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Posted by gavin9 (Member # 19689) on :

Hey guys,

My name is Gavin and I'm 26-years-old, and i was wondering, how do you talk to a woman into giving a footjob? Do some of them consider that rape? Just wondering,

Gavin

Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :

rape? [Confused]

to talk her into a footjob she must know about your foot fetish first. take it from there, shouldnt be too hard once she knows.

Posted by manolojchoo (Member # 1257) on :

Gavin, why would it be rape if there is mutual consent to the act?. Note, I said MUTUAL CONSENT. If you're just grabbing her feet and pounding them with your dick without her consent, then I don't know if it would be considered rape. But, assault? Absolutely. Punishable by jail time and/or a fine. Deservedly so, I might add.

Now, as to your footjob question, do you have a specific woman in mind? Do you already have a relationship with her? More details would probably yield better answers for you.

mjc

Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :

if I was under the asumtion your in a mutally consentual act with a woman,here's a way to get one or try to somone get one.go down on her,and half way thru or prior,have your body on its side wile your between her legs.if possible,push her leg,ankle or foot so her foot meets your package.if she realises your cock is there,she may start rubbing it with her foot,if she doesn't try to make it obviouse it is [Wink]

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sure theres otherways of getting a woman to give you one,but this is the easyest way if your shy or curiouse

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

umm....can't tell ya. i'm still trying to find a way to talk to a girl period without creeping her out.

but if you're already with her, it's no problem at all.

Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :

The hard part is getting her attracted to you. Once she is and she's up for getting physical simply tell her. Mind you....being selfish in the bedroom is never cool so focus on how you're going to make her orgasm too. Some women like to start things slowly with a handjob...so instead tell her to give you a footjob. Don't ask, it's not sexy. Tell her her feet make you hot and you want them around you. Grin a little if this is a girl you just met, and reiterate how hot it gets you. Girls are awesome in that they aim to please, so usually she will. It's not as taxing as oral or anal relatively speaking so it's an easy way to get her man off.

Basically if she's attracted enough to you to have sex, a footjob can be part of the foreplay and is definitely not a big task on her part.
Hope that gives you some insight
GQguy

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
umm....can't tell ya. i'm still trying to find a way to talk to a girl period without creeping her out.

LOL, yeah agreed, if she's creeped out it would be harder to get a FJ from her w/o her considering it rape.

Do avoid both at all costs (rape and creeping her out), because even though they aren't synonymous they are pretty close to the same end result of her not wanting anything to do with you or simply being disgusted by you (both of which are generally bad).

Oh and another word to the wise, if you are gonna screw her feet while she is asleep or passes out on you, make sure to get her videotaped consent beforehand that she will allow you to pleasure yourself with her feet then it is okay to get that FJ without it being considered rape. This last one I can speak from experience (a number of times in fact, LOL) [Big Grin]

oh and as for talking to a woman w/o creeping her out, try some of the many available seduction courses out there. Here's one that supposedly does better than Mystery Method: http://www.puatraining.com/

[ October 11, 2007, 11:32 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]

Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
Oh and another word to the wise, if you are gonna screw her feet while she is asleep or passes out on you, make sure to get her videotaped consent beforehand that she will allow you to pleasure yourself with her feet

I can see it happening... with video camera in hand, you ask... "do you mind if I fuck your feet the next time your passed out from drinking too much?"

If this doesn't creep her out, I don't know what will.

Permission or not, having your way with feet that belong to a passed out girl is just wrong.

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by longhitter04:

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
Oh and another word to the wise, if you are gonna screw her feet while she is asleep or passes out on you, make sure to get her videotaped consent beforehand that she will allow you to pleasure yourself with her feet
I can see it happening... with video camera in hand, you ask... "do you mind if I fuck your feet the next time your passed out from drinking too much?"

If this doesn't creep her out, I don't know what will.

$100 to the first guy that succeeds at this. this may be the measuring stick of creepiness. if she says "yes" you better fucking marry that woman

Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :

Why don't you try asking her instead of "talking her into it"?

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Eliza Durden:
Why don't you try asking her instead of "talking her into it"?

maybe because he's worried how she'd react. hence why he's come here to ask how he should approach this.

Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by longhitter04:

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
Oh and another word to the wise, if you are gonna screw her feet while she is asleep or passes out on you, make sure to get her videotaped consent beforehand that she will allow you to pleasure yourself with her feet
I can see it happening... with video camera in hand, you ask... "do you mind if I fuck your feet the next time your passed out from drinking too much?"

If this doesn't creep her out, I don't know what will.
$100 to the first guy that succeeds at this. this may be the measuring stick of creepiness. if she says "yes" you better fucking marry that woman

I've seen a couple of Tyler's sleepy feet clips with the woman giving a disclamer at the beginning. Funny stuff!

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
$100 to the first guy that succeeds at this. this may be the measuring stick of creepiness. if she says "yes" you better fucking marry that woman

done this a bunch of times with different girls. wouldn't dare to marry any of them though, LOL

here's the 1st girl I did that with:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Wm_y2wdF1PQ

it's entirely possible and easy once you already have them in your room; just listen to some of GQguy's posts and implement his suggestions into your handling of women.

made a bunch of perverted foot fetish noises too right as i was cumming on her feet when usually with a girl who is awake, i am too embarrassed to make those kinds of desperate sounds, LOL

think desperate excited hurt animal or something sorta high pitched -- I'll take my $100 now too [Big Grin]

[ October 12, 2007, 10:33 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]

Posted by RadioactiveToy (Member # 26926) on :

Foot fetish activities in a relationship/sex are very important to me so I let them know before about my foot fetish and activities I like. If they don't agree, I don't force them 'cause the last thing I want is she doing it just because I want it without enjoying it. The greatest foot play is when is she also in to foot play and when is she doing it because she gets aroused to. [Wink]

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
The hard part is getting her attracted to you. Once she is and she's up for getting physical simply tell her. Mind you....being selfish in the bedroom is never cool so focus on how you're going to make her orgasm too. Some women like to start things slowly with a handjob...so instead tell her to give you a footjob. Don't ask, it's not sexy. Tell her her feet make you hot and you want them around you. Grin a little if this is a girl you just met, and reiterate how hot it gets you. Girls are awesome in that they aim to please, so usually she will. It's not as taxing as oral or anal relatively speaking so it's an easy way to get her man off.

Basically if she's attracted enough to you to have sex, a footjob can be part of the foreplay and is definitely not a big task on her part.
Hope that gives you some insight
GQguy

sorry to be a cunt about this, but what, in the event you get them in your room, should i do anyway if she's up there out of pity???

Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
The hard part is getting her attracted to you. Once she is and she's up for getting physical simply tell her. Mind you....being selfish in the bedroom is never cool so focus on how you're going to make her orgasm too. Some women like to start things slowly with a handjob...so instead tell her to give you a footjob. Don't ask, it's not sexy. Tell her her feet make you hot and you want them around you. Grin a little if this is a girl you just met, and reiterate how hot it gets you. Girls are awesome in that they aim to please, so usually she will. It's not as taxing as oral or anal relatively speaking so it's an easy way to get her man off.

Basically if she's attracted enough to you to have sex, a footjob can be part of the foreplay and is definitely not a big task on her part.
Hope that gives you some insight
GQguy
sorry to be a cunt about this, but what, in the event you get them in your room, should i do anyway if she's up there out of pity???

Good question dude. Your mind frame is all off though. Your mind frame has to be something like this "I'm a cool guy and if she is lucky to get physical with me she will enjoy it". Now you might not have alot of sexual experience but there's tons of resources everywhere on how to pleasure a woman. Actually pleasuring her is your top concern because you're always an excellent host! ;o)Do you see how her being there out of pity isn't congruent with your new mind set?
Why should a woman pity you? (rhetorical question) Everyone has thier short comings and thier own bad situations. Be optomistic. It's very attractive, but it's not easy because life is tough. Help the women deal with thier problems with your infectious optimistic attitude;o), not the other way around. If they have a problem listen...but don't relay one of your own..."Say awwww...pooor baby *smile* and say come over to papa and i'll make it all better *hug*in a funny way,*you could even stroke her hair like a little kid's(bottom line, turn her frown upsidedown)" See how that puts her in a fun frame of mind? As opposed to responding with " I feel you, my great great grandmother died, my dog died and a bird pooped on my shoulder this morning". Build attraction by telling her how excited you are after playing soccer and kicking ass and you're up to meet sme cool people. "maybe I can show you how to kick it like beckham tomorrow morning..or whatever. You want her to feel attraction for you...never pity. The only thing keeping you from ton of women is your mind, hell even i'm constantly battling it!
GQGuy

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
The hard part is getting her attracted to you. Once she is and she's up for getting physical simply tell her. Mind you....being selfish in the bedroom is never cool so focus on how you're going to make her orgasm too. Some women like to start things slowly with a handjob...so instead tell her to give you a footjob. Don't ask, it's not sexy. Tell her her feet make you hot and you want them around you. Grin a little if this is a girl you just met, and reiterate how hot it gets you. Girls are awesome in that they aim to please, so usually she will. It's not as taxing as oral or anal relatively speaking so it's an easy way to get her man off.

Basically if she's attracted enough to you to have sex, a footjob can be part of the foreplay and is definitely not a big task on her part.
Hope that gives you some insight
GQguy
sorry to be a cunt about this, but what, in the event you get them in your room, should i do anyway if she's up there out of pity???
Good question dude.

REALLY???? i thought it was silly. hence why i said "sorry for being a cunt this" lol

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
if she's up there out of pity???

if you managed to talk her into your room and she did it out of pity, then she will probably let you lick sniff, lick, or FJ her feet out of pity too so problem solved. if that method works then go the whole 100 yards with it -- it will be odd that is for sure, but then again so is what you're asking of her so it's fine [Big Grin]

besides, pity lines up with some of the femdom element of FF (if that happens to be what you're into)

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:

quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
if she's up there out of pity???
if you managed to talk her into your room and she did it out of pity, then she will probably let you lick sniff, lick, or FJ her feet out of pity too so problem solved. if that method works then go the whole 100 yards with it -- it will be odd that is for sure, but then again so is what you're asking of her so it's fine

besides, pity lines up with some of the femdom element of FF (if that happens to be what you're into)

I'm not in that AT ALL!!!

it's just the fact i always end up doing something creepy whenever i talk to a chick. that's the biggest reason why i always feel like shit. so if a girl ends up talking to me out of pity, i'm on constant freak-out mode.

[ October 13, 2007, 06:31 PM: Message edited by: blackHxC88 ]

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

ok, Wing-Washer ended up bringing up a good point about Gavin9 that after he starts a thread, he never seems to return to that thread. so, i guess i should hijack this thread and get some advice on what me and GQguy went on about earlier

is that ok???

Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :

Why not? [Laugh]

This thread doesn't appear to deviate from that trend. He could always pick up the discussion in another of his cookie cutter threads if he were so inclined...

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Wing-Washer:
Why not? This thread doesn't appear to deviate from that trend. He could always pick up the discussion in another of his cookie cutter threads if he were so inclined...

if he even shows up.

Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :

Hang in there, blackHxC88, you're an OK. dude !! [Thumbs Up]

_fjb_