yes.. my wife caught me yesterday looking at another woman's feet when we were in the grocery store. when she's around, i try and curb the looking, but we split up to get things done faster and as i was walking down the aisle she was walking up and saw me look at some woman's feet. she brought it up in car and i honestly had to say i dont even remember doing it. i told her so and told her it was just such habit and it just happens. i asked if she was mad and she laughed and said no, she used to , but she finds it kinda funny now. i'm not sure what to make of that.. lol
Posted by footman515 (Member # 11308) on :
hey man dont feel bad.. my woman knows i look at womens feet all the time and she finds it funny and kind of cute with it, but she dont have a problem with it... god i love her lol
Posted by mas (Member # 10074) on :
Funny is better than mad.
I think it is unrealistic to expect us not to look at feet, for at least 3 reasons:
1. We are foot fetishists 2. We are guys 3. They are there
Number 3 is huge. I thought from the subject line - "got caught" - that you were doing something kinda sketchy. But dude - think about how much dudes look at titties. THEN think about how much dudes look at titties during Mardis Gras. It's almost always Mardi Gras for us.
Looking is nothing.
mas
p.s. My wife agrees. When I stop dead in my tracks and stare downward without moving or blinking for more than a minute, she might nudge me and I move on. But otherwise, she's pointing them out to me.
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
I agree with mas, funny IS better than mad.
My wife knows I look. Heck, she even helps to point out a pretty pair of feet, or a cool pair of shoes, or a nice pedicure.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Yeah, I usually get a good jab in the ribs or smack in the head myself.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
It obviously bothers her though...she wouldnt have brought it up if it didnt. I hate having to go incognito while out with my girl. We have been going to the mall these past 4 days or so and I am seeing the most beautiful feet ever! And I cant even look at them properly..just a quick glance! Posted by natalya_night (Member # 21652) on :
I almost find it funny that she would get mad. I am a Foot Model and have a foot fetishist boyfriend. I host foot fetish events and I allow him to endulge with every woman in the room if he would like. As well as he allows my feet to be worshipped. It actually turns me on because we do this thing where you wouldn't really know that we were a couple unless you were really watching...but I like to see him suck, lick, rub, wash other womens feet and watch the womans enjoyment. I have even allowed him to receive foot jobs from other women but he has only climaxed with me. (not because he won't but he says he can't...I blame my skills) Although I know that his attraction to feet can be sexual and euphoric I have confidence in myself. Not only as a Foot model but as woman. I think if other women allowed thier men to explore or at least be willing to participate it could open up a whole new world. Some would beg to differ but who knows?
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by mas: 1. We are foot fetishists 2. We are guys 3. They are there[quote]That's basically it!
But otherwise, she's pointing them out to me.
That's sweet- and hot!
As Natayla explained, some couples are fine with the other partner looking, and sometimes even interacting with a person of the opposite sex outside of the realtionship. We discuss that here evry so often. There's a part of me that thinks seeing another guy do things with my wife's feet (but only feet) would be incredibly hot.
Though my mom had no intentions (as far as I know)of letting my dad fool around with another woman, she was always pointing out good looking women to my dad.
My wife, on the other hand, has always detested when I do and gotten angry. But I'm trying to change that. I won't lie, I enjoy looking, and she knows that, but she also knows (after 25 years of marriage) that I don't have any plans for getting with another woman. I think I've convinced her that my interest in looking is solely to find and point out to her cute polish colors, foot jewelry, and footwear. She knows when I see something I like that I want to see it on her.
So don't give up, maybe that straegy would work for you!
[ May 07, 2007, 01:04 PM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
Posted by shook (Member # 12484) on :
i remeber reading this thread a few days ago and than after reading it i got busted with my gf at a little party we were at. There was about 10 or 15 of us outside at a bonfire, it was extremely hot by the fire so this girl ( my friends gf ) decided to take her shoes off and put her feet up closer towards the fire to warm them up. She had these really cute little pink socks on and her feet were so tiny! probably 3 or 4? im not too good on womens shoe sizes but damn were they small, she noticed me looking at them and bluntly said outloud with everyone around " are you looking at my small feet?" good thing it was dark out because i was blushing and said "no,no" laughing, it sucked because my gf was right beside me and she knows about my foot fetish but she didn't seem to really care thank god. anyway thats my story
Posted by tintin19153 (Member # 3694) on :
When I`m with my woman,I try not to look at other women or their body parts. I always try to make her feel like she is the only woman I find sexy. Now when I`m out alone,I`m looking at every nice butt and pretty pair of feet I see.
Posted by nylonfootsniffer (Member # 3488) on :
Hey, the other day i was out grocery shopping with the wife (one of my least favorite thigns to do) when a gorgeous brunette with sandals on with gorgeous feet walked by and without even look my way my wife hisses" "stop perving!" I don;t know how she noticed me doing it but she did.
Posted by KissesLadiesFeet (Member # 14769) on :
My wife knows about my fetish, and that I like hot feet in hot shoes. She'll even point out to me other girls in sexy heels. However, she has recently caught me staring at painted toenails, too, and even painted her own for me after noticing that. A few days later, I was at work, and she was home. I sent her a text from my camera-phone saying that I was thinking of her pretty painted toes, and jokingly suggested she send me a pic. A few minutes later, one arrived on my phone. God, I love this woman..!
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
my post was definitely more tongue in cheek. my wife is really cool about other women in general and we are actually swingers, so overall, she doesnt mind me looking at women and probably looks at them as much as i do. now, the weird part is that i am allowed to do anything i want with another woman EXCEPT anything foot oriented. she says that is an 'US' thing and she likes that is just between us. she definitely has eased up on the pervin though as long as i am not blatantly staring.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I LOVE going grocery shopping or just shopping in general with my girl. There is ALWAYS lots of "scenery" to look at..especially if my girl is trying clothes on or looking at some food item I can look freely plus it adds excitement to it when I have to go all "Bourne" doing it!
Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
My Wife knows of My fetish of course, and makes every effort to take care of Me and indulge Me to My fetish's fullest...as many already know here. I too am very fortunate.
She also knows I look at sexy feet whenever I can, and will even point them out to Me and ask if I like them, or if she sees a woman wearing a pair of sexy shoes, she will point them out to Me. She is so great that way. When she does see Me look or glance at a woman's feet she will nudge Me playfully and ask Me what I thought, or tell Me to stop drooling, and even get competative and tell Me her feet are sexier, too....which I love as she has been known to pose for Me right then and there to prove her point. She does not mind Me looking as she knows whos feet I love to have and come home too. As I said, I very fortunate indeed My friends.
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