ok, im feeling pretty good about my foot fetish now! my girlfriend knows all about it and i enjoy expressing it with you guys on here. i'm affraid to really tell anyone else as i have a large network of friends and i'm worried about getting a reputation as a weirdo.
Then on the other hand, i have heard some awesome stories from people on here telling how accepting people can be, or that they dont really see it as a big deal, or even better play on the fact that they have a foot fetish showing off their feet etc.
i don't know whether this would be a good thing for me to boost my foot fetish confidence as i find it exciting as a secret but it may release a weight from my shoulders! thought about telling a couple of my close pals on a night out drinking this saturday, i know they wont really care as they are awesome frineds, but i dont wanna be made fun of! what do you guys think?
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
You'll probably get a ribbing from them especially out on a Saturday night of drinking. Although your buds will probably not really care after that.
I myself don't make a point of announcing it to everyone. There are friends that know, but it doesn't make it into conversation since they aren't into it themselves.
The only ones that should know are your female friends. That opens the doors for amazing opportunities!
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
good points, cheers ledaemon. now you mention it i cant see much reason why my mates shoould know. i see a lot of people talk of being really open about it on here.
i can learn to be more open about it but telling my mates would be asking to be made fun of!
thanks
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by LeDaemon: You'll probably get a ribbing from them especially out on a Saturday night of drinking. Although your buds will probably not really care after that.
I myself don't make a point of announcing it to everyone. There are friends that know, but it doesn't make it into conversation since they aren't into it themselves.
The only ones that should know are your female friends. That opens the doors for amazing opportunities!
I totally agree! I find that there's really no need for male friends to know about it so I don't even bring it up around them. However, female friends are a completely different story and, as LeDaemon said, it can potentially open up doors to some great opportunities and experiences.
Posted by Chuckles (Member # 9749) on :
i do love the secret of the fetish, but i have told a few girls about my fetish, who were all open to footplay and such. i never told any dudes but i was stuck in a rut twice before. one time a buddy came over and i just almost wacked myself while looking at fem feet on the computer, he came in and was like "somebody like feet?" but i quickly changed the subject and told him it was a girl i was talking to online. the other time i was explaining how hot my girlfriend is to some friends and how i love her legs so much. i slipped and said "even her high arches are hot" and the one kid said "sounds like someone has a foot fetish" Not sure how i changed the subject but the same kid who said that had this girlfriend with great narrow size 10 feet and long toes. they broke up one summer and my best friend had a huge crush on her. we hung out at this chicks house and somehow ended up examining the bottoms of her feet. those big soles were so soft and milky i about spooged in my pants while holding them. luckily by buddy was under 18 and had a curfue so i stayed a while longer. This chick Amanda said she liked the attention to her feet, which she rarely gets, and allowed me to sniff and lick her soles and toes. her parents were away for the weekend and we ended up fooling around in her room and she gave me a footjob and i blew a huge load all over her soles and heels.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Nice story, Chuckles! It has been my experience that if a woman is comfortable with you, the odds of getting footplay increase dramatically and there's no need to make this big confession by saying, "I have a foot fetish." If you're one on one with a woman and she is enjoying the attention you're giving to her feet and she is comfortable with what you're doing, odds are she'll be just fine when you begin sucking on her toes without making the "big announcement" about your fetish to her.
Posted by haydenpanettierefeetslave (Member # 2512) on :
I have never had any bad experiences with letting a woman know about my foot fetish. I was embarrassed the first time I told a woman about my fetish, but she thought it was neat and I totally changed her view about her own feet. She thought her feet were ugly and now she thinks her feet are pretty damn sexy.
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
With my friends I'm pretty open about it. They might make a joke, but I just reply that they love humps that milk babies, and we tend to come to a sort of agreement there. Lol. Point is, don't worry about it. If you act like it's weird, then that's the respones you're going to get, act like it's normal, and chances are, they will, too.
Good luck, man, and congratulations on your girlfriend knowing.
And it's not like it's coming out. Your friends aren't going to kick your ass for saying you like feet, almost definitely. Be happy you're a foot fetishist, man! We've got it the best in terms of decorations and variety.
Best.
Posted by MusclesX (Member # 20860) on :
Wow, I just asked pretty much the same question lol.