I need to ask a serious and useful question. How do you explain to a girlfriend that you want to play with her footsies? Some people are really freaked out when they hear that someone is obsessed with female feet. This can make the sitations really difficult.
I was thinking, maybe is would be possible to take her on a large walk in the mountains or another physical activity which putsa huge amount of stress on the feet. Then it would be possible to affer her a footmassage afterwards. Do you guys think that this would function?
Do you gays have any other methods of nearing oneīs self to the footsies of your girlfriend. Fortunately, some guys donīt need to plan such strategies as their girlies are acceptant of their desires, but others donīt have this luxury.
Posted by luvntoes (Member # 10587) on :
heres mine, watch a little tv with your girl make sure she is barefoot and make sure there is a coffee table in front of you. It is important to wait for a commercial... then when she least expects it pull your pants down and wank one off all over her toes. trust me she will love it.
Posted by Pizza al FOOTY (Member # 5122) on :
"""Do you gays ...""
hha funny shit
Posted by higharchlover (Member # 23372) on :
quote:Originally posted by luvntoes: heres mine, watch a little tv with your girl make sure she is barefoot and make sure there is a coffee table in front of you. It is important to wait for a commercial... then when she least expects it pull your pants down and wank one off all over her toes. trust me she will love it.
LMFAO!!!!....Yeah....that strategy works for me everytime!!!LOL
Posted by whataboutbob (Member # 17494) on :
I just came straight out, not STRAIGHT OUT but ..ease into it. You know dear you feet are cute. *why thank you* *I think they are ugly* *ect* There so cute they make me want to kiss them.... jobs done.
Posted by Reinforcedheelstoes (Member # 1099) on :
DON'T SAY ANYTHING!!!! This DOES NOT need to be disclosed. Singling a bodypart out on a woman, ANY bodypart, is just plain weird, be it boobs, ass, legs, feet or even the vagina. Remember, WE know we love feet, but in a new relationship, we simply want to communicate the fact that we feel her ENTIRE body is sexy. INCORPORATE her feet into your flirting, petting and lovemaking. You'll have plenty of time to train her later.
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
Just tell her? If she doesn't like it, or wont allow you to do anything, than she doesn't love you. Simple.
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
@Pizza al FOOTY. relax man, it was just a typo, i believe, pies dezcalzos men to say guys. you were funy though.
@luvntoes. what the fuck! you think ah?. i wouldn't approach it that way but, that's just me.
i would suggest to talk to her, tell her that, it is just one more part of her body that you love. don't act like that is the only part you are intrested in. then let her read some of the post in here.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I would just come out and tell her that you're attracted to women's feet.
Posted by Norseman (Member # 12549) on :
Jesus, I couldn't answer if I wanted to. Luvntoes almost made me swallow my tongue laughing!!!!!!
Posted by Sham (Member # 25200) on :
I think that you must first say that your feet smell then ask her to smell. She will say that it dont smell then you say her "let me smell it and then start waht you want"
Posted by Winged_Travesty (Member # 22080) on :
The way I did it, i was watchin a film on the sofa with her, she was barefoot, and i asked her if she wanted a foot massage. She said yes, and really seemed to enjoy it (we'd had a few drinks by then)
Next few times we were together i kept finding excuses to play with her feet, until it became a regular thing. After a while, I just said to her 'listen, the reason i'm focusing on your feet all the time is because i have a foot fetish, just thought you should know, and hope you're ok with that'
It's as simple as that. Just start off slowly, gradually let her get used to it, then just tell her the truth. Might work, might not. Worked for me, and now i can do pretty much anything, anytime i want with her feet. YAY!
Posted by toesboy123 (Member # 25218) on :
I just tell them. Either they like it or they don't, but either way they typically like the attention they get anyway.
My current GF was a bit skeptical at first, but absolutely loves it now that she's found out how good it can feel...
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
My approach is with actions and not words. I think it's important to develop a certain amount of trust and have a woman feel comfortable enough to be alone with you. Once that is established, it's all about feeling confident with who you are, including your fetish, and just going for it without making mention of it verbally. I've found that women are much more accepting of something like a foot fetish by just letting them know you have one by sucking on their toes and things along those lines, rather than trying to explain it to them. The term "foot fetish", unfortunately, has such a negative cannotation to it. So, rather than bringing it up in conversation and trying to slip it in, I go about it by not telling a woman, but by showing her. I think it works much better, especially if you're alone and there's a comfort level there and things are getting a little heated.
Posted by ballin13 (Member # 18735) on :
the truth is, its not easy to tell a someone you love that you have a foot fetish, i found from personal expirence the best way to go about it is to talk her. Make sure you truely feel confident in you're trust in her and then tell her. Don't make in seem like you're totally into just her feet. Tell her you have one then let her question you as she feels, don't throw it all out at once it may be to overwhelming for her. The truth is its a really hard thing to do but you'll feel so much closer once you've told her. In all liklessness she will problem be a little freaked and maybe a bit creeped out at first, but in the end I would most women find it "cool" that you so passionate about something. As said in previous comments by others if she truly loves you she will accept it. If she doesn't then she really doesnt love you. It's a tough situation but it eventually passes. Best of luck, tell us how it goes.
Posted by video586 (Member # 9044) on :
I have personally always been 100% direct about it and just said, "I have a foot fetish." I have never once gotten a bad response in my entire life, and I have always been able to just do whatever I wanted straight away. Of course, I understand that not everyone will respond well to it, but I think that being direct is often the best approach.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I always start from day one. I'll say something like "I only date women with pretty feet". Usually she'll ask if hers are pretty and make sure they're cute. They usually get the idea. When we hang out I might put their feet in my lap or drop subtle hints, and they usually get it. Women are very intuitive, and we're not as subtle as we'd like to think so odds are she knows. I don't like the term "foot fetish" because it implies a person that can't get off without feet. I like feet alot but I like alot of other things too. For guys that have never been out..don't be afraid. I've never had a response that was bad and didn't end up in some foot fun ;o) Be comfortable with who you are, otherwise she can't be comfortable with who you are. GQguy
Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
just come straight out. Last chick i did that with rewarded me with a footjob.
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
this topic seems to be quite regular and i asked a lot about it when joining the board and found that i got a lot of mixed responses!
reason being is that all women are different and likely to take it differently. im sure some girls want you to be vocal and others may be relaxed and others take some getting used to it.
my advice is that the main thing is to try your best to be very honest and tell your self it is completely to normal to have a FF becasue it is.
secondly, depending on your lady, dont be too pushy to start with. even if she doesnt like the idea at first it is very likely she could be pursuaded if you are simply nice about it (which sounds like you are)
and thirdly, (no offense to us newbies) but take a lot of notice from what the older and more experienced people have to say.
in times of sexual frustration it easy for us to throw our anger around in the wrong places, and the experts who are much more settles down and experiecnes know much more about how to deal with it all!
and also i think this is very important DO NOT NEGLECT YOUR WOMAN'S PERSONALITY! even if you actually have no morals and you're only looking to get some action, concentrating 100% only on sexual desires gets you nowhere! trust me.
be patient and not too serious and dramatic about it. if this gets you nowhere and you've had enough..then reconsider.
all one can do is try! it may even be a piece of cake for you! for me it was a long and hard process to get where i am now but it was worth it!