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Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :

OK guys I need some help here.Today I went to meet my girl for lunch at her university....we were walking to the local macdonalds when she tells me that during her history class the guy sitting beside her was checking her feet out.(she knows of my love for feet). well at first I said how do you know he was checking them out...she said the way the were positioned she could see him constantly staring at them. At first I was a little turned on at the fact that some other guy was finding my girl's feet attractive, so I asked her what she did when realized he was checking them out? She said she started flexing the toes that sort of thing, the same thing that turns me on! [Mad]

and any thought of me being turned on flew right out the fucking window! I mean if the guy was checking out her ass lets say, and she started to bend over and doing that kind of stuff it would be considered flirting so should I consider this flirting or what? Any comments would be great!

Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :

you are right! yes, it is a turn on when other guys check her feet out but to pose as she did, is a no, no. i'w be upset also.

Posted by nose4toes (Member # 16640) on :

Hi bluetoelover.

I think it's great someone was checking out your lady's feet; it means you've got great taste, and it's definitely a turn on to know your lady makes other guys excited.

Was she flirting? I think she was more showing off, and enjoying the effect it was having (it's a power thing). So, perhaps by the loosest definition, she was flirting a little, but the key is, she was doing so harmlessly.

As my girlfriend tells me, "I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you always come home to eat." Maybe that philosophy can apply to you. Everyone likes to flirt; it makes us feel good about ourselves. The fact she told you, and was completely honest, says to me that you have nothing to worry about. But ultimately, it is for you to gauge whether her flirting (or her enjoyment of showing off her feet to strangers) is something to be worried about.

Best wishes!

Posted by loves licking feet (Member # 12096) on :

I agree with nose4toes , I feel she was just 'showing off' ..... if I was you , I wouldn't worry about it ..... at least until a guy asked to touch or lick her feet & she lets him ..... thats where I would draw the line !!!

Posted by Just Me (Member # 1678) on :

I really don't think she was flirting. It was more of a teasing than anything. It would be, like you said, someone bending over to show herself off to a guy who thinks he is being sneaky, looking out of the corner of his eye. Basically a 'look what I've got and you can't have' type of thing.

Like others have said, unless the guy starts grabbing for her (or vice versa) I wouldn't think it is anything to worry about.

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

Think about all the girls who model their feet for pics...do you think that they're "flirting" with the hundreds, probably thousands of horny guys that are drooling and staring? No way. They're teasing and having fun with it...and at the end of the day they're with their boyfriends or husbands.

Girls, or rather women I should say, deep down never really grow out of that phase of liking to get looked at. You ever see some 14 year old little Lolita-type that dresses slutty just to shock and turn heads? Inside of almost every woman alive is a little girl like that. It's just nature. And women aren't alone...hell, what guy doesn't like to get checked out by women?

We all like to be desired, basically...just women tend to enjoy it more. It's empowering, it's flattering, and why not have a little fun with it?

So no, I don't think she was flirting so much as enjoying the idea that he might've been scoping her feet. Besides, she told you about it. Do you think for a minute that if she were to actually flirt with another man that she'd broadcast it to you? Unless she's got a desire to end the relationship then hell no she wouldn't mention it.

Again, just remember...women like to get looked at. No matter how old they get deep inside they're still an attention-craving pre-teen, and there is nothing wrong in this.

For that matter, us guys always hold onto that blunt, savage little animal that we were as kids too. Instead of playing cops and robbers, as we get older we start watching action movies, playing violent video games, collecting guns...we're just as guilty of the same behavior, we just take a slightly different path.

Hope this helps. [Cool]

Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Just Me:
I really don't think she was flirting. It was more of a teasing than anything.

That's exactly what I was thinking too.

Flirting: "You like what you see, come and get it."
Teasing: "You like what you see...too bad, that's all you get."

Hopefully the other guy didn't construe it as flirting.

Bondo

Posted by Ummmmm (Member # 15145) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Bondo:

quote:
Originally posted by Just Me:
I really don't think she was flirting. It was more of a teasing than anything.
That's exactly what I was thinking too.

Flirting: "You like what you see, come and get it."
Teasing: "You like what you see...too bad, that's all you get."

Hopefully the other guy didn't construe it as flirting.

Bondo

Well said Bondo. [Thumbs Up]

And Lou, what can I say, you pretty much nailed it. Great insight, Bro! [Cheers]

Look at it this way, most cases we just stare and fantasize when it happens to us, right? The dude your girl was teasing was in your shoes! That is definately a tease and not a flirt so, you shouldn't get upset or offended by what your girl did. You should really count your blessing that she is with you. [Cool]

Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :

I must agree with my esteemed peers here...In my opinion I do not believe she was flirting, but simply showing off as was stated before. Be proud and be happy she is comfortable being so open and honest with you, and knowing that you have great taste too. Unless something major develops...you have nothing to worry about. Enjoy all that you have to its fullest.

Regards,
2swift

Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Bondo:
Flirting: "You like what you see, come and get it."
Teasing: "You like what you see...too bad, that's all you get."

Loved that! I agree with all those who say she was teasing, not flirting. To some of us, having our wives/GF's tease other can be a very arousing thing. I'd love for my wife to do that, but she's very conservative.

Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :

man.. i love it when my gal teases others (when that does happen). and i enjoy seeing others drooling over her.. makes me feel that much better to know.. i got a hot babe that a lot of guys want.. and she's not going to leave me!!!!!

ok.. now that i've got that out of my system.. the dominant explanation is the way i see it.. and I couldn't have said it better. you gal was showing off because she felt good about it.. further more.. it confirms to her what you've already said to her.. she's a hottie and has great feet. the mere fact she's telling you is her way of bragging that she's got it good with you (so a gal friend of mines told me once). so.. relax.. enjoy it!

RPM

Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :

I havent posted in a real long time, but Lou, I think your post says it all. I may have said it very few times, but I've thought it THOUSANDS of Times. It seems that Lou ALWAYS has the perfect response to everything. lol

Posted by Podder (Member # 15888) on :

quote:
Originally posted by 2swift:
I must agree with my esteemed peers here...In my opinion I do not believe she was flirting, but simply showing off as was stated before.

But what she is actually doing and what the guy she may be showing off to is thinking she is doing could be two different things. To her, it might just be innocent teasing. If so, and if she values her existing relationship, it would behoove her to make sure that the guy in question doesn't get any "ideas," as it were, by not going any further than she already has.

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

quote:
Originally posted by imation_pc:
I havent posted in a real long time, but Lou, I think your post says it all. I may have said it very few times, but I've thought it THOUSANDS of Times. It seems that Lou ALWAYS has the perfect response to everything. lol

Oh thtop...I'm blushin' here... [Blush]

Thanks for the nice words Bro. [Cool]

Posted by Stryder_007 (Member # 13405) on :

I wouldn't be mad. I mean that's what girls do whewn they notice a guy watching them. Think about it-how many times you have stared at a sexy pair of feet, and she dangles them more? Wether she has a man or not she will do it. Doesn't mean she's trying to cheat on you.

Posted by mattu2 (Member # 9895) on :

While on one hand I can see Lou's point about this, I mean girls definitely live for attention, but I myself wouldn't be too thrilled with it. You said she was flexing her toes and that sort of thing, the same stuff that turns you on. The way I look at it, that is your's and her thing so why should you be expected to share it with another guy.
I mean it's one thing to catch a guy checking out your girl's feet or any body part for that matter. In that case it's like, "Yeah buddy, check out what I have" It's a total other thing to have her try to turn another guy on. I'm sure it was innocent on her part but, I know if it was my girlfriend, I'd be less than thrilled.
To us, feet are a sexual part of the body. But let me use another body part as an example. I'm sure we can all agree that we like breasts. Whether you're into feet or not, who doesn't like a nice pair of boobs right? Well I know my girlfriend does certain things with them to get me in the mood. Whether it be bending over so I can look down her shirt or what have you. I don't think we'd find a guy on this forum who wouldn't be pissed if his girl did that in front of another guy if she caught him staring at her breasts. Well, to guys like you and I, how is that any different than her flexing her toes? I know if it were me, I'd be a little upset about my girlfriend showing off her feet to another guy.
Maybe I'm a bit jealous, which I freely admit, but the way I look at it, it's something special between she and I and I really don't feel I should be expected to share that with another guy. I'm not trying to sound corny but I feel that the best parts of a relationship are the things that you share exclusively with one another. The things that no one else but you two are allowed to enjoy.
That's just one man's opinion. Feel free to disagree with me but I stand by what I said.

Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :

Mattu2, that's what I was trying to get at here...I agree with everyone else in the sense that she was teasing rather than flirting..but the fact that me and her share the feet thing between US, that is why I got jealous...everyone that replied was like Dr.Phil in some sort of way...sorry to use Dr.Phil(coulda been worse,I could have said Oprah [Big Grin]

) but seriously guys [Cheers]

thanks a bunch...I talked it over with her and left out the fact that I got some outside opinion(expert) on the matter and she agrees that it was just teasing...said that knowing that she had "power" of this random guy was quite entertaining but agrees that she shouldnt have done the same things that turn me on because it is our thing. Then after we kissed and made up so to speak..I let the secret out and told her where I got this advice from(at first I told her that I was talking to one of my good friends on MSN and told him she was turning on some guy with her ass) she is smarter than I thought because she knew it all along! Thanks again everyone

Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :

glad it all worked out.. sorry about the whole Doc Phil part in my statment.

I guess it's because i hate going the jeolous route.. makes me loose sleep.. so I dont' bother with that feeling anymore.

you used the whole boob and butt part. funn you said that. i love a cute but and great legs too. and i am crazy about my woman's breast.. oh they're so juicy!!!... but i digress.

as long as the guy viewing.. isn't hitting on her mercilessly... isn't touching.. i'm cool.. but i dont' expect anyone to be me.

i totally hear you on the sharing something that is uniquely yours (the two of you) with someone else.. i'd be upset to.

i guess don't get how personal the wiggling of toes is for one who is into toe wiggling. but if it's equivalent to say... my lady asking some acquaintance or stranger for a deep foot massage for the sake of one (no discomfort was in the equation).. then.. yeah.. i get where you're coming from!!!! that is something i would be upset about.

RPM

p.s. strangely enough.. all of my fiance's ex-boyfriends made a point of trying to cover her up.. like no showing off her gorgeous breast or sexy thighs. me.. i'm the first one (and hopefully last one) in her life who is the opposite. I like seeing her figure and legs.. and when other men compliment properly.. it amps me up!! that is why i didn't toally get you bluetoelover! hope you see where i'm coming from.