Hi all, My girlfriend has always accepted my severe foot fetish and of course this is just what I want in life but for some reason I keep thinking of other women's feet when I should be satisifed with hers. She has a U.K. size 4 feet which are very soft and her toe-nails are regularly painted, I like kissing and licking her toes and soles, she has no aroma to her feet which I like the best and I love her feet but keep thinking of worshiping other girl's feet and want to explore my foot fetish more with other female feet. My question to all members who have a girlfriend not wife is are they fully satisfied with their girlfriends feet or do you seek other feet?
Posted by MarcusB (Member # 21192) on :
This is quite normal as you always want what you can't have....be open with your g/f and see if she is open to it or not, sneaking around usually ends up with losing what you already have. Also see if she's open to you going to a 'Foot Party' in your area...
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
huh?
yes.. other feet do appeal.. but that isn't too different from being a regular male.
however.. most women aren't cool with guys getting their thrills elsewhere..... but some are.. just be careful how you bring it up... you may mess up your deal as is.
you can always just chalk it up to being a guy and just fantasize in your head privately and keep it moving.
RPM
p.s. but being your'e dating... doesn't mean you can't look....
Posted by clyde121 (Member # 9080) on :
i hate being tied down to 1 girl. you can take the approach i do....stay single. if your smooth with the ladies, theres no limits on the amount you can have. if you want 1 on monday, so be it.....if you want a different girl on tuesday, a different girl on wednesday...well you get the point. the sky is the limit brotha Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
this is kinda the opposite as my wife. we are swingers and the only thing off limits to me are another woman's feet.
i think you're kinda screwed. its really no different than asking to go kiss another woman. if your g/f understands your fetish, she'll never even consider it.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
nusuth... yeah.. i hear ya. my lady says... other feet are off limit.. but when i explained that to me it's more an interest than a fetish and i can differenciate between a functional massage and a moment of pleasure with feet.. that is when she was more relaxed about the massage.. but general messing with feeet.. nope.. and pics.. well. we're still negotiating.. i've got a site and i want to add pics to it.. but may have to give it up if my lady still holds her view. (we're still negotiating and talks are going well)
As Marcus said "we always want what we can't, or don't have". That hunter instinct I guess!
I spent many years searching, stalking, watching and perving to other women's feet, both on the internet and in real life because I was too scared to tell my wife about my fetish. One of the biggest regrets of my life.
Just like the rest of her, although she's not perfect- she's all mine. Since telling her about it, she's been a totally loving, caring wife in trying to make me "foot happy." In the last year or so, I've tried to intentionally focus as much as I can on her feet only. A fact that I'm constantly trying to make clear to her.
I've never done anything else with another girls feet, other than look at them. And though I still look at other girl's feet, appreciating their beauty and even their sensuality, I would never cheat on my wife. I use their appearance to show my wife new nail colors, sandals, flip-flops or foot jewlery that I like.
Though she could argue that I'm trying to make her look like someone else, and therefore desire her feet even more- I'm not. I'm just trying to let her know what I like and would enjoy seeing on her, to make her feet even more attractive to me.
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
sometimes i do. it can be frustrating when my girlfriend is not enthusiastic or confident about her feet. but after time she has become better at footjobs and paints her nails for me time to time and now i think they are great. i guess its how she carries and uses them!..........
but yes i still fantasize about other womens feet. i think its a natural thing for men to "window shop" as long as you dont cheat on your lady then no harm is done in my opinion.
(ps. i am new to this board. thank you to people for accepting me. this forum is a liberating experience!)
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