Me and my wife went to Chicago two weekends ago to do some shopping and we spent the weekend there. While we were there I couldnt help but to look at all the beautiful girls in their flip-flops. she caught me like 3 times looking at another womans feet. I dont think that I did it because I thought that the other womans feet were better then hers I think I did it cause I was curious. She knows that I have a foot fetish and even lets me do whatever i want with her feet but she still brings up the fact that I was looking at another womans feet..... any comments on this.. im open to everything.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
You just have to be more discreet dude, especially if you expect foot-fun from her. My wife knows everything about my fetish and knows that in these days of flip-flops and sandals and living in Florida, that my not seeing or watching other girl's feet is pretty much impossible. But I don't stare, I glance. I've also told her that her feet are the ones I want and desire and if I do look at a girl's feet, it's to note her polish color, decorations, or footwear, not to lust over them. We've been married 26 years, so she knows I'm serious about her alone.
My best advice is to try and cutback or cut down on ogling other girls and focus on her feet as much as you can. If she does catch you, tell her you were only admiring her polish color or pedicure or footwear. Hopefully she'll believe you.
Posted by Podder (Member # 15888) on :
It seems many women have trouble understanding that although a guy could be married to the sexist, most beautiful woman in the world, he would still look at other women. Could be in our genetic code. Yet, even if it is just looking, it still bothers many of the women involved with such men. Then again, I am neither married nor in a relationship, hence I can glance or stare all I want -- and I do both with impunity every chance I get, this being an especially good time of year for public foot viewing, what with the prevalence of flip-flops in particular. Still, I do try to be discreet, not wishing to get "caught," as it were, though depending on the circumstances, it could be interesting to see how that would go if it did happen.
[ August 20, 2007, 05:23 PM: Message edited by: Podder ]
Posted by sexyblondefeet (Member # 17561) on :
ha ha... yea im gonna have to.... she is cool with now...
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
We all know that our women would like us to think they are the only woman in the world who we find attractive, but guys eyeballs are wired to wander and inspect. Glancing at some pretty toes for a half second doesn't mean that we plan to pull the woman off to the nearest motel, that is not a realistic process. Making sure your wife's pretty feet get their share of pampering and love will help lessen her anxiety with your involuntary toe glancing. Tell her that thousands of us "female foot-loving" fools suffer from the same eye-twitching disorder and that the universal punishment for this behavior is to make you focus on her precious pair back at home. Silly girls, if they only knew the power they possess over us foot loving fools!
Posted by solelvr2007 (Member # 20632) on :
yeah if she knows about your fetish u might wanna look b4 u leap...or make sure the coast is clear b4 u look...
Posted by 2spy (Member # 1528) on :
I will always look at sexy legs and feet...I look at women... Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
You can always say, "Baby your feet are so much prettier than hers."
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