Hot girl, great hair, great eyes, lovely smile, fun to hang with, funny etc etc...bad feet = unattractive
Is that just me being a fussy sh!t? or is it a foot 'fetish'. I think it shouldn't be called a fetish, it should be foot sexuality. It seemingly changes me a lot. Anyone else?
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Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
hey buddy, many times i have realized the word fetish makes my foot love or anyone elses look like its an obsession. its still a part of the body. its just like if you were really into breasts would you date a girl with a flat chest? if you were into asses would you date a girl with a flat ass? these are many questions that come up. however because are looked at as different when they are included in a situation like yours people will say you shouldnt let that stop you. i will say if its what you want and what you like then you already know you wont be happy if the lady has ugly feet.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
erm, it does and it doesnt.
if im going to come clean about my fetish to a girl, i would have to have fallen in love with her feet.
but i havent with my new gf.
but i know what you mean, its hard to say really.
Posted by Creamysoles (Member # 9641) on :
quote:Originally posted by Web Cruiser: Hot girl, great hair, great eyes, lovely smile, fun to hang with, funny etc etc...bad feet = unattractive
No, it's not that uncommon. As a matter of fact, the same holds true with ugly/plain looking chicks with awesome feet. You wouldn't take a second look if they were wearing socks and shoes. All that changes when she's wearing flip-flops and well polished toes with toe rings to boot (no pun intended).
quote:Originally posted by Web Cruiser: Is that just me being a fussy sh!t? or is it a foot 'fetish'. I think it shouldn't be called a fetish, it should be foot sexuality. It seemingly changes me a lot. Anyone else?
Oh shoosh yeah...more like everyone else. You're not being a fussy shit, just being real to what really makes you happy. I'd do the exact same thing. You can lie and break your external rules to anyone else, but you can never, never break your internal rules.
I don't know why people insist on calling it a foot-fetish. Technically, a fetish is relating to non-living objects such as shoes, nylons, etc., not human body parts. The attraction to breast, ass and legs is really "partialism" by popular consensus. I'll accept foot sexuality if you prefer. lol
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
i don't care if she is drop dead gorgeous, if she doesn't have sexy and pretty feet, she is only fuckable for a while. see, the way i see it, tits, face, ass pussy and legs are parts that , with time,one get tire of; feet never ever gets old.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Web Cruiser: Hot girl, great hair, great eyes, lovely smile, fun to hang with, funny etc etc...bad feet = unattractive
Most of us, as foot lovers probbaly agree with that. It's one of the most important aspects of their body to us.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
If she had nice feet I wouldn't care how big her breasts are.
Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Feet are pretty important. Be hard to spend a lifetime with a girl whose feet had no attraction to you. I know what you mean. I could maybe live with average but not totally unattractive.
Posted by TicklingFiend (Member # 10765) on :
I'd take it as a challenge--nurse the toes back to health!! XD I've never in my life seen an ugly sole (unless they have bunions or something); its the toes you have to worry over. Just ask them to let them grow out, then file meticulously and perhaps paint them. its like investing in a rundown house and renovating.its kind of satisfying in the end. Ugly feet should never make you walk away from a sweet girl.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
If i see a really attractive woman it would be strange to find her feet unattractive but it would still be a con for me, however, if i saw and average or slightly above average woman with ugly feet i am right there with you bud..... Unattractive and undoable. I think my sex drive toward a woman with ugly feet is just diminished but if they are really hot i could probably make it by. Maybe we should look into starting up foot plastic surgery Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
i'm the same if the feet aren't nice it won't matter how good everythign else is
same thing goes for great feet and ugly eveyrthing else
Posted by solevenerator (Member # 24978) on :
I'm buying the Indian gal I'm dating a pedicure today just to ensure our first foot experience is a good one. She is very excited and I know she appreicates it b/c her toes are already polished with designs....I expressed to her on date 1 the importance of a good pedicure to me. I think she gets it...
Open minded women understand we all have a "thing" whether it is butts , breasts or feet. it is the ability to be "fearless "about who we are and what we want that separates those that live their dreams and those who don't . IMHO
Posted by Web Cruiser (Member # 1019) on :
Nice, didn't expect so many replies. i expected others would feel the same. Didn't realise it would be this strongly though.
Cheers for the replies people. Ugly feet really can negate all of the positives in my eyes.
TicklingFiend..."I'd take it as a challenge--nurse the toes back to health!! XD"
all i can say is i genuinely did laugh at my computer screen. a real life LOL if you will. Unlike the people that write it all the time when they are not infact laughing at a computer screen.
cheers again
Web
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
i think from now on i could never be with a girl who's got ugly feet or unwilling to let me be myself with them a bit, no matter how great looking she is or personality wise.
i know that sounds shallow but i would only be unhappy in the long run. From here i vow never to be with a woman who does not accept my fetish nor shall i keep it a secret, for the rest of my life!
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
on the other hand ticklingFiend has a strong arguement and np doubt ill be in the situation at some point in my life, with a perfect girl who has horrible feet.
but theres only so much you can do to fix it.
the woman i marry, must have good feet! that i must promise myself!
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
just to give an example of what we are all talking about, there was a girl i used to work with that was drop dead gorgeous. every guy at my job wanted her and even some of the girls did as well. yes she is that hot!!! anyways, i got she left the job and i hadnt seen her in months. until last night when we bumped into each other. she looked so hot until i looked down and saw she had on flipflops and one of the nastiest pairs of feet you guys would ever see. i mean it was a complete turnoff. this just really disappointed me because this girl was perfect i thought. when i say her feet were disgusting i mean it. any pair of feet you guys have seen that you thought were unattractive probably looked better then hers. i didnt stop talking to her because im not rude like that. we are still friends, but my attraction to her is completely gone now.
Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
I pretty much agree. If I find her feet unattractive it removes A LOT. If the girl is average looking everywhere else but has great feet then, by the same token, it adds a lot.
Double edged sword I guess.
Posted by Web Cruiser (Member # 1019) on :
really is a double edged sword. Its weird really. But i kinda love it. very open about my fetish now if it comes up.
Posted by Watcher (Member # 1405) on :
Yeah, it's a huge letdown when a girl that you find attractive has ugly feet. For example; Just last week I was standing inline at the bank when in walked this beautiful redhead. Nice butt and everything else. Normally I look at their feet right away but I had to check her out. She stood next to me so I had to be careful about looking at her feet. I finally looked and UGHH!!!! Not a pretty thing to look at. What a huge letdown!
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
About the whole "FETISH" thing. I couldn't agree more. I hate that word, as I think it implies something 'devious' and dirty, rather than something that is simply less common than the love of breasts, legs, buttocks etc.
I feel that our love of feet are no different from these. Hell, hands are a popular body part. Feet have similar aesthetic qualities as well IMO.
Posted by solelvr2007 (Member # 20632) on :
quote:Originally posted by babeflover: i don't care if she is drop dead gorgeous, if she doesn't have sexy and pretty feet, she is only fuckable for a while. see, the way i see it, tits, face, ass pussy and legs are parts that , with time,one get tire of; feet never ever gets old.
Yeah I'll just drink a couple of beers if she has nice feet but is unattractive, but a 1/5 of Hen wouldnt make ugly feet pretty!!!
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