I know ive asked this question in the past over other ladies, but i just don't know what to do.
Im getting all the right signals of her. This is a different lady to before by the way.
Today she actually allowed me to hold her foot and rub it without saying a word. It was all sweaty and i was getting a hudge boner rubbing it. Before, i kept looking at it, and she kept flexing her toes all over the place, then i went and sat over to her, pretending to make conversation and then i thought to myself, who gives, lets place my hand on her foot, and it was so nice. i began rubbing it, and i think she linked it. she got up a couple of times and when she sat back down, she made sure her feet were nearer to me, and my hand slipped off onto her sweaty socked feet. They felt so nice. I should be able to get her on her own sum time soon. I was wondering whether the line of "Can i give you a foot massage?" be the right way in???
Please give your opinions, and your points of view.
Many thanks Posted by Bman (Member # 2267) on :
Hey Toe Sucker....I would love to offer advice but I dont know how. Been there, done that, ect. ect. If it feels right then maybe go for it. Ive had good fortune most of the time but maybe its just good luck. When I went after a ladies feet for the first it was always in a joking way and then turned into something more personsal and intimate. Theres guys here with a success rate much greater than mine. I know that when I was too verbal and serious about my fetish the ladies found it odd. When I made light of the whole thing I did kinda well......larry b.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
Hi TSII. I'd probably be doing you a disservice by dispensing any specific advice on this matter because every situation is unique unto itself, and there are some things that just need to be felt out in a spontaneous moment rather than prescribed ahead of time. I often find this to be especially true when dealing in the realm of intimate social encounters. I consider myself very fortunate to have amassed a rather substantial foot fetish résumé over the years which has morphed into something of a lifestyle for me along the way, but I certainly owe a great deal of that success to a combination of internal factors such as confidence, patience, honesty, and a strong sense of humor. Bman touched upon the subject of humor in his reply to you, and I think there's really a great deal to be said for it, and surely more than I can possibly extrapolate upon in this post. I don't mean to imply that external factors (looks, hygiene, dress, etc.) are irrelevant, because they certainly play a major role as well, but it's finding the right combination of all of these ingredients that has truly brewed the most potent potables for me. Good luck with your endeavors, bro. I wish you nothing but blue skies!
Calico Jack
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
Thanks guys, Its just i feel that it may just work if i ask her if she'd like a massage and things will go from there.
Its also the fact that she doesn't mind me feeling, rubbing, touching her feet. She just carries on like nothing is happening.
She'll b round tonight anyway, so i'll try it sum more withher, then when she's on her own, i'll ask her if she'd like a massage, and then compliment her feet, then take it slowly from there.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Toe Sucker, You have got nothing to lose it seems to me that she has already got an idea that you want to get to grips with her feet, so go ahead & have fun but be prepared dhe may want to have fun with yours as well.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Sorry I had to suddenly rush that post yesterday this was due to the fact that my ladyfreind's nosey neighbour was ringing her doorbell & she also happens to be right gossip merchant. As I was about to say there may be a hidden agenda in her wiilingness to allow you to have your way with her feet as there are more ladies who secretly want to get to grips with our feet than any of us guys could imagine & in the long run it could prove to be inout interests to give into their wishes providing it is in a 1 on 1 situation. Oh by the way did you see those exellent boarboard advertisments in whic, Joss Stone was showing her feet off to plug her latest cd just under 3 weeks ago, they were all over the train stations anyway apparently she insists on performing in barefeet so I wondered if it might be worth checking out some of her websites as hopefuly there will be picture gallerys showing more than a few pics of her going barefoot, if were lucky that is, & im afraid your going to have to take my word for it when I tell you that, Joss Stone's feet look exactly like my ladyfreind's mate's feet, in which I have told you about during the past year.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
That is cool plastercast. Its just i feel as is i cannot leave it bottled up any more. Im fed up of putting it off, its my feeling for feet, its so strong. All thats left now is getting her on her own. And for anyone else who wants to know about my other ladies ive been interested in, im gonna get them on their own as well and confess.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Toe Sucker, best of luck even though I don't think you are ging to need any luck as this lady seems prepared to let you massage her feet at the very least, reading between the I think she would be up for a spot of toe sucking as well.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Toe Sucker, How did you get on with that lady? Im sorry it has been quite a while but I only seem to find the odd 20 minutes or so here & there to come on here these days this is because my ladyfreind has become increasingly freindly with her nosey-neighbour down stairs & she seems to be more time up here & as she happens to be a gossip-merchant as well I tend to wait until she's out of the way before coming on here. By the way my lady has given me permission to massage & suck the feet of that other freind of her's that I have gone on about in the past so long as I don't soak her feet in human-milk she does'nt mind, what a cool-lady my lady is Im very lucky indeed.
Posted by Carla's Foot Slave (Member # 7669) on :
Hope it went well Toesucker. Incase you're still after advice though I'd just advise that you don't want to be too serious with it. Make it a light atmosphere and sort of jokey as it'd worked for me before. And once you've cracked it with her I hope you get the same experience I did the 1st time round.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Hey TSII, I think everyone is sharing good stuff. I think one major thing is to feel out the woman. Is she jovial, is she serious etc. There are not to many women wo don't respond to jokes and laughter but you have to be careful sometimes we blow it with tht jokes maybe to corny maybe we laugh to hard when telling it who knows but it sounds like she may already have an idea from her initial reactions be vigilant and watch for cues.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Toesucker, The ladyfreind's mate has thankfuly agreed to leting me massage her beautiful feet & a few weeks ago I bought a pair of shoes off her that had ssen better days & of cause my nose is hardly ever out of her old shoes & now she has started to wear trainers without socks it is even better still.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Why not just simply say "Want a foot massage?," or "Want a foot rub?"
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Carla's foot slave, Your right it certainly pays to let any lady know about your love & admiration for female feet in a relaxed-jokey type of manner.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
yeh, jokey is best co zit can then sway both ways!! if u ned to bail out, u can laff it off! i like ur style plaster!!
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
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quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: yeh, jokey is best co zit can then sway both ways!! if u ned to bail out, u can laff it off! i like ur style plaster!!
Unfortunatly, Toe Sucker I broke my own rule last Friday & I have'nt stopped kicking myself ever since, I went all searious just because I felt the need to act like the perfect gentleman.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank: \
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: yeh, jokey is best co zit can then sway both ways!! if u ned to bail out, u can laff it off! i like ur style plaster!!
Unfortunatly, Toe Sucker I broke my own rule last Friday & I have'nt stopped kicking myself ever since, I went all searious just because I felt the need to act like the perfect gentleman.
Her feet were freezing & I offered too warm them up for her but I did point out that my method may be a bit saucey & she giggled & then just ad I was about too unzip & let the purple monster out of it's cage I felt the need too ease her fears & by pointing out that I she would never have too worry about me putting it in her pussy & even though she giggled again, she potitly informed me that her feet were no longer cold & I have 'nt stopped kicking myself eversince, as far as Im concerned I lost out through impatience because I should have lifted my shirt up first
Posted by jules (Member # 12213) on :
I definately think you should talk her up a bit first......Tell her how beautiful she is, and how you think that a woman she be loved from her head down to her feet. THAT definately worked for me!!! You never know, maybe she has a foot fetish of her own that you don't even know about!!! Good luck!! Posted by Lick (Member # 2412) on :
Tell me Jules, are they your OWN feet pictured in your avatar?
I can't seem to stop looking at them, both rounded and arched - what a gift!
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
Well from what i read that you said,you already had your hands on her feet,I think the door is open.
Posted by jules (Member # 12213) on :
Why yes, Lick.....they are my own feet in my avatar. Thank -u very much!!! Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: Why not just simply say "Want a foot massage?," or "Want a foot rub?"
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