A very interesting topic of discussion was brought up within the confines of my mind the other day. This is my first year at college, and it is kind of a new start for me since I am very away from high school friends. I desperately want to come out with my foot fetish, and would have no problem doing it, but I have come to the realization that my sexual fixation with a woman's body stops there.
All I like are feet. Not breasts, not ass, and am not even particurially interested in sex. I am getting bombarded with people thinking I'm actually gay since I'm just not interested in normal male activity. (I'm far from gay, btw)
My question to the board: Is there anyone else out there who feels this way? Any advice would be helped, just to let me know that I'm not alone.
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
While I tend to obsess over more female parts than just their feet, I don't think you have anything to worry about ElmntEarth1.
I mean, if you would, try to define what it is you're refering to when you say "normal male activity". The thing about us males is that yes, we are usually more visually stimulated than women, and yes, we think about sex or sexually-related activities four out of every five minutes all day everyday...but what is this "normal" behavior you feel like you're falling short on?
Think about it...you like female feet...female feet are attached to females...therefore you like females! You sound pretty damned straight to me! You just sound like you've got a lot of self-doubt still milling around in your head as you line your ducks up over everything...
Fear not my friend...everybody has phases when they question themselves. Just relax and go with your feelings...you don't sound all that weird at all.
And to those people wondering if you're gay or not? Tell them to worry about getting themselves layed before they worry about you and what you do or not do. You have your life and they have their's, and the last thing you need to do is let what other people think get to you. You have to please yourself, so if other people don't understand that that's their problem. It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
As usual Lou is right on the money. You've got nothing to worry about as you're definitely not alone in that regard, ElmntEarth1. Our respective foot fetishes all exist to varying degrees and depths in our lives, but there are certainly many of us for whom our foot fixation supercedes any other sexual interests or urges that we might otherwise have. You and I are in a similar boat because I too have a foot fascination which overrides any other physical interest in women that I could have. It hasn't quite gotten to the point where I don't crave conventional sex anymore, but it's certainly gotten to the point where a gal's feet absolutely must be a key ingredient in every single intimate physical encounter that I engage in if I'm to be truly satisfied.
Calico Jack
Posted by faintXofXheartX33 (Member # 12559) on :
quote:All I like are feet. Not breasts, not ass, and am not even particurially interested in sex. I am getting bombarded with people thinking I'm actually gay since I'm just not interested in normal male activity.
I too am the same way and I am still in college looking to get out sometime soon. When I came to college, it was an excellent time to grow and embrace this aspect of my sexuality, which makes me who I am.
I have given quite a few women foot massages and they enjoy them. I also have a fixation towards feet over tits and ass, but my friend, don't let this limit you to the beauty of women.
Don't worry, I get the "gay" comments, too. If men only knew the curves and the sexiness that a woman's foot beholds (and sorry to come off cheesy/cliché... that's not my style)
quote:My question to the board: Is there anyone else out there who feels this way? Any advice would be helped, just to let me know that I'm not alone.
You are 100% normal. Everyone has their kink. Some people like to get spanked, others like to talk dirty, other people like to look, touch, (etc.), feet. You and us fall into the latter category, despite how it is characterized in our society.
You're you. Embrace it. Love it!
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
ElementEarth..I am just like you as well..I would rather have feet than anything.I am not gonna say that the other stuff doesn't interest me, of course i would jump at the idea of sex anyday, but feet rule the world in my book.No you're not alone brother..YOU know the truth, that is all that matters!
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by ElmntEarth1: All I like are feet. Not breasts, not ass, and am not even particurially interested in sex.
Personally speaking, I can tell you that, at least at in this point in my life, my foot fetish has a very powerful influence on me, almost to the exclusion of any other body parts.
My wife has awesome breasts, a relatively flat tummy, and very long legs, and a pussy that gets wetter than water- all of which are tremendously sexually appealing and attractive to me. But, since telling her about my foot fetish two years ago, nothing arouses me sexually like her feet. The last year in particular, I've climaxed way more on her feet than I have anywhere else, including inside of her. So I can definitely understand where you're coming from.
Posted by popsicletoes (Member # 1105) on :
Elm .. when you say you are not interested in sex do you mean you are not interested in intercourse? You must get aroused playing with feet.
Posted by Reinforcedheelstoes (Member # 1099) on :
We gotta get all you guys laid....
Sheeesh!
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
quote:Originally posted by faintXofXheartX33:
Don't worry, I get the "gay" comments, too. If men only knew the curves and the sexiness that a woman's foot beholds (and sorry to come off cheesy/cliché... that's not my style)
One of my female friends told me she thought I was gay during a first impressions confessional we had. It is very common for people to think guys are gay if they do not constantly talk about girls, dates, or sex. And if you are a good dresser, use proper English, and keep up your appearance, then you are either deemed gay or metrosexual.
The comment about curves is one I use, so its not cheesy. It you think about it, men are fascinated by curvy or round objects. Our favorite pastimes involve round objects: football, basketball, billiards, golf, soccer, tennis, and crochet to name a few. And as we know, feet have many curves, contours, and round shapes.
ElmntEarth1,
I remember being a virgin amongst my friends for many, many years. I called myself 7Up because I said I never had sex, and probably never will.
Sex is overrated anyway. It really messes people up inside. Think about how sane we were before we had sex. If its good, then we want more. If its bad, then we kind of don't want more, but still go after it anyway in hopes we can eventually find some thats better. We use it as a weapon, a bargaining chip, means of entrapment, and more.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
You like feet, exclusively... what is the big deal? Some like a lot of things exclusively, but they understand where they are in life. We all grow through our various phases before we reach our comfort zone of, "This is me, take it or leave it" attitude. It is ok, dude.
I get that metrosexual thing sometimes, too, but my wife digs it. But I can get real down and dirty with the best of them, anytime... especially in the bedroom... it is more freak nasty than dirty when it comes down to some boom, boom .
Sex overrated?? WHAT!! Some folks aren't doing it right then ( Jamie Fox's - Unpredictable ) or with the right person. LOL! I understand your point Jedi just having some fun .
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Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
I think..wait til marriage no matter who tells you what or for what reason you shouldn't.It un-complicates things ALOT..until then have fun and get all the feet u want! yee haw
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
quote:Originally posted by Reinforcedheelstoes: We gotta get all you guys laid....
Sheeesh!
I'm agreeing with you here!
Feet are great, but it is VERY important that you dip yer wick in your lady's cooch to keep her happy too!
Posted by popsicletoes (Member # 1105) on :
Ledaemon ... is that the only reason you do it ??? LOL
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Some folks aren't doing it right then ( Jamie Fox's - Unpredictable ) or with the right person. LOL!