but i know a whole heap of women that do that also and there definately not lesbians just Bi-sexual fun...
Now my g/f is my soul mate, we are looking to get married in the next 1-2 years... I am just getting a little worried about how much she loves/fantasizes about females and there feet...
She has confessed to doing some pretty kinky stuff, including "getting off" over our female friends feet reguarly...
What are your thoughts? Can a relationship be fine if she loves woman so much? She has told me that she used to sort of like them when she was younger but her brother and parents set her straight as she was so young she had no idea... She's had plently of b/fs and now we been going out 7+ years and looking to get married...
Can this just stay a secret between the two of us and "get off" together of female feet? Or do you think this has the potental to cause further problems down the track? By the way she is in her early 20's....
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
I think it is natural for you to be a bit cautious; however, you do need to search yourself about whether you two should draw some boundaries out of respect since marriage is a big legal step.
It is a turn on for me a few of my not so serious X's were into women, but kind of chicken, too. It was fun to go to the Body Shop with them, yet, we had boundaries. You really have to accept someone for them- she may grow out of it or it may be a social thing to hook with a guy and have these fantasies. You would be looking at changing her if you banked on her growing out of it.
The silver lining is you know what is up and she feels safe to tell you about it.
Posted by Explosivo57 (Member # 14342) on :
i dont see a problem, it just gives you one more thing to talk about
Posted by stilletoeluver (Member # 3538) on :
Yeh i know its probably all good, i just have that thought in the back of my mind that one day she might fall for another chick more than myself i guess, but ofcourse thats just my head F**cking with me, i know she loves me more than anything in the world and im the same... Just wanted to hear your opinions thats all... Its all good as i thought...
But yes you are right, it is very enjoyable...We pleasure eachother talking about other girls feet e.t.c ...Its like a dream come true...
I never would expected to find someone with the same fetish as me, and to the same extent that i love it!!
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
I suspect that she is probably a lez., and using you as a beard. She is in denial of her true feelings about women, or she is lying to you (and her family) about her extra curricular activities. I mean, seven years dating (that say's a lot) and she tells you this NOW. If it were me, I'd keep her around a little longer, maybe she could hook you up with a foot orgy or turn you on to some of those nylons she is stealing...but then I'd give her the slip.
_fjb_ Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
I wouldn't be so sure about that, fjb, she might just be one of the women that is fighting to be open about her sexual desires and fantasies. I guess what it boils down to is that most women are as perverted as we are but a lot less open about it in case society brands them as wh@res or sl@ts. So if you happen to meet a woman like that, you might want to just give it some time because you might lose somebody that could open your mind to a whole new world.
Posted by Terri (Member # 29793) on :
Send her over to me in London and we'll have some fun Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
wow!!!!!!!!! this is marriage material
marry her!! marry her!!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
seriously, may not be an issue.. especially considering you've made 7 years.. (not an easy task in the dating.. let alone married worlds)
you have to ask yourself this... are you comfy with the idea (and give yourself time to get used to it first). she could have been scared she'd run you out by telling you earlier.. how many guys waited many years into their marriage to tell their wives out of fear they'd leave?
in the devil-advocacy role.... what if you liked other women's feet outside your relationship.. and thought it harmless to get a sniff every now and again.. wouldn't you want her to accept that aspect of you?
ok.. with that all said.. truely you've got to do some soul searching and figure out just how far is she willing to go and how far you're ok with it. sure you correct to wonder if she'd leave you in the future.. but sometimes.. a gal just wants to talk fanatsy and not worry about her man freaking out!!! (my wife once told me a fantasy of hers she doesn't want me to partake in <relatively harmless one at that> but was so afraid i'd think she was sick.. you should have seen how 'worried' she looked as she told me her fantasy)
I'm not in you shoes and I can't tell you what to do.. but these are my thoughts.
RPM
Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :
maybe you've been watching too much friends (im sure everyone remembers ross' wife turning into a lesbian)
lol but seriously i wouldnt worry about it, maybe ask her if she honestly thinks that could ever happen because ur still suprised at how much she likes women.
i think you're lucky to find a girl with a strong foot fetish, my gf has one too and i still can't believe it. in my opinion the fact she revealed all this to you shows she's in it for the long haul. all the best for you and her!
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Personally, I don't think this is much of an issue. There are a decent percentage of women who aren't as polarized about their sexuality as much as guys are. As such, they're more open to the possibility of getting involved sexually with the same sex. That doesn't mean that these types of women are closet lesbians.
I think this might benefit you to some degree. I'm not sure how open your relationship is, but this could open doors to having an experience with you, your girlfriend and another girl. Just something to think about.
Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
Maybe you are just over thinking it.
I have adored women for years. Even experimented and it was awesome BUT, its not a lifetime thing. I can appreciate a beautiful woman with beautiful breasts, hips, ass, thighs, feet, toes... etc... I can think about it sometimes depending on the woman...
But I consider myself 100% straight. I sleep with a man. No other...
Sometimes, we as women just want to tell our man everything that is in our pretty little heads basically to see if 1)we scare them off or 2)they love and accept us as we are...
Maybe if you both are talking marriage, she is being completely honest with you to see where you stand.
Boundaries my friend - just think boundaries.
What is her #? I will date her and let you know if she is gay or not! lol Just kidding...
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
I guess that I'm in the minority here. What the heck, stilletoluver, keep on keepin' on.
_fjb_
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: Sometimes, we as women just want to tell our man everything that is in our pretty little heads basically to see if 1)we scare them off or 2)they love and accept us as we are...
This is a very good point. Women do test guys quite frequently to see if they are right for them or if guys can handle them.
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