Hi. I've been surfing sites like this and groups and things for years but have never tried to communicate with other people that share my fetishes before.
I'm satisfied with my fetishes, I have a lot of fun with them, but sometimes I wish that I was just a "regular" guy. I think that in some ways the fetishes have stunted my sexual development. From about age 3 or 4 (when I first discovered masturbation) to late into my teens I had never imagined sex with a girl, only fetish type stuff while masturbating, it was really the only thing that I could "get off" to.
I also never owned or made any attempts to acquire pornography, before I was hooked up for the internet anyway. I would draw pictures sometimes, cute little comic strips where some girl steps on some poor little guy. I had one of those found one time by a male friend and it was embarrassing as hell. I refused to explain what it was and what it meant and he eventually left me alone about it but he teased me for a few days.
I like all parts of the female foot, I like the smell, I like trampling and footjobs (the idea of them, never been trampled or had a footjob in real-life before). I also like the idea of being small and being stepped on. That last one is probably my favorite. The other stuff I think a girl would go for eventually, but that being stepped on and squished like a bug thing would turn most people off I think, aside from the fact that it's impossible in the real world.
Sorry, I didn't mean for this to be my life story or anything, but I feel like I needed to finally get all of that off of my chest.
Posted by FootLover84 (Member # 5693) on :
Welcome to the forum. You should be proud of your fetishes because your not a regular guy and that's what makes you special. I think fetishes give us that extra edge and make us more sexual. I know what you mean about only being able to "get off" to your fetish. I only get off to foot fetish type material. I only watch porn that I know is gonna have some foot play or I know the girls are gonna be barefoot. There's nothing wrong with that because that's what I like. I don't watch porn for the sex, I watch it to see women's feet. Maybe that's weird, but oh well. It doesn't bother me and I'm not hurting anybody else. Basically, what I'm saying is be yourself and don't worry about what other people think of you and your fetish. Your not gonna be happy any other way.
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
Welcome Stinky. I dont know how old you are, but i would recommend a few days in the real world. I dont mean to bag you. But, if you are still young, mate, meet some chicks! Get drunk. The fetish stuff will happen. Develop a meaningful relationship first. We are all deviates here!
P.S. I am 50% serious in my post. I have concerns.
Wanking at 4??? WTF? Never imagined sex - just fetish stuff? Have you had sex??? I recommend it.
Having a fetish is cool. Having specific desires? Cool too. But, not being in the real world? Thats dangerous.
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
I agree with you there on all that Craigy old boy. However, I think I can recall fantasizing about feet and paddling the little pickle even as a toddler myself. I didn't know what it meant at the time but I sure liked it for some reason!
I even remember drawing feet pictures as a kid, but never got caught with 'em and messed around with by my bud's. Best bet is get yourself a girlfriend (or if you are completely inept in that Dept. rent yourself one) and explore your fetish with a REAL woman! BTW, just kidding about the "rent" bit.
There's a couple of other foot forums you may want to explore a bit that can tie in with your GTS and trample fantasies if you haven't been to them before:
Thanks for the advise. Don't worry, I was bracing for much worse than that. I was a bit terrified that hundreds of people were going to call me weird and gross or something.
I've expanded the list of things that I like a bit over the years. I didn't get my first porno video until I was 22 (damn I'm lame). I'm 27 now and I can get off to all sorts of stuff, though the fetish stuff is still by far the most powerfully stimulating.
I'm really backwards when it comes to dating and all that, but I'll try a little harder.
Posted by bb57 (Member # 5582) on :
There are plenty of possible women for every guy, that's not the problem. You just have to find them. Try one of those dating services/matchmaker thingies. I know a guy who did that and he eventually married the 2nd girl they fixed him up with. They're a great couple. People tend to slag those places, but they work for lots of people. Nothing wrong at all with going that route. Is meeting a girl in a bar in a drunken stupor somehow better? No, just different.
You sound like you're doing ok, you just need to find a partner. You and millions of other men share variations of the same situation. No biggie, I think you'll be just fine. Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
Hiya stinky, welcome aboard to Wu's. All the important areas have already been covered by the others, so I'll just say that there's nothing inherently abnormal or irregular about having a foot fetish. You'll find that you're part of a very large community of people who share your passion for female feet, and it's a perfectly healthy sexual outlet which is far more commonplace than many people would suspect. It's nice to have you out here with us.
Calico Jack
Posted by tootsylover (Member # 4584) on :
I can relate to you stinky...I turn 27 in May and I have never even been on a date (much less had the pleasure of a girl's feet in my face lol).
Also I too dig the "giantess/crushing" aspect of foot fetish...I think it's something about the power that a pretty girl can wield with her foot... Posted by stinky (Member # 13215) on :
Hey thanks for the warm welcomes, advise and encouragement. It's still weird for me to actually be talking about this sort of stuff with other people.
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