I've done a lot of taping of girls who just from habit seem to want to play with their shoes as they sit and eat talk etc. I've seen women who curl, flick and point thier toes but wonder are they really foot girls. I've talked to a few who are quick to remove thier shoes but they seem to just find shoes uncomfortable. Then there are women , just like my wife, who by nature always seem to keep her shoes on but enjoys teasing me with her feet? Has anyone had more experience with relating to a girl who does a lot of active shoe play? Do they give better footjobs? Are they better at foot related sex play?
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i find that shoeplay is just that.. shoeplay and isn't related to anything beyond that in most cases. in fact, most shoe play comes from two categories.. 1-their feet are tired because the shoes don't fit right or 2- they just do it and aren't aware of doing it.. a motor reflex habbit.
now.. as to are they into feet, are they better at foot related stuff, no connection that I can tell. i've asked a lot of women about their shoeplay habbit.
most of them aren't aware that it is eye catching unless they dealt with someone who pointed it out to them or knew someone who used it to lure men.. even less.. if they are observant enough to make the connection.
so... it's an individual thing. my lady doesn't shoe play to save her life!!! however, when she's in the mood, she can tease the life out of me, but only when she's in the mood. however, when very nervous around someone she's feeling (romantically) she will fidget with her feet a bit more than ordinary (meaning.. she fidgets instead of not).
she's super sensitive to what is considered proper and polite etiquette.. she can sit totally still for long periods of time if she feels she's beeing observered.
her sister shoeplays.. she's basically anti-feet anything. don't touch.. most of her girlfriends are like that, but one.. shoeplays and is very flirtatious with her feet and knows that men notice.
to each his/her own!
RPM
Posted by Bman (Member # 2267) on :
RPM. You said it all. My wife sez its improper and bad manners to expose ones feet in public. Now she admits that she slips her feet partially out of her shoes at work when no one can see under her desk but its a sub concious thing and it doesnt turn her on at all. During other times when shes in a good conversation she sometimes shoe plays like crazy and is unaware of what shes doing. She loves stilettos but its only a fashion thing.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
Bman, i hear ya with the fashion thing. my lady wears stilettos in part as a fashion thing, and also because i like it(that being the smallest factor in the equation). she wears her heels where she feels fashion calls for it.. and not a momemt more.. drives me nuts... she looks so hot in her heels... as if she was born to be in them!! oh well.. that is what i get for having a thing for strong minded.. strong willed.. independent women.. i drive myself crazy.. but don't want it any other way!
RPM
p.s your wife and my fiance would hit it off well as far as fashion and feet subject is concerned.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Doesn't necessarily mean better FJ's though they are usually a bit more fun to watch but it also doesn't mean bad FJ's either. I have them from those who shoe play and those who don't enjoyed both of them too.
Posted by deeparchlover (Member # 7021) on :
I've never had a woman who would just naturally curl and point her toes out of habit. I guess when I see how naturally playful some women seem to be at shoe play I think they must be better at teasing and footjobs. This must be one of those busted theories like the one I had that gymnist are better at love making.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I think it's mostly an unconcious, nervous habit. My wife does no shoeplay, but does flex her toes and feet alot while barefoot at home.
Posted by acebg (Member # 2056) on :
My wife wiggles her toes like crazy when she's on the phone. It's natural and she's not aware of it. When I first met her at work, I sat at the desk next to her. She sat on her left leg at times giving me a great view of toe action (she didn't know I was watching). We ate together in the cafeteria, and I could hear her playing with her shoes uinder the table. Those were the days!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
acebg, are you saying your lady no longer does her wiggling anymore? hummmmm
when i first met my lady and was becoming her friend.. she had a nervous fidget that on occassion led to her dipping her shoes. but that only lasted about 2 weeks... ie two visits. that was it.