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So, as a guy with a foot fetish, I thought I'd come to my peers and find out what you think.
My wife's, sister's mother in law and father in law, know that I have a foot fetish, I think. Basically, a few years ago when I ran my website, my wife thought it would be cute to offer people at my job a free membership to see the feet. One guy did take me up on the offer, which was kinda funny. But this guy, let's call him J, knew of my site and saw it as well. I thought this was all forgotten, since the I closed down almost 3 years ago.
Over Christmas, my wife and me and the kids are over at her parent's house when J and his 40 something year old wife come over as well. I'm playing with the kids and J's wife comes into the room all by herself. So, it is me, my two young kids and this 40 something year old woman. K, is pretty hot for a mom and a smoker. She tans and takes care of how her body looks and even looks like she has had a boob job recently. I've never seen her feet. So anyway, as we are playing, she notices that the kids had their socks and shoes off to play on the floor of the play room. She says to me "wish I could just take my socks and shoes off and play on the floor." I replied, on how the kids always take their shoes and socks off when they go anywhere. She then says "(my name here) do you want to help me with that?"
Then on NYE, I'm sitting with one of my kids while my wife has the other one somewhere else in the house and I am trying to get the one with me to eat his food. So as he is eating, K comes close and tells me that she spent the whole day moving furniture at a friend's house and then tells me how she could really use a foot rub. She then says "(my name here) do you think you would be interested?"
Now, while I would jump in a second, to worship this woman's feet, I am guessing that she likely just found out, for some way, or reason that I have a foot fetish. It could also be that her husband doesn't touch her feet or her and she's looking for something new, I guess. So far, she has only come to me when other family members are around. So, here are my questions:
Do I just play it cool and forget about her teases? Do I play it cool and hope that there is a time when it is just her and me and take advantage and try to look, smell, feel or even taste her feet? Do I hope that there is a time where she gets drunk, which happens a lot, and try to make a move on her feet so she doesn't remember anything the next day but I do? This woman, even though she is married, has a history in my town of being overly friendly to guys so I wonder if I do anything, I can just play it off as she tried to get me, in case my wife finds out.
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Smells like a trap...if she found out it was through her husband(obviously). So she decided to have some fun with it at your expense...on the outside looking in some people wouldn't think twice of you giving her a footrub. But to your wife and probably her husband they would more then likely be deeply offended as they know how you view feet(in a sexual manner)
Butttttt there is the other half of this argument, there will always be that "what if" question that will bother you for the rest of your life lol
You could always say that you are starting up another site and need some pics and ask her if she wouldn't mind helping you out...
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I think I will try to take pics, no matter what. They have been long time friends of my wife's family and now they ARE family because their son married my wife's sister. I am sure to see them more often and with luck will get a picture soon of her feet, with luck. The best that can come of this, without entrapment, is a photo or two, maybe a candid video.
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If you do something, you cannot ever undo it. You risk being part of "the talk of the town" as you put it, i.e., the gossip mill.
You probably don't want your wife and kids getting dragged into some gossip or tension. You know the situation better than any of us, but think twice, play once.
Good luck dude. -hyp
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If it was me, I would tell my wife first and then ask her husband if I can play with her feet every now and then because she offers me to give her a foot message. I have learn, if I meet a woman who has attacked feet and she is married and we become somewhat friends. I tell her I have to get her husband approvable first. I also tell him I have a love for women feet (in your case he knows this) by giving them foot messages or taking a few pictures. Sometimes it work and sometimes it don’t! And when it works I am over to their home when he is not there sometimes. By the way, that’s all I do. I mean know sex because I didn’t tell him I want sex too. I have begun to understand women because I know most women will tell their husbands about the sex just to get even when having a conflict.
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Stay away from that one. She is too persistent and feels like a setup. I would ignore it. Trust me on this one. It's a gut feeling and I'm never wrong on those feelings.
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DON'T DO IT!...You will get the people who will tell you that "It's Wrong" or "You're Married". Neither of which is my reason. I am no Angel and though I have been married for a longtime and with the same woman much longer than our marriage, MY MOTTO IS NEVER DO ANYTHING WITH A PERSON WHO KNOWS YOUR WIFE!..At the end of the day, IT'S JUST FEET and in no way, shape or form should you risk bringing bad energy into your families world for a few minutes of fun, OR GIVE A PERSON THAT POWER TO BRING THAT UP WHEN THEY ARE MAD OR JUST GOSSIPING!...Keep the "SIDE BAR" SHIT AWAY FROM YOUR WIFE, KIDS, IN-LAWS JOB AND ANYTHING ELSE WHERE YOU CANT JUST DISAPPEAR OR WALK AWAY FROM THE SITUATION... At the end of the day, think of the worse case scenario...SHE COULD SCREW UP YOUR LIFE. And while we may think "IT'S JUST FEET" We all know (AS WELL AS YOUR WIFE) what feet do to guys like us...Stay Strong AND PRIVATE my friend...
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I agree with what everyone is saying but I would also add one more thing.
If I was in your position (married, with kids) and she kept trying to bait me into saying or doing something about the aforementioned "open secret", I would sternly confront her and put an end to her advances right there on spot.
I know she is the wife of your friend, but you never know what people's true intentions are.
If you are uncomfortable with confronting her directly, then I would escalate the situation to the husband and I would tell him word for word what she has been saying, when she says it, and how she says it.
Especially if she had the nerve to say something in a room where there were kids present? I know children can not pick up on innuendo at a young age but to me that would be unacceptable.
Now, unless you have the complete blessing of the husband and the complete blessing of your wife, then I suppose you could decide from there on what you want to do...I am in no place to judge or question your moral integrity.
But to me, from what I gathered from your post, it seems like she is going about this in a "hush hush" manner even being so deliberate as to make sure that the two most important people are not directly present when she is trying to advance on you.
I have met/known girls exactly like the one you described and typically they are bad news...
I would tell her to get lost.
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So let me get this straight, your wife knew about your foot fetish website and got people involved with promoting it. A guy named "J" was a visitor to your foot fetish website and his wife "K" is throwing her feet at you. Is this correct?
Then I'll be the one to play the devil's advocate.
Sounds like everyone involved is cool with foot fetishism, just tell your wife you're thinking about starting the site back up and you think "K" would be a good model and tell her to run it by her husband. It's not like it would come at him from left field, he's seen your work before.
Seems like everyone knows about your fetish, for all you know he could have a foot fetish too and is one of those guys who gets off on his wife messing around with other guys. Not saying your wife would go for the whole ordeal, but might be able to at least get some good pics or video out of it. If she's not alright with that how did she react to you shooting models before or obtaining other women's feet pics?
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