Hey Ben I was wondering how you decide on the prioritys of different footgirls.
First the general question and it's about feet in general I guess. What foot qualitys would help one girl get the nod over another?
More to the point of your site & events, what goes into deciding which ones get to go to a party? Or do you show favortism to one over another? Things like that. I've been to some of your "meet the footgirl" things and there's always an impression from the girls that they are happy to be there but they don't know if they'l be at the next one. I notice that Malory for example goes to Portland with you and there was that funny thread in the Misc. section once about Liv & Malory going to Las Vegas, etc. So would that cause problems with others? Some of this might be sensitive material so just tell me to get lost if you need to. Just curious tho cause all those girl are SMOKING HOT.
Last question is Malory is HOT & I notice how you seem to gravitate to her but on the other hand it seems (SEEMS that is) that you don't do a lot for her in other ways. For example finding out she has to come into the forums to see pics of herself. Wow, surprised me & also that you don't ever update her pics on your own site??
Anyway, these are just questions that go through my mind when I'm in these forums no big deal & if you don't want to get into too much details on your reply I completely understand that. Thanks for all the great work out there Ben.
[ March 27, 2006, 02:44 PM: Message edited by: pacfootluver ]
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello Pacfootluver -
The decision process as to who gets into an event is a tough one because we've got about fifty quality girls competing for a small group of spots. Each event will have three new and completely different girls, along with a few "anchor" personalities - mixed in with a few from a "rotation pool" and then I'll throw in a special guest celebrity from the porn world, internet model, etc.
As to Malory .. she is one of the footgirls and a peripheral character in my "non-foot" life, but just that. As a footgirl, she's one of the good ones but not a privaleged one. She's always willing to accompany me on my trips to Portland and back and she does more of that than some of the others .. up until recently, when I pulled the plug on most of that. She's a golf buddy as well, one of several.
Overall, I try to strike and keep a balance on things. Sometimes the balance sways (sometimes heavily) in one direction or the other, but I do try to catch myself and pull it back (such as in the case of Malory).
[ April 06, 2006, 02:08 PM: Message edited by: Ben Del Amitri ]
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Shit Ben! It hurts a girl when you come in here and read that stuff. Not trying to be special or anything & I know you know that. But just that it's kind of shocking to log in & read this. Guess it's the way you put it or phrase it or something, maybe I'm taking it personal even though its not intended that way or something but something about it hurts.
[pout].
~Malory
[ March 27, 2006, 06:33 PM: Message edited by: Malory ]
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey Ben I must be misreading something between the lines here sorry for being a dork.
But remember when we had that thing going on about you and Kirsten and me & you told us not to air our family laundry out "for Wu & the rest of the world to see". Here's where you said that.
Well I guess that's how it felt to read this I don't know. Ok I'm done being a baby, sorry Ben. Just needed to get that out.
~Malory
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello Malory -
It looks like two things have happened here:
1. You did read something between the lines 2. I expressed myself poorly to begin with
I went back and re-read the post entry and in doing so, I realize how it could have been construed as coarse, cold or standoff-ish. Poor choice of words in a few places and poorly phrased in a few others.
Now as to not airing out our family laundry in front of Wu and the entire world ..... ironically, your two entries here are exactly what I meant by that. I got your text message a little while ago, just wish you could have left it at that, or at least until I was able to call and discuss this, etc.
Thank you for setting me straight, Malory.
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey Ben guess I might have gotten off on a tangent here. Thanks for jumping online so quick to answer this, guess I feel a little better. Ok I'll try to be cool next time & call you first (if you'd answer your phone).
~Malory
[ March 28, 2006, 11:56 PM: Message edited by: Malory ]
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Sorry about airing the family laundry again (haha). I'm still pouting & it's fun to embarrass you Ben.
~Malory
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
Ok time to kiss and make up you two! I know who i'd show favortism to if i WERE Ben..hehe Go Malory GO Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Good GRIEF, look at those two avatars. Good GRIEF those are gorgeous!
Hello Wrinklesguy -
I just met Malory for coffee at a Shari's restaurant (she had hot chocolate). Looks like we cleared things up and I'm not completely sure what happened but I think she manipulated me into dragging her down to Portland with me tomorrow morning. Go figure.
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Posted by Adam X (Member # 2872) on :
I'd be honored to help balance the force!
Just how much nail polish and oils would I need to keep things balanced at the peak level you do?
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello Adam X -
That is very nice of you to step forward and offer your services. I love that sense of sacrifice. Nail polish and oils? That category pretty much takes care of itself, the girls are happy to supply these; they seem to never get tired of trying new shades, colors, themes, etc.
To balance this force, here's what you really need:
1. Maalox 2. Plenty of Aleve, Ibuprofen and Excedrin Migrane. Keep equal amounts in your car's glove box, your brief case, and home and at the office 3. Therapy. Start with weekly visits then tailor that down to suit your needs as things develop.
One more thing - about five gallons of Grecian formula for men .. unless you get your haircuts from Summer (in which case, you'll have none left).
Speaking of footgirls (and headaches),I'm on my way out the door for Portland and I've got one of the best footgirls ever as my driving companion (did you hear that Malory?).
[ March 29, 2006, 10:24 AM: Message edited by: Ben Del Amitri ]
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
LMAO..Grecian formula..oh no that's not your secret is it Ben? HAHA oh yeah, by the way, I love Shari's, i wish they had them in California.Kinda trucker style restaurant, but still ALOT better than Denny's.
Posted by pacfootluver (Member # 9180) on :
Wow looks like this topic turned juicy! Great reads in here, sorry Ben if I started something and I'm REALLY SORRY to you Malory for the way this turned out but it's great how you held your own (and cute). This stuff about airing out the family laundry in front of Wu and the world is hilarious. You'd better treat this girl right Ben, she's the BEST!
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
quote:Originally posted by Wrinklesguy: LMAO..Grecian formula..oh no that's not your secret is it Ben? HAHA oh yeah, by the way, I love Shari's, i wish they had them in California.Kinda trucker style restaurant, but still ALOT better than Denny's.
Hello Wrinklesguy -
I'm surprised you know about Shari's. Cheap breakfasts, comfortable and plenty of coffee. In this case, it was a perfect meeting place because (like most of them) it was right on an interstate exit - Malory and I were able to meet half-way & make it a lot faster.
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey you guys thanks for sticking up for me!
Ben listen to these smart guys you SHOULD show favortism! So Wrinklesguy you know Shari's that's kewl. We go there for breakfast sometimes. Comfy booths, not too bright & cheap food with full plates.
~Malory
[ March 29, 2006, 11:08 PM: Message edited by: Malory ]
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Oh yah I forgot to say I 'manipulated' Ben into 'dragging' me down to Portland again it was lots of fun. Eggs & sausages for breakfast at Hawthorne, Ben met a new footgirl, coffee with Liana & of course, Burgerville USA.
~Malory
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ben Del Amitri: Good GRIEF, look at those two avatars. Good GRIEF those are gorgeous!
I think she (Malory) manipulated me into dragging her down to Portland with me tomorrow morning. Go figure.
Ya got that right, Ben! Malory is gorgeous!!
I'd let her manipulate me also. She is so cute and she seems so sweet! Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello ilikesoftpeds -
No arguments here on any of those points! On top of all that, she's got some pretty serious feet as well.
Posted by d-wreck (Member # 13026) on :
ben i wish i was u... ive never said that before.. not even about tommy lee!!
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
Ben's a great mate, and a wonderful giver of things for us "saps" (i love that old Yank saying!), but hey, Malory, slap his face and come to Oz, babe.
We'll take some photos that'll knock every one's socks off.
And, no, i dont mean Sydney Harbour Bridge in the background, or koalas sniffing about.
But, er, if thats what you want. You got it!
But i do like Ben, too. And...
...I'm keeping outta this one. (twiddles thumbs and whistles)
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello d-wreck -
I am honored by those words. In truth though, I'm an average man who has had more than his fair share of dumb luck (sometimes a lot less than average). A lot of luck, timing and odd coincidence. More dumb luck than anybody I know.
That's what I attribute everything to and it's because of that, I worry sometimes about things slipping away. Where will that next footgirl come from? Will Victoria want to stay with us or will she lose interest? How much longer before Kirsten leaves? What will I do if I wake up one morning and it's all gone?
Thank you d-wreck. If you ever make it out to Seattle, the first cup of coffee is on me.
[ March 30, 2006, 11:42 AM: Message edited by: Ben Del Amitri ]
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
quote:Originally posted by Craigy boy: Ben's a great mate, and a wonderful giver of things for us "saps" (i love that old Yank saying!), but hey, Malory, slap his face and come to Oz, babe.
We'll take some photos that'll knock every one's socks off.
And, no, i dont mean Sydney Harbour Bridge in the background, or koalas sniffing about.
But, er, if thats what you want. You got it!
But i do like Ben, too. And...
...I'm keeping outta this one. (twiddles thumbs and whistles)
Hello Craigy Boy -
Be careful there, Malory doesn't need a lot of encouragement to slap me silly these days. If you must take sides in this, my side would certainly be the one to take ... but judging by your avatar, that probably would not be the case.
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
quote:Originally posted by Summer: hey Mal those new pictures are SOOOOO pretty! i luvs ya girl, hope you had a real nice time in portland.
from summer
Hey sweet girl!
Yah I had a great time in Portland. We went & got Liana after breakfast then Ben took us to Tigard & Lake Oswego. Dropped us off so we could have some girl fun. Then he goes & meets a new footgirl so we all went to late lunch together. Stanford's, yum!
We went to Rose Quarter & then to Yola's for coffees all around then grabbed plenty of Burgerville stuff on the trip back. Halibut fish & chips, burgers. Fell asleep almost all the way back, felt great. So you need to come next time, luv. I'll treat for everything.
~Malory
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
Nice avatar Summer!! Loll Ben you are the king
Posted by sanlucas (Member # 3492) on :
Oh Malory,you can manipulate me anytime lol grrrr Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
quote:Originally posted by sanlucas: Oh Malory,you can manipulate me anytime lol grrrr
Ben's a fink for using the word manipulate. Makes me sound like a dragon lady or something. Lol
~Malory
Posted by Adam X (Member # 2872) on :
Just call me "Manip" and you can be my Ulater.
*yeah that one won't be making TV anytime soon*.
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey thats witty! See "Ulater".
~Malory
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey Ben,
I wanna get drunk with you!
~Malory
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
Loll! Getting Drunk with the Footgirls, i can imagine THAT post in the pics section hahaha
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Who says that manipulative footgirls are a bad thing? Certainly not this little foot fancier!
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
quote:Originally posted by guitardrew: Loll! Getting Drunk with the Footgirls, i can imagine THAT post in the pics section hahaha
Hello Guitardrew -
Several months ago I actually did make a post in the photos section about "drunk foot girls". It was parody of a public service announcement (not even a real post), which I thought was hilarious.
Believe it or not, two forum members "took offense" to it and made a big deal out of it, siting "exploitation of women" and other (stupid) things ... all of that made it even more funny.
If I decide to take Malory up on her offer, I WILL provide photos though and it won't be a parody this time around.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Glad that it's all love again in the Del Amitri camp. Don't know what would happen if I couldn't come in here and drool to Ben's wonderful contributions.
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello Lyrical -
It may be all love again (for the moment), but it's a bit of a tenuous state. Believe it or not, Malory's not the most vocal (or troublesome) of the bunch. Put them all together and you've get it from all directions (funny stuff, I know). For the moment, things are nice and calm.
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
quote:Originally posted by FIASCo: Who says that manipulative footgirls are a bad thing? Certainly not this little foot fancier!
Hey Fiasco thanks for the words of support here. Hear that Ben??
~Malory
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
Hey Ben you still didn't answer. I wanna get drunk with you! Text messages don't count ya gotta answer me here!
~Malory
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
"Believe it or not, two forum members "took offense" to it and made a big deal out of it"
HAHA, for some people its never enough, not enough attention, or they need to 'stand up' against things as stupid as this to feel confident about their supposed values and themselves. the stupidity of human nature never ceases to amaze.
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
Hello Guitardrew -
You've got that right! "Standing up" for people who either weren't asking (or hoping) to be "stood up" for .. or for people who are specifically complicit in the "offensive" act itself.
As to Malory and her request (is it a request or a challenge???) .. I'm smart enough to steer clear of THAT one!
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
quote:Originally posted by Malory: Hey Ben,
I wanna get drunk with you!
~Malory
Hello Malory -
Fat Chance.
Posted by pacfootluver (Member # 9180) on :
quote:Originally posted by Malory: Shit Ben! It hurts a girl when you come in here and read that stuff. Not trying to be special or anything & I know you know that. But just that it's kind of shocking to log in & read this. Guess it's the way you put it or phrase it or something, maybe I'm taking it personal even though its not intended that way or something but something about it hurts.
[pout].
~Malory
Holy Toldeo Ben!!! If I had a girl like THIS saying things like THIS to me I'd probably just sit down in the middle of the street and die on the spot. A happy man. I hope seriously you don't ever let Malory feel bad about things like this. MAN!
Posted by pacfootluver (Member # 9180) on :
quote:Originally posted by Malory: Hey Ben,
I wanna get drunk with you!
~Malory
SHIIIIIITTT, I can't even stand to read this stuff. Ben if you don't get drunk with Malory that would be the most terrible waste of an AMAZING invitation in the history of the world.
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
"You've got that right! "Standing up" for people who either weren't asking (or hoping) to be "stood up" for .. or for people who are specifically complicit in the "offensive" act itself."
' there are only two everlasting things in existence, the universe, and the stupidity of the human race. Im not sure about the former." - Albert Einstein
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ben Del Amitri:
quote:Originally posted by Malory: Hey Ben,
I wanna get drunk with you!
~Malory
Hello Malory -
Fat Chance.
Hey Ben that's real crappy! I'm gonna keep working on you though.
~Malory
Posted by Malory (Member # 9101) on :
quote:Originally posted by pacfootluver:
quote:Originally posted by Malory: Shit Ben! It hurts a girl when you come in here and read that stuff. Not trying to be special or anything & I know you know that. But just that it's kind of shocking to log in & read this. Guess it's the way you put it or phrase it or something, maybe I'm taking it personal even though its not intended that way or something but something about it hurts.
[pout].
~Malory
Holy Toldeo Ben!!! If I had a girl like THIS saying things like THIS to me I'd probably just sit down in the middle of the street and die on the spot. A happy man. I hope seriously you don't ever let Malory feel bad about things like this. MAN!
Hey Ben! Listen to this guy he's SMART!!!!!!!!
Pacfootluver thanks SOOOOOOOOOO much. Did you read this Ben?
~Malory
Posted by Liv (Member # 13793) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ben Del Amitri: Hello Adam X -
That is very nice of you to step forward and offer your services. I love that sense of sacrifice. Nail polish and oils? That category pretty much takes care of itself, the girls are happy to supply these; they seem to never get tired of trying new shades, colors, themes, etc.
To balance this force, here's what you really need:
1. Maalox 2. Plenty of Aleve, Ibuprofen and Excedrin Migrane. Keep equal amounts in your car's glove box, your brief case, and home and at the office 3. Therapy. Start with weekly visits then tailor that down to suit your needs as things develop.
One more thing - about five gallons of Grecian formula for men .. unless you get your haircuts from Summer (in which case, you'll have none left).
Speaking of footgirls (and headaches),I'm on my way out the door for Portland and I've got one of the best footgirls ever as my driving companion (did you hear that Malory?).
![[Fingers Crossed]](graemlins/fingersx.gif)
![[Kiss]](graemlins/kiss.gif)
![[Tongue]](tongue.gif)
I know who i'd show favortism to if i WERE Ben..hehe ![[Woot]](graemlins/woot.gif)
Go Malory GO ![[Smile]](smile.gif)