would rather indulge your fetish than have sex...What would you do?
Could you live with just having fetish based orgasms with your partner or is traditional sex necessary? (not that there are any women out there like this )
Just curious...Happy Sunday all!
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
i think i probably have less sex with my partner than the average couple due to my fetish. and i can go without sex because i enjoy her feet so much. but i do think its necessary to have regular sex to maintain a healthy relationship. without it at all it wouldnt be right
Posted by solevenerator (Member # 24978) on :
I agree lamp...the advent of this post was based on date 2 with this lady last night who was telling me she likes vibrators over long sex and would enjoy teasing me with my fetish and roleplaying more than actual sex..she's 35, Eastern European and my sense is that she has found her way of orgasming and will give me mine and she will not allow herself to be cast into a traditional role.. purely specualtion at this point of course...
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I could go without sex--traditional sex, that is--if she let me have access to her feet whenever I wanted.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I would definitely need the sex too but more fetish stuff like footjobs or things like that would definitely compliment my needs and reduce the actual amount of sex i would need. Did that make sense. Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
I say go for what she's giving. wouldn't phase me. I could get that and only that for along time...but eventually Im gonna need sex.
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
As much as i love Kim's feet, I enjoy the whole sex package which of course nicludes her feet.. The feeling of her tight women parts coupled withthe smell of her feet is incredible
Posted by swman (Member # 11682) on :
I like to think I could live with that
Posted by Grey Fox (Member # 5552) on :
This is coming from a complete virgin, okay. If a girl would allow me access to her feet anytime, then yes, I can go without traditional sex.
Posted by DaBootman (Member # 1280) on :
I can only go so long without sex. Though in a past relationship, toward the end of it, all i wanted anything to do with was the girls feet. Mainly due to my lack of interest in said girl. (felt her feet were cleaner than the rest of her)
That being said, i know how much i enjoy my fetish, and the thought of having my every fantasy involving it fulfilled instead of having sex does sound appealing and would probably last quite some time, so long as she was ok with it. But there are still times where nothing beats a raw session in the sack... I need that kind of relief, if you will. But just getting footjobs and stuff sounds great, because there's no work involved for me, and if there was any, it'd be some i enjoy being it involves her feet. Sometimes sex becomes more work than it's worth if you think too much about it, or you're really worried about whether or not the person you're with is into it. So long as she is and you can get her "hers" and you "yours" so to speak, all in one shot it's all good.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i could most definitely live with trading conventional sex for lifelong footjobs from my perfect mate
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
have to have sex, i'm glad i don't have to choose.
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
Most foot guys could live without sex if we had feet related play, it's our partners who couldn't.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
Years ago, I dated a girl with a VERY LOW sex drive. She rarely, if ever, got the urge to have sex. She just wasn't interested in it.
However, she was VERY active in my foot fetish. Her feet would always find their way to my crotch, whether laying on the couch, sitting at a table, whatever. She actually loved pleasing me with her feet. She always wore different nylons, stockings, or socks that turned me on. She had a sort of a sock fetish in that she had at least 100 different pairs of socks and nylons and always wore them (even in the summer) which was fine by me because I LOVE them. Bare feet really don't do much for me.
It got to the point where I started to feel that she was getting cheated. I tried everything. Even DATY really didn't get her going, and I've been told that I'm very skillfull in that department.
So, to answer the question, I could personally go without intercourse for a while, but eventually it would bother me that she was not getting the same pleasure. There's nothing like making a woman cum HARD.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: I could go without sex--traditional sex, that is--if she let me have access to her feet whenever I wanted.
I'm thinking that I could too. My fetish currently has a very strong hold on me. I would insist on helping her to climax though too is she wanted it.
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