My girl loves it when I massage her feet and she usually re-pays me by giving me a foot job. Here latley she has been falling asleep while im rubbing her feet. After she is asleep I find myself getting aroused playing with her feet. After she falls asleep I find myself rubbing my manhood on her feet or foot, whichever is close. Is this wrong or should I just wait till she wants to do it for me? I need some input here....
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
welcome sexyblondefeet to Wu's!!!!!
hum.. my thoughts.. if she knows and consents to you doing this.. fine.. if not.. i'd be hesitant to consider it. but that is just me.
she's your girlfriend.. so.. the only thing making it wrong is if she doesn't consent. other than that... you should be cool.
RPM
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
lol i've had this happen with my wife a few times.. and after the first time, i told her and she laughed and said, whatever, as long as you dont wake me up and clean up afterwards, have fun.
its not as fun as when she is awake, but its better than none
i'd say be honest.. maybe she'll be cool too.
Posted by bbbbbbbbbbguy (Member # 7703) on :
Don't ask us, ask your girl if it's cool with her.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
i got busted doing that a couple of times...neither time went well! I was aroused also by the fact she is asleep but she didnt seem to share my enthuasim...I tried the "its not like you have to do something" line but that didnt work...she said its not so much the fact that I did it..its the fact that I didnt ask her BEFORE doing it.I can see where she is coming from though and havent attempted it since.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Man I do it with wifey all whenever. She's down with it because she's happily asleep and I'm happy too with very little effort from her.
Posted by moxy (Member # 17359) on :
Hummm- from what you’re saying the problem would be not what you’re doing just that shes asleep while you’re doing it. I honestly don’t know how I’d react to this- it would depend on the guy/our relationship and so forth.
One thing I can say though is that I would be much more favourable towards the idea if he told me rather then me waking up and catching him.
Posted by sexyblondefeet (Member # 17561) on :
well she knows that i do it and she dont say anything about it. i was just wondering if i was the only one who does this????
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Personally, I'd want to be sure that she's OK with it. More than likely she'll consent, but a girl can feel very violated by something like that.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
Dude, we are foot fetishists not rapists.
Always ask.
Posted by Stryder_007 (Member # 13405) on :
Yeah go for it. For one, if she enjoys getting her feet rub and repays you afterward with a footjob? Just a shot in the dark here, but it seems she is comfortable with your fetish and probably wouldn't trip over it. My ex didn't care, she loved my fetish and when you get to a certain point of comfort and are really a couple you just go with it.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I agree with stryder...if she is comfortable with the fetish then she probably wouldnt seem bothered by you doing stuff to her feet while she is asleep although some girls will definetly feel violated when you do that or anything sexually to them for that matter!
Posted by sexyblondefeet (Member # 17561) on :
She it totally cool with it.. she woke up once when I was doing my thing and finished me off!!!!
I just wanted to know if I was the only one that has tryed this
Posted by sexyblondefeet (Member # 17561) on :
Diabolicus get A life...... There is no raping going on here..... She is totall cool with anything with her feet. I paint her nails and use the boards on her feet. They are soft as silkk It makes her horny when I massage her feet and it usually leads into more so go lickyour moms oes.
Posted by tony_dyer2000 (Member # 9881) on :
I tried this for the first time last nite. I was up late doing some work and my wife went off to bed. After a couple of hours I headed off to bed and spotted her feet uncovered, so I just went over and started playing with them and sniffing them, I can tell you my man hood was harder than titanium.
She awoke at this point and I wasnt sure how she was going to react but she looked up over the covers saw me and just laughed and went back to sleep, I took this as a sure sign to continue so I did and enjoyed myslef immensly.
I dont know what it is about "sleeping feet" I think its because you can be uninhibited and free to do what you like with seemingly no one watching, dunno just me thoughts.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
sexyblondefeet.. chill. you did ask and you must have known on some level that it wasnt 100% ok to do. is it akin to raping? that may be a little strong, but it definitely not right. i mean, even if she is ok with it while awake, how would she feel about you having sex with her while she is asleep? its all about consent. so quit the insults and try being a little more mature.
Posted by sexyblondefeet (Member # 17561) on :
my wife is totally cool with me messing with her when she is asleep.. I just wanted to know if others enjoyed it as much as I do....thats all
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by tony_dyer2000: I dont know what it is about "sleeping feet" I think its because you can be uninhibited and free to do what you like with seemingly no one watching, dunno just me thoughts.
There's no question that many men are incredibly aroused by the whole "doing things to a girl while she sleeps" thing. Peruse any vidclip site today and you'll find plenty of clips showing guys supposedly kissing, fondling, orally sodomizing and actually having intercourse with "sleeping girls". Personally I can't wrap my mind around that, largely because the only way you could accomplish that would be to drug a girl-and that IS rape.
I believe it is largely a power and control thing or the excitemenrt of possibly getting caught, and I'd be lying if I said that I've never gotten excited by both of those- I have.
In my case my desire was not to play with her feet (she would not have appreciated being kept awake by that) but to simply jerk-off while looking at, and being close to, her barefeet. This desire was driven by two major underlying factors: being horny from not getting much regular sex because of our young kids and my frustration at not being brave enough to tell my wife about my fetish (she had no clue back then). It was my only chance to focus, love and appreciate her bare feet that I had. At times I even had the submissive psychological thought that, if she'd wake up to find me "appreciating her feet" that she'd both see that I had a fetish and it would force me to confess it to her. But at the time I could not make myself do it- I respected her too much.
I have no doubt that she'd get very upset with me now if she woke up to find me "spanking the monkey" at or on her barefeet while she slept. She'd probably not be real enthused about me wanting to do that in the middle of the night if I asked her, but probably would allow me to.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
ya feetluvr...I sometimes just want to sit at the end of the bed and jerk just either looking at her feet or smelling them..not even have my girl give me a FJ.She sometimes will indulge me so to speak but more and more it is starting to seem like a "chore" to her although she has to do nothing but lie there.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i asked my lady her thoughts.. she said.. if i had never told her i wanted to do so and it woke her up.. she'd be upset. but if she knew in advance i might do so... in most instances she'd be ok.
her definition of what makes it ok, why is she asleep at the time i'm messin' with her feet.... did she have a long hard day? is she taking a short nap.. is it in the morning after a nights sleeep. the more she needs sleep, the more she's not going to be thrilled by what i'm doing..
she'd rather i wake her (at appropraite time) so that she's awake when i do what I want with her feet..
thankfully for her.. i've not got a thing for doing stuff to her feet while she's asleep. i just love massaging her feet when she's had pumps on with hose.
RPM
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: I sometimes just want to sit at the end of the bed and jerk just either looking at her feet or smelling them.
This situation is probably the only time that you can really "savor" her feet visually or via smell for as long as you want to. Unfortunately the lights are usually out so it can be hard to see. Certainly would not be hard to smell though.
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
Many times I have laid upon the sofa with my girlfriends feet upon my chest. She often fell asleep but that didn't stop my kisses and caresses. You will know it's wrong when she kicks you in the head. Until then, enjoy!
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