A spin off of a previous thread "are foot fetish guys more romantic". I have many hobbies : basketball, flying ect but one of my favorites is giving a pretty girl oral. It's fun! I like to think that i'm an intelligent lover, and that my non foot fetish having friends are less intelligent lol. I always put my partner first...well..usually. What do you guys think. Is there a correlation? Are we as a whole better lovers? A foot massage and mixed with some toesucking followed by a slow migration north is a fun patient way to start things.
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Posted by eusak (Member # 14476) on :
That's my approach as well. Well, actually, the toe sucking comes after I've already worked over her upper body, but I do progress up from her feet, to her legs, thighs and eventually...
Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
I would have to say no... Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I would have to say no...
..that's mean, why?
Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :
YES WE ARE
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
Well, I definitely agree.
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Heel Yea!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
I can't speak for all my foot fetish brethren out there, but I certainly feel like I am a better lover as a foot fetishist, mostly a direct result of my obsession (aka enthusiasm) that makes me want their feet so badly.
The irony in this though, is that I know I'm a selfish lover (ie. I need to get mine 1st and foremost and if she happens to get hers in that process, then I have no problem with it).
Generally speaking, that last part of what i mentioned is a recipe for disaster and it very much used to be a problem of mine before I knew how to overcome it. The key to overcoming the side effects of male sexual selfishness is to stimulate the woman excessively in other areas so that she feels more eroticism in pleasing you than she does from getting herself pleased.
It's sort of a mental trick that takes time, but it is not at all impossible. Saves alot on time too during the deed (for those of us who have more urgent things to do than physically please her).
[ April 08, 2008, 08:59 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
quote:Originally posted by Feeties:
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I would have to say no...
..that's mean, why?
An attentive lover is an attentive lover. Doesnt matter if he worships feet, butt, boobs, pus, etc...
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226:
quote:Originally posted by Feeties:
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I would have to say no...
..that's mean, why?
An attentive lover is an attentive lover. Doesnt matter if he worships feet, butt, boobs, pus, etc...
Well from my experiences, guys who are fond of feet, aka foot fetish, tend to want to give their lover all they can, in any department. I know from my perspective, I love being committed to making her happy any way I can. From going shopping with her, to cuddling at home, to talking about anything, to laying down and watching the stars together. Anything she wants, I'd totally be up to it. No questions asked, and actually interested because I know it will make her happy.
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
i don't know, since i've never done anything. so i guess so :-\
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
I'm sure RPM and Fate111 will inspire us with their elloquent reasoning and opinions..hehe
I say we are better lovers as fetish people have an 'abnormal' or different sex drive. I tend to think that we actually have a stronger sex drive then your average leg/breast man. As this drive manifests itself in different parts of the body. As such I maintain that because we have a stronger sex drive we are more passionate and hence better lovers..
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
ozboy, you're funny!! I better not let you down then...
IT's a yes and no situation. more on the personality of the man involved.
i'm leaning on the yes for a few reasons.
1-because most feet lovers don't want the social stigma to be tied to their name, they will try harder to work please and mask their interst from being labelled as a fetish.. so.. they appear they're more romantic and better lovers
2- many fellas realize that by being a better lover, the odds of a yes for feet increases.. so.. they pour it on thicker ie better over time
3- by being into feet, we add a different spin on what can excite.. we include the feet on top of all the 'traditional' things.
4- many folks will attribute passion or intensity with better. we're already passionate about feet.. so... whatever we do, we do 'hardcore' mainly because when a woman is ok with us being with her feet.... we go all out!
sadly, the no part has to be considered too.. we can be very selfish wanting what we want and just the way we want it.. and if we don't.. we quickly move on. so.. for the woman who is lucky to provide us with what we want the way we want.. we're awesome and she thinks were the best lovers there can be.. for those who don't fit the bill.. we're just another jerk who was insensitive and selfish.
so.. it depends on the person. i'm a pleaser more than anything else.. but i'm not submissive. i work hard and take great pride at making someone (my wife) super happy in bed! i work hard at it. no matter if feet are involved or not. to her.. i'm a great lover (helps that we don't know anyone else as lovers)
but, i'm not the definition of a great lover though. i'm just very passionate. and i'm open to learning.
those who can learn those who can pay attention and those who can adjust will rise to be the best lovers a woman can be with (no matter the fetish or lack there of)
RPM
p.s. on an arrogant note, i love feet, love legs, love nice butts, love great breasts, love great hair, smiles, eyes, toned arms,etc.. the whole package... must make me a world class top notch lover!!!!!lol!
Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
RPM - ozboy was right! You certainly did some enlightening and eloquently at that!
I have very limited personal face to face (or foot to face) experience in this and am still a novice and unfortunately still unpracticed in many areas of what a guy with an FF would truly like.
"sadly, the no part has to be considered too.. we can be very selfish wanting what we want and just the way we want it.. and if we don't.. we quickly move on. so.. for the woman who is lucky to provide us with what we want the way we want.. we're awesome and she thinks were the best lovers there can be.. for those who don't fit the bill.. we're just another jerk who was insensitive and selfish."
As for the quote I copied from your reply - do you give the woman a chance to at least learn...what if she's trying to use her feet and learn to engage your FF? Do you still just quickly move on? I guess this part hit a cord in me...maybe a little close to home --
so I'm very curious to hear other's opinions on this point in particular.
Posted by Mona (Member # 8351) on :
quote: 1-because most feet lovers don't want the social stigma to be tied to their name, they will try harder to work please and mask their interst from being labelled as a fetish.. so.. they appear they're more romantic and better lovers
2- many fellas realize that by being a better lover, the odds of a yes for feet increases.. so.. they pour it on thicker ie better over time
3- by being into feet, we add a different spin on what can excite.. we include the feet on top of all the 'traditional' things.
4- many folks will attribute passion or intensity with better. we're already passionate about feet.. so... whatever we do, we do 'hardcore' mainly because when a woman is ok with us being with her feet.... we go all out!
I couldnt argue with any of these points:)
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
impossible to answer because who really knows?
i think some would be worse lovers because they probably focus too much on the feet
Posted by JustJoe (Member # 9641) on :
I really believe it's not feet specific. Any person who is very honest with what they like and how they like it is always going to be better lovers. I guess as long as you don't settle for just any feet, and or other part for that matter, you'll be at peace with yourself in the end.
Also, not getting what you want all the time makes better lovers, too. You have to know what I mean in order to cherish it.
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..that's mean, why?
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