Hey, I dont know if anyone thinks the same way as me. But alot of people talk on this forum about, the best places to go and watch feet, how and best ways to film them and take pictures etc.. Now, liking feet is the greatest things ever. But just like ass and breasts etc.. I dont think its right to go and eye-fuck everyone you see. Ofcourse unless there up for it, but generally being dont like being ogled. What do some of you think ? Is staring at feet the same at staring at breats, if your still thinking about sexual things ?
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
not really, in that it's not really that obvious.
but it's the same in that we're lusting over something.
but for most of us, that's probably gonna be one of the few chances we get for some feet.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
sadly... to most women who have opted to share their thoughts with me on the subject, it's almost as bad as oggling their breast.. only difference... it's not as easy to do in mid conversation upclose and personal.
however.. they do notice almost as easily and as well as they do breast. in fact.. some find it outrightly offensive (had that happen to me while i wasn't stearing at her feet either.. just thinking and looking down.. and she thought i was oggling)
so.... enjoying the view.. and bieng a 'perve' about it is two different things.
being polite.. a glance... a compliment. fine.. loosing one's self.. not cool
RPM
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I think a glance here and there isn't bad. It's natural. All animals do it to see if thier genes would be a good match for thier own. Women do it and guys do it. As for the candid camera deal...that's just creepy. Stealing shoes and the sort is also creepy. I'd be very angry if I found out some guy was taping my girl, or worse....some guy was taping me without my knowledge. I can only imagine the thoughts that would cross my mind if someone stole my old basketball sneakers. So I think it's best to look at this sort of thing from the other person's perspective.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by tom-ft: What do some of you think ? Is staring at feet the same at staring at breats, if your still thinking about sexual things ?
I agree with you 100%
It's all about keeping things in check. Sure looking at feet is just like a breast guy looking at breasts.
So naturally if you see a breast guy all pie-eyed and tongue hanging out or even staring too hard in another way, that is way too much and very creepy.
So that goes for any creepy foot fetishists as well. There is no need to stare so hard and make such a big deal over it. It is just a bodypart, and there's plenty of them around to be looking at a chic like she is the only pair of feet you have seen in your life.
Geez give some of these girls a break basically. Imagine how you'd feel if you were in their shoes "and by that I don't mean with your nose!" LOL
Being an out of control pervert is very bad IMO!
Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :
i agree with you about some of the posts here...they are just weird, even for a foot lover but whatever
Posted by climax (Member # 6641) on :
quote:Originally posted by tom-ft: Hey, I dont know if anyone thinks the same way as me. But alot of people talk on this forum about, the best places to go and watch feet, how and best ways to film them and take pictures etc.. Now, liking feet is the greatest things ever. But just like ass and breasts etc.. I dont think its right to go and eye-fuck everyone you see. Ofcourse unless there up for it, but generally being dont like being ogled. What do some of you think ? Is staring at feet the same at staring at breats, if your still thinking about sexual things ?
I agree 100% thats how i live by and will continue to do so, yes i love them but creeping around, staring, takin pics, not cool man, not cool at all!
i think alot of people fall into the trap of "most people dont even consider feet sexual so i can get away with it" sorta thing.
Posted by sportfan85 (Member # 24801) on :
well shoot i have a question now. i just recently went to gasparilla in tampa. tampa plus nice warm weather plus flip flops obviously equals like feet everywhere. anyway about the whole creepy candid photo thing now i feel totally bad about what i've done this weekend. now i'll be honest with yall and tell ya i took like maybe 8 pics of candid feet throughout the parade and nightclubs. I've never done it before this was my first time doin it and i was really just takin them to put on here once i figure out how. WOuld def love everyones opinion on this matter i'm def not the creepy foot guy that everyones talking about i can def keep it in check i was really just curious and wanted to try something new and was feeling dangerous that day i guess but i'll def welcome all comments thanks yall.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
it's only human nature to look or sometimes even stare at what you think looks attractive
as far as being creepy goes, it only works that way if the girl thinks you look unattractive
can you imagine some brad pitt lookalike being thought of as creepy? i can't
taking pics or video is creepy though
also when it comes to looking at feet, a girl will more likely think you are too insecure to make eye contact rather than some guy that likes feet
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
It all comes down to consent...candids are a great way to get flogged or better yet in trouble.
There is an innocent way to convey this fetish to a civilian - women want to feel comfortable, regardless!
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: as far as being creepy goes, it only works that way if the girl thinks you look unattractive
can you imagine some brad pitt lookalike being thought of as creepy? i can't
i totally agree on this
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: as far as being creepy goes, it only works that way if the girl thinks you look unattractive
can you imagine some brad pitt lookalike being thought of as creepy? i can't
mike, you always know the concise down-to-earth way of putting things in perspective. that is very true.
when a guy is desired by the girl, it is called "flirting", but when the guy is not desired by the girl it is called "being creepy" LOL (i just love this fetish)
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
I like looking at candids, and I think the rest of you do too. Thank goodness for the 'creeps'.
_fjb_
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
and to add... thank-goodness for the consented pics that look like candids too!
but seriously... that is why there is the web.. to 'fill in' the need.
however... ethics asides.... there are creepy ways of getting candids.. and there are more legal and less invasive and less creepy ways to do the same deal.
RPM
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I think it's very true that girls don't want you blantantly staring at ANY of their body parts, whether they're "showing them off" or not. (although at the present time, since most girls are rather clueless about foot fetishes, staring at their feet would probably not "creep" many of them out- at least to the extent that staring at their boobs or ass would.)
However, you have to be really blatantly staring most of the time in order for a girl to catch you in the act. I've looked long, hard and often at many a girl's feet but never been called out by any of them.
Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :
I apply the same priorities to strangers on the street as to relationships, namely that the main focus has to be on the person-to-person aspect and everything else such as breasts, feet and what restaurant to go to revolve around that. With a stranger in public person-to-person means some respect for her space, at least unless and until I get some idea how she might feel about my attraction. But with a couple of good intensive stares I can take a mental snapshot of her feet and shoes and surf on it later at home. And that seems alright because I'm telling myself that I'm showing my great respect for her by not being a bother to her and just worshipping from afar.
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Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Honestly, candids have never done a thing for me; I prefer that whoever is showing me their feet is doing it willingly because they know that it will have a strong impact upon some viewers. Anyway, most candids are grainy, out of focus, shot from poor angles, etc; I don't want it stolen from them but offered voluntarily.
As for what I think is the thrust of the question: A woman is a smörgåsbord (sorry, spell-check just came up) of visual treats. Nevertheless, one must meet others on an equal footing (please pardon the unintentional pun) and, in this, eye contact is most important. Steal your glances where you might, that is human nature, but treat everyone as a person first...objectify them later.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
So don't get caught ogling. If everyone does it discreetly and respectfully then a little won't hurt as long as you do not take advantage.
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