Could anyone marry someone that didn't have the kind of sexy peds they love or at least be with someone that was sort of into it? Seems like it could get lonely. Just wondering your thoughts. And you ladies out there, can you suck your own toes and have someone not wanna join? I have had the pleasure of being with women that loved their toes maybe more than me, so I know you are out there.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
"Could anyone marry someone that didn't have the kind of sexy peds they love"... Comment by Elvzz
No.
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Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
I married my wife because of size 5's!
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
Don't know it those reasons alone would stop me from marring someone but, it would be hard to deal with, and it will probably end the relationship.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Elvzz: Could anyone marry someone that didn't have the kind of sexy peds they love or at least be with someone that was sort of into it? Seems like it could get lonely.
I did, and for many years got my "foot jollies" solely from masturbating to the sights and memories of other girl's feet.
I was not really attracted to my wife's feet at first for several reasons:
- she had bunions, which I thought were unsightly (the big bump and turing her big toe inward). She eventually had one feoo fixed for practical reasons, not aesthetic, so she does have one very nice looking foot.
- She didn't like her own feet
- She was incredibly ticklish. Couldn't touch her feet at all.
But over the years age, time and some open conversations totally "opened her up" to understand my foot fetish and now she indulges me in anything foot-related I want. And I can even over-look her one bunioned foot. Guess it's kinda "cock over mind" huh- when she's prettying up that foot and allowing me to do anything with it, it's had not to appreciate it! Posted by RadioactiveToy (Member # 26926) on :
No
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
I'll chime in since I brought it up...heel no! I stay pretty detached when meeting or getting close to a woman until she props em up or teases me with them.
And since only about 4% of the women that inquire about shooting with me - qualify for SLT treatment; it is a number's game. And then as a guy - I love variety. As Chris Rock says, "A man is only as faithful as his options." No game - no options.
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
That is a hard question... I don't have to have feet to become aroused so I guess as the rest ofher was sexy I could over look it. I'm not saying that I wouldn't miss foot action but on the other hand her feet would have to be tore up for me not to like....I'm an equal oppertunity foot lover and can find the best in most footsies.. On the other hand.....Kim can suck her own toes and enjoys protien shots off her toes on occassion...
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I would prefer a woman who had good looking feet and was ok with my fetish. I don't think I could be in a relationship where the girl in question was totally against it and wouldn't allow me to do anything to her feet. There may be some leeway there if her feet are questionable looking, especially if she's really into having me do things to her feet. I think a woman who's into, and can accept, my fetish is more important than how her feet might measure up.
Posted by Nylon Toe Sucker (Member # 21491) on :
Its very Important to me, been married twice, divorced even though they knew of my FF, they never let me indulge that much, they didn't understand it, my last girlfriend either. So I'm really going to make sure the next committed relationship I get into, I hope will be the one, I'm 47 had a FF since the age of 6. I get off on everything that turn's us on about women, but especially my FF, can't just turn that off, hopefully I will find her one day!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i couldn't do it personally but if i found a woman with my dream feet, not only would i want to marry her but i would also want to marry her feet as well (since I'd basically want to ensure the mating rights to them ...constantly)
Posted by zappa1968 (Member # 27279) on :
No...the feet have to be there....nice and sexy.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
ok...
im going to sound like an MP now! lol.
it depends really. The first thing i look at is the feet anyway. T & A is later! But i could marry someone with not that much of a sexy ped because they will try their best to satisfy me with what they have, and if you love them, theres nothing to stop you is there really!?
but ideally...... this is the only thing im looking forward to doing is having a marrige with the woman of my dreams, who i know wont freak about my foot fetish and we will do loads of kinky stuff, and she wont tell anyone, because shes mature enough.
I really cannot wait for this to happen! i know it sounds sad, but its my dream.
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
Well, I'm kind of in a not so good situation like that. My wife has pretty feet, but she really has no desire to participate in my fetish needs, and actually feels negatively about the feeling it brings her if I try to kiss her feet, or suck her toes, or tickle her. She just doesn't like it and can't get past that issue.
I can't blame her though. You can't force someone to like what they don't like. But it does suck, so all you single guys, take note of that.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
I could not be with someone who refused to allow me to indulge in her feet. Her feet would have to be particlarly pretty, but, if she said: "No feet, ever, or hardly", I couldnt be happy with someone like that.
Mitch
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
if I don't like her feet i won't even talk to her
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
I'd get her feet fixed up before I'd marry her...if I couldn't fix em up I wouldn't marry her
Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: but ideally...... this is the only thing im looking forward to doing is having a marrige with the woman of my dreams, who i know wont freak about my foot fetish and we will do loads of kinky stuff, and she wont tell anyone, because shes mature enough.
I really cannot wait for this to happen! i know it sounds sad, but its my dream.
It's not sad, and it could be a reality someday, not just a dream. You just need to find that girl and make it happen.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
My wife (13 yrs +) was new to the concept at first, but realize that it was apart of my hardwiring as a man and not a passing fancy. SHe gets her peds all doll up (polish, jewelry, heels, etc.) and puts on leg and footshows with sexy outfits to enhance our love making... great stuff. I'm very fortunate .
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by Eliza Durden:
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: but ideally...... this is the only thing im looking forward to doing is having a marrige with the woman of my dreams, who i know wont freak about my foot fetish and we will do loads of kinky stuff, and she wont tell anyone, because shes mature enough.
I really cannot wait for this to happen! i know it sounds sad, but its my dream.
It's not sad, and it could be a reality someday, not just a dream. You just need to find that girl and make it happen.
I agree. There are women who have the same thoughts...keep the faith... search high and low for your jack pot.
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Toe Sucker II, it is totally doable - I have been close to marriage 2x and they had long toes/sexy peds and aquired or had the fetish themselves. Life happened and we didn't tie the knot - but it is a numbers game and in order to gather you need to plant. So plant those seeds, put yourself in positions to meet women with the toes/feet/legs you want and don't apologize for it. It took me a long time to get a grip on the fetish - my site helped a lot since I had to sell myself and not be wierding out potential models.
I went out the other night and I told my date that I was launching a shoe line - sexy bigger shoes - for the feet I like. And she said, "So why women's shoes - you got a foot fetish or something." I said, "If things go well, you may find out." (With a smile and a wink, of course)
Sorry if I sound preachy, but I don't believe in lightning in a bottle. Just cuz I had 2 shots - doesn't mean I settle 1 iota. So it will happen for you 2 probably a bunch of times.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
quote:Originally posted by Eliza Durden:
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: but ideally...... this is the only thing im looking forward to doing is having a marrige with the woman of my dreams, who i know wont freak about my foot fetish and we will do loads of kinky stuff, and she wont tell anyone, because shes mature enough.
I really cannot wait for this to happen! i know it sounds sad, but its my dream.
It's not sad, and it could be a reality someday, not just a dream. You just need to find that girl and make it happen.
Thanks so much! you have given me hope!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
OK, I know a lot of you don't feel this way, but I believe that ALL female feet are basically attractive! The only exception is if they are physically malformed, in some way. So I could never go for a woman with malformed feet, or no feet at all. If my lady's feet don't quite look the way I'd like them to look, I could always get her pedicures.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
The answer is....They damn well shouldn't!
Posted by omni7phat (Member # 999) on :
It appears I am in the minority here. My wife is more to me than a pair of feet to me. I've never attempted to post pics of here feet here because while they are not the nicest shaped feet and most likely would not be well received. She takes very good care of her feet because I appreciate them. While she does not have foot model quality feet I enjoy them. Besides where her feet don't quite measure up her tits do!
Posted by GloriousFJ (Member # 26779) on :
I am VERY lucky that my wife loves having her feet worshipped. It also doesnt help the fact that they are simply stunning...as per my post in the picture threads.
OH her feet also match her heart
I am one lucky dude.
G
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
I have never had a problem with a wife or girlfriend enjoying their feet played with or using their feet to excite me. One girl year ago was rather indifferent, but still would do it.
I love to tickle women, so if anything I have had to settle in a few cases, although for the most part I have not had troubles there,either. My wife has fun with the foot thing and actively supports it- but she only wants to get tickled occasionally.
I think that for as much as I hear about fellow foot lovers having a variety of problems with their woman accepting quirks- I kind of wonder what the average male in America settles for in all areas, not just acceptance from their woman with the foot thing.
Likewise- what if you were to find a woman who really was turned on by something you could not stand to do to her...that would be a big problem, right?
For example,I had a friend get married years ago whose new wife told him he could not smoke reefer anymore. I was somewhat puzzled, as I though that would have had to come up in conversation prior to the ceremony!
My only advice for anyone is that if you value any part of your life and end up with someone who hates that value- there will be a problem!
If you are not happy with your life- it is very hard for you to try to make your signifigant other happy as well.
Posted by Teryon (Member # 13959) on :
I've been married for 13 years and my wife doesn't know I like feet. I want to tell her, but I'm afraid of upsetting our relationship or getting into a situation like Bondo's where she won't play along. I think, in that situation, I might grow to be resentful that she won't accommodate me and thinks FF (and me, by extension) is really weird. She doesn't like her own feet, and although she is cool in other sexual things (eg we've been to a swing club a few times, have had threesomes, and have Playboy & Hustler TV), she is NOT into FF at all and comments negatively whenever a FF scene happens to come on while we're watching a pr0n movie. I'm not driven by feet so I can easily make it work without her feet (and have for the past 13 years), and wish it could be more but I'm really afraid of changing our relationship for the worse.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Teryon:
Sometimes people act and react opposite to the way they really feel. It's possible that your wife really wants some attention paid to her feet, but just doesn't know how to express it.
_fjb_
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i married and amazing woman. her feet aren't perfect in my book.. but i love how they look in hose!!!
she had no ideal guys could be into feet (or heels) like I am. and so, the adjustment was huge for her.
thankfully for me..i realized at some point... the tables could be turned and she'd be into something I can't stand (being tickled.. which she loves to do) so we worked it out.
i can access her feet anytime i want... but i must be super careful not to tickle her (she's mighty ticklish).. in exchange for her holding off on tickling me.. which I can't stand.
from a values point of view... i've put more emphasis on character traits. i felt.. foot action was a negotiation deal, not a character deal.
in the end. i'm pretty happy most of the time. some days.. a bit frustrated... but we're both in the same boat. she'd love to tickle me pink.. that would piss me off to record highs... so.. she can't tickle (or at least not much anyway)... and i get her feet most of the times i desire.. but i 'hold' back a bit as to not tickle her too much...... but she's grown to love massages (my fav activity)
it's a give and take.
the only scenario i couldnt' really deal with... someone totally closed off to any sort of heeling or foot action of any kind. that i can't deal with.. not because of the obvious, but because to me it speaks to how open they are to other things in life... and i can't be with a close-minded person
RPM
Posted by lambskin (Member # 1542) on :
I don't know if I'd be able to do it either. Personally I'm lucky as my wife has very pretty size 6's, always has her toes painted, and loves to have them worshipped. Only a couple of months into our relationship she figuered out that I liked her feet and pretty soon she was initiating foot action. I'd say now it's damn near half the time that she will initiate the foot action. Not only does she know it turns me on, but it gets her goin' as well. I guess I'm lucky. But back to the question, I think its part of the total package. Obviously you shouldn't marry a woman just because she has pretty feet, but at the same time if you are repulsed by them or she's not into it at all then its going to be a tough relationship. Would someone marry a woman who they are not attracted to and hates sex? Its along the same lines.
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