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I am not sure what I will discover next with his foot fetish I thought he just liked my feet not women to stand on him? please tell me I am not being too upset about this what will I find next to do with his foot fetish.

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You're not getting "too upset" about this, but at the same time it's important to keep things like this in perspective. If your man has a fantasy or a kink like this and you don't want to do it for him, just let him know it and don't spend too much time worrying about him. Only fulfill his fantasies that you will enjoy as well...if his fantasies seem like work to you, how can you have any fun?

That's why it's good for couples to discuss things like this and get everything on the table early on...everybody has limits, and it's important to respect them.
 

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Posted by nose4toes (Member # 16640) on :
 
Lou,

Wonderfully put - I'm in full agreement.

Let me attempt to add some clarity to what I think you were trying understand; you were being introduced to "trample" or "trampling." This is a fetish which involves enjoyment of being walked on, stepped on, or even jumped on by women ranging from barefeet to high heel stilletos (ouch!).


Interestingly, many men can be into trample and not have a foot fetish, so, the two things aren't necessarily related. Of course, there are men who are into trample and also into feet. So to re-state, having a foot fetish does not mean you want someone to stand/walk/jump/inflict pain upon you.

As to whether you might enjoy it, you'll just have to try and see, providing you are comfortable with the idea. I think what women get out of it is a sense of control and power, and for some, that's a turn-on. Also, for others, it's merely enjoyable because it pleases her partner. All in all, it's probably more about dominance and submission than it is about feet, overall - if you're into that sort of thing, you may very well enjoy it.

I hope that helps a little.

Best wishes.
 

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Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
 

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Originally posted by nose4toes:
Lou,

Wonderfully put - I'm in full agreement.

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Thank you sir.

And you make some good points yourself!


 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
just to repeat.. not all foot guys are into trampling and vice versa.

i'm not at all into trampling... i just like to see a womans foot.. massage it... caress it... that sort of thing.

i'm also into high heels.. i love seeing a woman in high heels.. i am also into seeing women drive in high heels.

so.. that is the variations on the theme for me.. each guy has his variations on the theme.

the best.. is to talk about it in the open and go from there.

my lady took a long time to get comfy with what I like.. to her.. feet were always off limits period.. but she's gotten more and more open with it.. mainly because i explained it early on. she's even wearing higher heels now and letting me play with her feet after she has worn them too.

again.. communication is where that all started from!!!

RPM
 

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Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
 
The topic on feet run's pretty deep.Subject's go from light too extreme,just like with any thing else.But every body here,has their like's and dislike's,some are into this and that,and some may like it all

from sensual footworship too forced,trampling too crushing,sniffing,tickling,there's even some that like getting a hickory nut crunch(kicked in the nuts)by a pair of pretty feet
I'm pretty sure there's more topic's hooked along with the subject of feet.
 

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Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
 

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Originally posted by Natashalovesshoes:
I am not sure what I will discover next with his foot fetish I thought he just liked my feet not women to stand on him?

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