Hey all you foot loving people! I'm a 26 year olf female who has just accidentally discovered my husband has a foot fetish. I always noticed him looking at feet and shoe shops but never thought of it as a fetish until he left the computer logged on and went to the toilet when i saw loads of foot fetish stuff! OK, it doesn't bother me, in fact its quite kinky. I now secretly know his weakness! But what can i do to gently tease him without him knowing i know his secret! He also always loves me in a pair of smart sexy black trousers hanging over bare feet or strappy sandals. He says they have to be black! Is this another common fetish? Black smart sexy trousers and strappy heels? He hates the slutty short skirt look!
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Hi Evil D, I don't know how to answer this one because you'll have a fellow footlover by the balls sorta like givin' plans to the enemy
Anyways, you asked so. When your in the car in the passengers seat, (US drives right hand side right? ) Cross your right leg over your left to expose your foot from side view and wait a while and see what happens .
Also when you watch t.v. Sit not so obvious but in front towards the side a lil' and give him a shoe dangle show, but still act unaware of your discoveries.
Since you found out and it doesn't bother you, he deserves it. And it doubles up for him because you are actually goin' outta your way to find a way to please him. You are a top-notch gal and he is one lucky dude.
I got a lot more, but I'll just save that for another day ------------------------------- P.S Just to let you know that what I'v just said does it for me, but there are quite a few "Sub-foot fetish" subjects as you go deeper into the foot-world. Some lean more towards; flip flops, panty-hose, socks, trampling...etc
[ March 16, 2007, 01:53 PM: Message edited by: FootLongSub Zero ]
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
Welcome to the forum, EvilDevilsGirl,
I'm Mitch. You asked about different fetishes. Actually, although I am more of a bare foot fetishist than I am a shoe fetishist, I do know from reading about foot fetishism all my life, that a person can have fetishes for specific kinds of shoes as well. It is great that you are so understanding about his fetish. Some girls wouldn't be. The only advice I can give, is to just do what your heart tells you, and have fun with it. As one who is into this myself, I know that I greatly appreciate a woman who would go out of her way for me with my fetish, especially if she herself wasnt into it.
Enjoy the forum, Mitch
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Welcome to Wu's, Evil D.. With regards to your question, I guess it really depends on how much you want to tease him and make him squirm, knowing that he thinks you don't know about his foot fetish. Everyone has given really good answers so far with exposing your feet, wriggling them around, shoe dangling, etc.. They're innocent enough activities and they can be done without looking like it's a purposeful act.
You could always draw attention to your feet by making comments about them or asking his opinion on a pair of shoes or a toenail polish color. Also, asking him for foot massages is another way of teasing him, since he'll have your feet in his hands and yet may be a little shy about doing anything more than massaging them. There's a woman I know who suspected I had a foot fetish and she did that to me (i.e. drew attention to her feet, asked for foot massages). It worked like a charm on me and was most enjoyable!
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
What does smart trousers mean? Is that a brit term or do some garments actual have an intelligence quotient now?
Just kidding!
Your man is a lucky guy..
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Welcome EvilDG!
Although "playing and teasing" for a short term will be fun, I for one am going to plead that you show the man some mercy and let him know that you know, although depending on how and how often you tease him he might "catch-on" pretty quickly!
If you do any amount of reading past threads and posts here you'll quickly discover that almost all of us, besides liking barefeet, have what we often term "sub-fetishes". My two biggest ones for example are: sandals & flip-flops and foot jewelry. These can be anything from the actual physical "build" of the foot, to certain shoes, or certain activites. (I also love seeing girls barefoot outside and with wet feet). So maybe half the fun will be discovering, besdies your barefeet alone, what really turns him on.
[ March 17, 2007, 09:29 AM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
hey and welcome.
your man is so lucky... he owes you big time!!
my only suggestion... wear more of what you know he likes.. and that should do the trick.
i'm not into 'slutty' but you can wear a short skirt and look smart.. just like trousers can look smart.. others slutty.
but i digress.
making your feet more visible to him is the best way to treat.. and acting like it's no big deal. let him enjoy.. sometimes point out a few things you see and ask what he thinks.
i hope one day he can 'come out' to you. you both will have more fun.
i don't have a fetish (in my mind).. just a high level of interest.. and variety is the spice that works best for me.
view of the feet in 'cute' poses.... feet covered with hose... in all kinds of non-platform footwear..... massaging... i like a lot of different things about feet.
now.. if he's a member here... wonder how long it will take for him to figure its you. this should be fun!
hope to hear from you soon.
RPM
Posted by Pete-The-Feet-Lover (Member # 3260) on :
Hi, welcome to Wu's. The guys have given some great advice so far. One thing you can do while you're watching TV on a couch is place your bare feet near his legs. Maybe bump him "accidentally " with them.
Also try rubbing your own feet as if they're sore and see what he does. He may offer to massage them for you.
Good luck and have fun.
Posted by EvilDevilsGirl (Member # 21381) on :
Thanks for the advice fellas! much appreciated... some of the site he was looking at involved women crushing things under their feet... even insects and bugs and lobsters... is this another fetish altogether?!
Posted by FJ_HJ_lover (Member # 19322) on :
It's called "crush fetish" I suppose you can say it's a variant of foot fetishdom. It's not my cup of tea,but apparently it's "popular". Maybe crush a few bugs in front of your husband, see what happens.
Posted by silke (Member # 8419) on :
My advice:
When he is sitting in the couch, watching tv, sit beside him and place your feet in his crotch. Massage there, and when you feel he's getting nervous order him to get his pants off and do him a footjob (masturbate with your feet).
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
Welcome aboard, Evildevilsgirl. We (foot fans) come in many variations. Some like crushing things with bare feet, foot pedaling, dirty, clean, natural, polished, etc. Wear a pair of new sexy "black" strappy heels your husband has never seen and ask, "Do you like these heels?" and take it from there. Incorporate your feet into your love sessions the next time and let him know you are digging the foot attention. He should defintiely appreciate the this effort. This will make him comfortable about the subject. My wife knows I LOVE pretty feet and actually notices pretty feet faster than I do. She will say, "She has some pretty looking feet." "Nice looking pedicure on that chick." "If she is going to wear those heels, she needs to get a pedicure." . My wife is cool about my affinity.
[ March 17, 2007, 03:48 AM: Message edited by: Footman9 ]
Posted by EvilDevilsGirl (Member # 21381) on :
ok, guess what i did? i teased him silly. We have pet tropical fish and a turtle. I said to my husband, "imagine if one day the fishtank cracked and all the fish were on the floor flapping around, how freaky!" he said, "what would you do?" I replied, "well there would be no chance of saving them, i would probably just stamp on them and make death quicker"... you should have seen his face. I got hot sex that night.
Posted by crazyscot (Member # 3393) on :
You, are truly one of the Good ones, EvilDevil!!!!
Welcome to the next level, and welcome to WU's!!!
Does he like socks, or nylons, etc. If so... hubby could be in a world of hurt!!!
Have Fun with it!!!
Posted by EvilDevilsGirl (Member # 21381) on :
I may even 'accidentally' but on purpose stand on a snail or slug in front of him!
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
welcome!!
your husband is a lucky man that's for sure, just hope i can meet a woman who's as understanding and willing to please Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
I'm not into crushing one bit but it's awesome you would would do that for him no questions asked!
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
hey welcome to the board.anyways one thing that seems not to be mentioned is,if you do an overboard of teasing,then it nolonger is teasing.anyway!,I'm not into the whole ''crushing'' things so I'm not too familiar with how to tease with that.but showing your feet naturally more,going shoe shopping,making foot related conversations,etc are some ways to tease
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He also always loves me in a pair of smart sexy black trousers hanging over bare feet or strappy sandals. He says they have to be black! Is this another common fetish? Black smart sexy trousers and strappy heels? He hates the slutty short skirt look!
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sorta like givin' plans to the enemy ![[Evil Grin]](graemlins/evilgrin.gif)
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) Cross your right leg over your left to expose your foot from side view and wait a while and see what happens ![[Wink]](wink.gif)
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. My wife is cool about my affinity.![[Cheers]](graemlins/cheers.gif)