You've gone out on a couple dates with a girl. When do you feel the time should be that you ask her to let you look at, and perhaps massage, her feet (assuming you haven't seen them yet)?
Posted by camaughan (Member # 16070) on :
im guessing the majority of people will be voting #3 here. its the sensible option =p
suggesting a massage would be the more popular vote too instead of, as you said, asking her to look at her feet Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
Definitely in the act of intimacy. Any time I've tried it, I never got any slack for it, so that seems to be the safer route. Other than that, you could always ask her if she wants a foot massage. If she agrees, then cool. Let her know you're into feet and see what happens.
Posted by ozkar (Member # 13264) on :
I'd say even before date one.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
ASAP. Make your assessment early before you get too emotionally attached.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
While I understand Footman9's comment, and several of you obviously agree with being pretty aggessive about this, were I dating again, I'd be more apt to give it a few dates. Obviously living in Florida I'd more than likely see her feet on the frist date, and if I felt some good vibes might ask to massage her feet but nothing more. As westarted to get more physical I'd make my foot desires known.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I voted as soon as possible. You can get away with massaging a woman's feet and nothing more just to check them out within the timeframe of the first date or two if the situation presents itself. This also can help get a woman comfortable with you massaging/touching her feet before you begin getting intimate with her and she'll go with it, as it will be a normal thing. I wouldn't go out of my way and insist I see her feet though. That would, more than likely, freak out most women. However, if there's an opportunity to offer a foot massage, then I would go for it rather than wait. Getting to the "intimate level" might be too late and if her feet are ugly, it could be a real momentum killer.
Posted by pedactor (Member # 12893) on :
definately better chances of seeing them during the warmer seasons... then you dont have to go out of your way to ask to see em... just look down if it was winter or such, then id be forced to assess her feet based on her fingernails shape, lol.. tricky tricky.
Posted by The Champ (Member # 14891) on :
honestly, id go for after things got intimate. but i got this woman`s feet fater like 10 minutes of just meeting her. i brought up cuz she liked the t-mac basketball sneakers i was wearing. i was just like"fuck it" and i went for it and she absolutely loved it. now i know that ill get them everytime i see her
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: When do you feel the time should be that you ask her to let you look at, and perhaps massage, her feet (assuming you haven't seen them yet)?
For me it isn't so much a question of calculating when to initiate foot action as it is a question of determining just how well she and I are getting along and on what level we're vibing with each other. There've been many gals that I've managed to hit it off with immediately, and in some of those cases I've ended up with their feet in my hands/face before the end of the first date. It's really just a matter of feeling them out to determine their comfort zone with the whole thing. The one thing that's always a given with me is that I'm 100% up front and forthright about my foot fetish with gals right from the very first time that I meet them. That way they know exactly what they'll be getting themselves into should they choose to pursue any further intimate interest in me. No poker face here folks, my game is laying my cards right out there on the table.
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