Foot Fetish Forum: Update on me and my gf

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Posted by beamont (Member # 21780) on :

Hey, Some of you read and replied to my earlier thread "hmm... what to tell her?"

Now my girlfriend loves giving me footjobs! It's wierd... I was so embarressed about my fetish before. I think cause my ex thought it was wierd and was turned off by it. Just last night, my girlfriend was asking me to try numerous different positions to give me footjobs. I even asked if I could suck on her toes and she said yes. She even wanted to suck on MY toes! I've never had a desire to have my toes sucked on before but the fact that she wanted to makes me happy. She also asked me what color I want her to paint her finger and toe nails [Smile]

For those of you embaressed about telling your significant other your fetish, take the advice on this board. Don't be! After you get over it, you'll have lots of fun!

Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :

wow i wish i could get my lady to be that enthusiastic!

Posted by AFfootdude05 (Member # 2999) on :

lamp LOL when I saw your log-in name before you added an avatar, the first thing I thought of was 40-Year-Old Virgin!

Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :

haha i've never seen that movie! what happens? i put lamp because i was nervous about putting my actual name for some strange reason! my interest in lamps stems from my love for the the film anchorman, but in actual fact i dont really care too much for lamps! i should change it to "i love feet!" but lamp will do nicely!

ps. sorry to distract from the subject. tell your partner you love her feet, not her lamp!

Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :

great update!! i'm happy for you!!!! it's great when things work out like that!!! enjoy it.. cherish it.. make her feel special all the time.. and you can enjoy this for a long long time (so i'm told).. me.. it's been a great relationship.. leading to greater things !

RPM

Posted by Ummmmm (Member # 15145) on :

That's awesome, beuamont! Welcome to the "My wife/GF is with me on my fetish" club! [Thumbs Up]

Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :

quote:
Originally posted by lamp:
wow i wish i could get my lady to be that enthusiastic!

I agree, Seems you've opened up a present that all foot-fetishist dream about [Woot]

Posted by beamont (Member # 21780) on :

Definately. I can't wait until I see her again [Smile]

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

that's awesome man, congrats!! [Cheers]

Posted by beamont (Member # 21780) on :

Hehe, I forgot to mention... we were using strawberry lube and after she gave me a footjob, I asked if her toes tasted like strawberries. What did she do? She said "let's see" and she grabs her foot and starts sucking on her toes! I was like "Now let me taste then" I'm in heaven.

Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :

Now that's just beautiful man.... [Cry]

(Tears of Jealousy)....

Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :

quote:
Originally posted by beamont:
-Now my girlfriend loves giving me footjobs!
-my girlfriend was asking me to try numerous different positions to give me footjobs.
-I even asked if I could suck on her toes and she said yes.
-She even wanted to suck on MY toes!
-She also asked me what color I want her to paint her finger and toe nails
-she grabs her foot and starts sucking on her toes!

She's pushing ALL the right buttons AND going for extra credit in my book! Wow! Very happy for you bro! Totally hot!

Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :

oh my god, thats amazing! well done. now i need to do some hard work to get my lady to be as open minded. just what did you tell her?! whats your secret beaumont?

Posted by beamont (Member # 21780) on :

Ok, this is all I did.

We are the adventurous type of couple. She likes to try new positions, do it in different places, etc. So one day, we were at Swiss Chalet at a booth and she took her shoes off and put her feet on my lap. We were done eating at this point so my hands were free so I started rubbing her feet. She then just started rubbing me with her feet out of nowhere. I think she enjoyed it because we were out in public.

So I told her it was fun and we have to do it again sometime. From there I threw in comments here and there about it. Then when we were talking about new things to try, I was asking her if she thinks anything would be wierd and she said no. I told her I think the same way unless it's something extreme like naked midgets running around and wrestling in a kiddy pool full of jello (sorry any midget fans out there! haha [Wink]

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Whoever read my other thread will know the rest of the story, but a short version is this. This conversation about what's wierd happened one night at her house. So I said, "See if you can make me cum with your feet". So she gave me a footjob, and did everything I told her (position, etc) and a few minutes later, I was cumming. She said it was wierd at the very start then she didn't mind.

So then I told her she has to do it again in different positions to see what works the best. And from there, we've been more open about it. I could have just told her I have a fetish, had some embaressment, and she wouldn't have cared, but I liked this approach better because it was less embaressing for me, she more than likely knows her feet drive me crazy, and its fun for her because its a new experience, which is what we enjoy.

Ha, sorry for the long post. My conclusion: If you have a girl that is open to new things, and you get over any embaressment you might have, then you're set. If she's the kind of girl that likes to do things in public, try the restaurant trick and then tell her later it was really hot and it turned you on.. seemed to work for me!

Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :

ahh yes i remember replying to that thread and telling you to go for it! but looks like you've found your own way which works better because your foot activities have happened naturally. well done.

i on the other hand told my girl about my fetish a while ago now which was quite embarresssing at the time but it worked in my favour because she sees it as me being open with her. she does give me footjobs from time to time and include her feet in sexual activities if i play my cards right.

she knows her feet drive me crazy and she uses it to her advantage. my problem is that i think she sees it as giving me a special treat (which yes it is) but because of that i dont think she sees the need for her to do anything else ie. try new positions, paint her nails, use lubrication, because what she does already is good enough in her eyes. i must be gratefull for what i receive but there are time i'd like her to be more experimental, more enthusiastic but despite me growing confidence i hate asking too much of her!

she has already explained she does not have a high sex drive and she says not like the look of her feet or feel confident about them (despite blatantly using them to her advantage with me!). once i got to paint her toe nails but she would never wear polish regularly. maybe i need to compliment her more? or get better at pleasing her? i dont know, trying to find ways of encourage her to experiment, but not quite sure how?

ps. sorry to bable on about myself! i just feel your sex life seems something to aspire to!

Posted by beamont (Member # 21780) on :

Hmm that's a tough spot. I think you're on your way though. You should ask her what turns her on and see if she has any quirks or fetishes. That's one of the things that helped me.