How many of you can comfortably talk to people about your foot fetish (I can't, for the record). Basically the poll will ask how comfortable are you talking to others about your foot fetish...
Posted by DaBootman (Member # 1280) on :
I went with confident, because while i'm really confident with talkin about it to friends and other girls. There are some people i just won't talk openly about it with. Generally just people i don't know very well. Otherwise, i can pretty much talk to anybody about it at any time and not be nervous or uncomfortable. All my friends know, any girl who knows me knows about it.
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
BY viewing the post result so far, i can tell that we, footguys are honest guys. i don't talk about my fetish with anybody else but my wife, i just can't.
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
My wife and I keep it private just like everything else about our sexual relationship - it's nobody's business but ours...
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
i'm not confident talking about it. mostly because i feel creepy having it, so how am i gonna feel when i end up talking about it to other people???
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I talk about it. Mostly because alot of people aren't aware and get bad impressions from the wierdos out there. Some women just aren't comfortable enough with thier feet to be into a foot fetish. At least I know because I was open about. My one buddy hates feet. The other night we went home with 2 women we met at a club and I told the one I was "with" to show me her feet. My buddy proceeded to explain about how much he hates feet, and that his wife isn't allowed to put her feet on him. I countered by saying I love feet, as long as they're pretty and clean. Who sounds worse? You can guess what I did with her feet later. Women are followers. When you dance the guy always leads. When you're dating the guy asks her out. When you get engaged the guy makes that move. She can oject at anytime of course, but here's the deal. You've got to lead by accepting yourself, foot fetish and all before she can accept you. The reverse won't happen. Oh...and ask and you will recieve. The foot fetish thing isn't well known. Tell your girl what you like and if she likes you she will do it for you.
Posted by footntoesmassager (Member # 12132) on :
I'm not really confident about it. This girl I'm seeing had to practically drag it out of me. I feel as though it's weird or creepy.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
If more foot fetishists were open about it more (don't worry, I'm part of the majority) that would change the magnitude of having a foot fetish.
Posted by Creamysoles (Member # 9641) on :
Well, I'm pretty open about my fetish. My only philosophy is that I always know my audience when discussing or not discussing certain things. You run into the "TMI" syndrome which can damage your integrity.
Posted by SherberT* (Member # 4242) on :
Confident =)
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Just Confident... But not to the point were I'll just tell every single Tom, Dick and Harry... But yeah my friends know...
Posted by ljjnico (Member # 15015) on :
I'm somewhat confident because I have told a few of my female colleagues at work that I like girls feet and one of them definitely knows because she says "I know what you're looking at!".
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
To me, there's a time and a place for letting people know (and others not know) that you're into feet. Personally, I don't mention anything about it when around guys. When I'm around women, it all depends on how comfortable I am with them and how comfortable they are with me. I'll try and get her comfortable by just talking to her and giving off the vibe that I'm not looking for anything from her, and letting her know this in a confident way. It's better to proceed with no expectations because if you do otherwise, she'll read through you like a bad romance novel if you put too much focus on an ulterior motive. Once that level of comfort is in place and we're one on one, I will let her know by action - i.e. giving her a foot massage, playfully licking a toe or two, etc.. If there's no resistance (and there usually isn't), then I know she's fine with what I'm doing and I can proceed to sucking on her toes, etc., with no hesitation on my part and treating the moment as if it's just a natural progression for me to do. If no big deal is made on your part about what you're doing, she will be more apt to accept what you're doing because you're leading and in control of the situation. As GQ pointed out, it's important for a guy to take the lead in situations when dealing with women. It lets her know you're confident with who you are and what you like.
Posted by jedi20 (Member # 20344) on :
I voted as confident. All of my friends know I have a foot fetish from my myspace page, and it has actually made some of them more open to asking me questions about feet, and willingness to show me their feet. Some of my female friends call me a "foot expert" Posted by Mommie Dearest (Member # 18340) on :
Very Confident
I don't run around telling everyone - but some do know what I do and like .. shit, my boss even calls me toes
I don't feel that our fetish is any different from other fetishes. Some people like feet, some breasts, some ass - different strokes for different strokes.
Yet I do feel that if I am not ashamed, others with the "hidden" fetish will be more apt to be brave about thiers as well Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i put somewhat confident. my pals don't really know.. but some of my more recent friends do. i've gotten better at handling the topic. i have gotten into serious talks about it and setting the record straight that feet lovers aren't all perves.
it depends on the folks i'm talking to.. and my mood (ie.. a great day... relaxed..working... etc).
my collegues at work know more about it than anyone else (just worked out that way over time.. not by design). my family knows the least and i'm most likely to denie it flat out to them. wife knows. some of her friends know. some of my photoshoot clients know.
RPM
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: If more foot fetishists were open about it more (don't worry, I'm part of the majority) that would change the magnitude of having a foot fetish.
well, i don't know about that. i mean, i have no one of knowing how to make it "cool" or be "cool about it. so if i was open with it, or anyone in my shoes was open with it, i kinda feel we'd be doing worse(by a little)
Posted by rabidninja (Member # 26212) on :
i put not comfortable, because I'm not. I am a perv, straight up, so I just let ladies walk into it unknowingly.. talkin about it is just redundant, lookin for awkward silences and feelin sheepish.. if anyone asks what i like in women I say imma leg/ass man, anything else that may have happened with the girl is just for extra sensations... im the only one who needs to know the extent of my fetish, (and you guys i guess), but maybe that will change with time...
Posted by Grey Fox (Member # 5552) on :
I'm an absolute shy person, so I would have to say somewhat confident.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I went with "Somewhat Confident" though, perhaps, I should have Gone with "Very". I have friends and acquaintances that are aware of my preferences but I don't discuss it in any great detail unless I'm asked and, even then, they usually don't want to know more than I think that feet are a great way to end a leg. Certainly, every girlfriend I've had was abundantly aware of my predilections (I'm happy to say that, at the very least, they enjoyed my enjoyment of their feet). I don't go out of my way to tell people about it but I also don't make any effort to hide it. I guess it boils down to this: I have a few friends who are gay and, honestly, I don't want to know the particulars of their intimate life. Why, then would I foist my preferred pleasures on others not intimately involved with me? Very confidently, I will tell you that I love girl's feet: high arches, long toes, vascularity, texture, taste...and please put them in my lap so that I can massage them.
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