Hi all, A few of my friends (foot fetishists) were talking through the messenger service and we actually all came up with would it be better if we did not have a foot fetish? I think it has to be the most frustrating fetish in the world but I certainly love it and never want to lose it. I have wrote to agony aunts about it but always put an alias when asking the question my boyfriend has a foot fetish. Does it actually take over your life? in everday situations seeing pretty feet and wanting so much just to worship them or even just watch them walking without feeling so hung up about it. A few of my friends thought they could wish for not having it as it is always so frustrating.
Posted by muleslicker (Member # 3049) on :
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Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Foot fetish do you wish sometimes you never had it?
Never. The truth is that I can't begin to fathom my life without my foot fetish, nor would I even want to. I've been open with people and forthright about my fetish for as long as I myself have even known that I had one, and it's been a constant joy for me that's brought and continues to bring unparalleled pleasure into my life. From time to time out here on the forum I've addressed the importance of one's foot fetish being an indulgence rather than a compulsion. We must not lose sight of this concept because without a firm grasp of what it means, we can easily find ourselves in over our heads and consumed whole. If a healthy and well-adjusted foot fetishist has the wherewithal to master his fetish rather than to be mastered by it, then the rewards he can reap from it are seemingly limitless.
Calico Jack
Posted by Uno1 (Member # 2883) on :
Sometimes I can certainly relate to what you're saying, muleslicker.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
as a kid i used to pray to get over my interest in women's feet. but as an adult.. i'm cool with it and find it a point of originality that sets me apart from the breast and butt guys out there. i can see a woman for who she is. enjoy and endulge in all of her and focus on part that usually get ignored by other guys (feet). and the woman is usually grateful I can see the whole picture and even look her in the eye instead of down her blouse.. a major browny point for me!!! so, yeah.. it's cool.. hard to talk about but great to enjoy!!!
RPM
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
I must say that I don't mind at all having a foot fetish. It's not really different than any other fetish. Some men may choose to look at the ass first or the breasts first. But as for me I look at the feet first. And I see this being a good thing simply becasue after checking her feet out I can then check out her ass and tits.. I'm multi talented..LOL
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
i dont mind having one and i dont find it to be the most frustrating. just think of all those guys that like to pissed and shitted on. i think they have it a lot tougher then we do. i dont think wu has a forum for any of those guys.
i agree with RPM as a kid it was hard to enjoy because your a kid so you dont know much, but as an adult you can enjoy. unlike that guy in that blog the girl wrote about, if you play your cards right you will get a lot of feet in your lifetime. i have never really been rejected on my fetish although i dont go telling everyone i meet. but when i think i have the right person, i tell them. i dont make it look like im obsessed, i just tell them in a nice calm way. it seems to work everytime. the thing is most guys jump right at it and make it look like thats all they want the girl for, which makes the girl get turned off easily.
Posted by spirometric (Member # 11951) on :
my attraction to feet came late in life wheni was 19 (im 20 now) and i do have times where i wish i didnt have even though it feels good But I have the fear that i can only get aroused through feet one day since my attraction is slowly developing i once avoided foot close up pics now i love them i thought footjobs were to extreme now i think they're cool and the constant hard-ons over a random girls foot frightens me since it would be so embarrasing getting caught hard over feet right now im still coming to terms with but still question howd it happened
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
I wouldn't change a thing...BUT...if I had a choice in the matter before I was born, knowing what I know now, I might choose to lose it.
Don't get me wrong...I don't hate that I'm attracted to barefoot girls, and since that's part of who I am I embrace it and enjoy it. But at the same time I think about all the time, money, energy, and resources I've either used or concocted down through the years to feed this "obsession", and I honestly wonder what more I could've done so far with my life.
The thing about "feeding the need", and I'm just speaking for myself, is this: It NEVER ends. Most of the time it's good and enjoyable, but sometimes it feels like some annoying itch right in the middle of your back that you're trying desperately to scratch, and no matter how much you rake your nails across your skin as you strain and stretch, it just keeps on itching...like a carrot dangling in front of the mule, you try and try to reach the goal of fulfillment, and deep inside I know it'll never come, no matter how many bites off the carrot you're lucky enough to snag.
As a result, I have to wonder at times what else I could've done with my life had I applied that kind of zeal or ambition toward something else.
Like I say, I don't regret that my attraction is there...it's just one of the many cards I've been dealt in this life, so I'm playing accordingly. But still...I wonder what "may have been" without this undying, unquenchable desire inside me.
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
I will cherish it forever. Wouldn't have it any other way. period. Some close friends, to whom I have revealed my way, thought it as strange at first. If your a "breast guy" it might equate somewhat to 80%(maybe less) of the women going out topless in warm months. Here in the South it's warm 8 months a year...that's a lot of boobs! They get it now....some even wish they had the "power." perception is reality.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I've done some embarrassing things, in the name of my love for women's feet. But in general, I don't regret having a foot fetish. When I was a teen, I fantasized going to a mental hospital to "treat" my fetish. I'd have a brain operation, then wake up "cured!" But I don't feel that way, anymore:)
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
yes I do wish I didn't have it because it eliminates many attractive girls as potential prospects for me
I won't like a girl if I don't like her feet
Posted by shoeslave (Member # 2778) on :
I'm 53 and developed my foot fetish at a very young age, maybe about 7 or 8? I have no idea how it started, but I remember jerking off to my sisters shoes as a kid. I have been married for 30 years and my wife love my fetish and the attention i have given to her feet over the years. She is dominant and I am VERY submissive. We role play often and I always take the role for her slave. We frequent fetish clubs in London and I love been forced to worship her feet with others watching. No, I would not chamge for anything
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lou Gojira: I wouldn't change a thing...BUT...if I had a choice in the matter before I was born, knowing what I know now, I might choose to lose it.
Don't get me wrong...I don't hate that I'm attracted to barefoot girls, and since that's part of who I am I embrace it and enjoy it. But at the same time I think about all the time, money, energy, and resources I've either used or concocted down through the years to feed this "obsession", and I honestly wonder what more I could've done so far with my life.
The thing about "feeding the need", and I'm just speaking for myself, is this: It NEVER ends. Most of the time it's good and enjoyable, but sometimes it feels like some annoying itch right in the middle of your back that you're trying desperately to scratch, and no matter how much you rake your nails across your skin as you strain and stretch, it just keeps on itching...like a carrot dangling in front of the mule, you try and try to reach the goal of fulfillment, and deep inside I know it'll never come, no matter how many bites off the carrot you're lucky enough to snag.
As a result, I have to wonder at times what else I could've done with my life had I applied that kind of zeal or ambition toward something else.
Well I thought I was the only one going through a mid-life crisis!
I echo your sentiments exactly, especially the last year or so, but I think most of it has been driven by my job situation (and that's a whole other story). There's no question that when we latched on to feet, we latched on tight bro.
To tell you the truth, I honestly believe that there's something in our personality that gives us this "addiction" or attraction, and I believe that, were it not feet- it would be something else. So wishing it away IMHO is fruitless.
And although I've said it before, I'll say it again. I can't thank this forum enough for finally encouraging me to tell my wife about it. She's become a regular little foot-babe for me, and I love her to death for it. I've really been able to focus my desires on her and "feed the need" at home, which has really helped me physically and mentally.
Posted by bricel24 (Member # 13307) on :
yeah sometimes i do regret. can't focus on whatever im doing or while walking while i'm looking down at some preety feet or even checking them out
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
quote: To tell you the truth, I honestly believe that there's something in our personality that gives us this "addiction" or attraction, and I believe that, were it not feet- it would be something else. So wishing it away IMHO is fruitless.
Exactly...that's why I don't wish it away either, but rather "ride it out". I don't know where this crazy ol' roller coaster of obsession kinda' ride is going to lead me, but it should be an interesting trip getting there.
As far as something being in our personality fueling the desires...I believe you make a very good point feetluvr...speaking for myself of course. I've noticed that even in certain hobbies of mine, like video games for instance, I tend to get really hyped up and passionate about certain aspects of it, whereas fellow gamers may simply show a moderate interest at best. That's just one of several examples that come to mind...
When I was younger I used to think that I might have a touch of OCD, but after knowing people who really do have the disorder, I can safely say that this isn't the case for me. I just think that some people tend to take things much more seriously...and with this serious behavior comes a more passionate feeling toward things...and with these passions can come the "obsessions". However, I don't think obsessing is an entirely bad thing. There's too much mediocrity and sheep in the world as it is, so I personally see strong feelings as positive characteristics...just so long as the strong feelings don't go toward negative things.
And if nothing else, it's always fun to sit back and ponder this stuff.
Mid-life crisis? Cut me some slack man...I got at least 17 more years before I can officially claim anything like that! Posted by DennisIsEvil (Member # 11755) on :
I have no problem with having a foot fetish. I figure girls who would get upset about me having a foot fetish are basically dumb bitches caught up in their pathetic "unattainable princess" mentality and not worth bothering with. The majority I've talked to think it's cute or have no real opinion whatsoever on it.
Basically it's the attitude that turns some women off. If you act like Genghis Khan ready to ravage her little piggies and take no prisoners or like some Woody Allen style neurotic who's scared of his own shadow, you'll turn any woman off fetish or not.
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
I don't blame the fetish. The interest intself never hurt anybody. It's the attitude and the emotional personality that, working in tandem with the interest, ever brought me problem. And it did (bring me problem).
Posted by Lick (Member # 2412) on :
Every day mate!!!
It is indeed the most frustrating fetish to have because it's not always a reciprical one.
When growing up I always hoped that when I met a girl, nature would somehow take over- but it never did.
What people don't realise about this fetish, or any fetish for that matter, is that it might be the ONLY sexuality. What happens when you cannot perform sexaul intercourse because all you've ever wanted was feet?
A foot fetish is not as cute as people seem to think it is. If there was a cure for it, I would be the first in line!
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lick: A foot fetish is not as cute as people seem to think it is. If there was a cure for it, I would be the first in line!
If it were humanly possible for people to actually rid themselves of their foot fetishes, I'd offer a public service by taking them off the hands of anybody who no longer wants theirs. All free of charge of course, because that's just the kind of guy I am. hehe
Calico Jack
Posted by mas (Member # 10074) on :
I haven't given this any thought in a long time. Let me see if I can run down the reasons:
(1) I've been with a chick who loves that I love her feet fore a long time now. Gotta be reason number one. So I don't have to talk anybody else into having foot sex with me! I honestly think a big part of that has nothing to do with feet. It's frustrating needing to talk strange women into doing *anything* and it's a relief to have that taken care of. That's why we put up with married life.
(2) I talked to my girlfriends about their past boyfriends. Do you like a chick to stick her finger up your butt? Me neither; but it's pretty much just me and you. The other 3 billion dudes need a finger up there. After years of that, chicks are glad to stick their feet in your face. It's all relative.
(3) Women don't mind if you look at their feet. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. Maybe they think I'm shy. Maybe they see me looking dead at their feet and to them it means I'm looking at nothing. Those are probably it. But when I am staring, unblinking, at pedicured feet with toe rings and anklets on them, dangling a slide with a 4-inch heel, and I peek up at her face and she's *smiling* a little bit - well, you guys know how that seems to me.
I've heard as much stuff as the rest of you about feet are gross or w/e, sometimes from chicks, but they'd probably also say that a finger up the butt is gross too, in polite company. Also they might secretly be afraid that *their* feet are gross. Also, people only want what they expect, even if they don't want it.
Here's one big point that doesn't fit anywhere and also it fits everywhere: Women by and large don't like being approached in a sexual way or vibed on in a sexual way by strange men. I don't blame them. Maybe you're just foot watching, but if you aren't putting out the right energy you might as well be telling them, It puts the lotion in the bucket. Maybe you've had a bad run and you're scared and overthinking it. Don't do that. Don't be creepy and chicks won't notice you unless you want them to.
I don't think it can be denied that it is easier for us now that it was. AIDS was good for us b/c it made kink a real option. That's a f'ed up thing to say but it's true. When I was a kid, there was *zero* toe sucking on TV.
Thing is, I don't think we can look for a chick who wants foot sex, then try to get along with her. I think you have to find chicks you get along with, then ease them into foot sex. That's huge.
Anyway, I love loving feet cuz it makes being at the airport security check just like being at a titty bar.
Sorry about my crazy Andy Rooney ramble
mas
p.s. Ben Del Amitri: You are THE MAN
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by mas: Sorry about my crazy Andy Rooney ramble
LOL... If Andy Rooney had rambled about subject matter like that, I would've tuned in to 60 Minutes far more often!
Calico Jack
Posted by DennisIsEvil (Member # 11755) on :
quote:Originally posted by mas: Here's one big point that doesn't fit anywhere and also it fits everywhere: Women by and large don't like being approached in a sexual way or vibed on in a sexual way by strange men. I don't blame them. Maybe you're just foot watching, but if you aren't putting out the right energy you might as well be telling them, It puts the lotion in the bucket.
That's about the gist of what I was trying to say with my Genghis Khan and Woody Allen analogy. If you act weird they will think your weird. If you act calm and normal about then they have no problem.
Posted by ILickUrFeet (Member # 3932) on :
I have no problem with my fetish and i dont think i could go on without one. Im lucky enough to have a g/f that acknowladge's it and she participates in my fantasies. So im very happy with it.
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
No way do I regret it, I love it! It has never bothered me any foot man can get what he wants if he does it right. I feel gifted I can enjoy the smell of a woman's feet as much to treat her whenever she wants with massages and kisses.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
LuckyTeen, do realize you've been bringing back 2 year old threads to the top of the board? I started reading through it and realized several of the posters on it hadn't been on the board in over a year.
Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
quote:Originally posted by Calico Jack:
quote:Foot fetish do you wish sometimes you never had it?
Never. The truth is that I can't begin to fathom my life without my foot fetish, nor would I even want to. I've been open with people and forthright about my fetish for as long as I myself have even known that I had one, and it's been a constant joy for me that's brought and continues to bring unparalleled pleasure into my life. From time to time out here on the forum I've addressed the importance of one's foot fetish being an indulgence rather than a compulsion. We must not lose sight of this concept because without a firm grasp of what it means, we can easily find ourselves in over our heads and consumed whole. If a healthy and well-adjusted foot fetishist has the wherewithal to master his fetish rather than to be mastered by it, then the rewards he can reap from it are seemingly limitless.
Calico Jack
Enough said. Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
Yeah I do, but I'm new here and wanted to see all topics and share my thoughts on topics that already exist rather than starting identical ones.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
"'The Force' is strong in this one..."
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
Sometimes. Only when I get negative response to it.
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