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Because I just don't get it. I occasionally come across these clips of girls talking verbal shits on viewers and/or male participants. I have to immediately navigate away from the clips. I find "mouthy" overzealous women extremely annoying (I think most men do).
If your into it, I could care less. I just want to hear from the horses mouth how a person verbally taking a shit on you is appealing. Don't you ever just want to tell that bitch to shut the fuck up?
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Man I couldn't begin to explain the "appeal" of it. I think you may just have to chalk this one up to different strokes for different folks. I really would love to be able to give you a good answer on this but I simply can't. How would you explain your foot fetish to someone hates feet and just posed the question "how can anyone like feet" in the same manner as your question reads? But someone here I'm sure can give you a real answer
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Speaking strictly for myself, the appeal is ineffable.
Based on a few conversations that I've had with people who have this inclination, I have come to believe that it is based on a desire to be the center of attention. If someone is going to truly humiliate another, it take a lot of time and thought. To prolong a series of humiliations requires a rather singular devotion and focus on such a goal. I think the "humiliatee" basks in this attention.
It is the motivation of many people to be the center of attention (e.g. comedians and/or politicians) who risk a great deal of embarrassment in their public appearances but who hope to be seen in triumph.
How the desire for attention makes the metamorphosis to be seen in a series of failures...well, you got me there.
There's more to my thoughts than time allows and I haven't expressed myself very clearly but, if I had given the question the thought and time it deserved, I would have forgotten about this post and never answered it. That's a series of my failures (on public display) and I'll likely do it again but not on purpose. Perhaps, I'll try again or not. Hard to discuss things I know only second-hand.
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quote:Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst: Don't you ever just want to tell that bitch to shut the fuck up?
Always. but the thing is we are so worthless below her feet that we don't get to have such a priviledge to tell this woman what we'd like her to do.
the symbolism that "she will do what she wants, becuz she is confident and in control" is priceless. that makes her a very high value person and highly desirable as a mate.
if we were not of such low value we might not realize her high value and subsequently how great a mating partner she would be.
when she clearly is seen as a person of high value, we who are lower than her can quickly realize she is very worthy. the amplification of our unworthiness compounds the fact that the beautiful woman is well worth our desires.
now the act of getting her is near impossible for such lowlives and that makes the appeal in the fantasy because we all seem to want what we can't have.
i am just speaking from the majority foot subbie perspective. this type of content proliferates the foot world like an airborne plague and we intelligent foot fetishists fund this number 1 sub-genre because it must foster empathy on some level.
while we foot subbies may not be great at expressing our unique & pervy desires thru written or spoken word, we are at least able to effectively express ourselves through our wallets. gratz to those consistently top selling foot subbie websites and clipstores that never die and only seem to multiply thanks to most of us undeserving foot fetishists.
most of us other foot guys who are in the minority will never understand this foot humiliation until we've truly had a chance to be below her feet and feel the awe then we will finally know what we were missing.
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this is the one thing i hate most about our little community
how a guy can get off being treated like a weak spineless turd i'll never know
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Yeah, I'm with you on these. I never got off or into the videos with chicks calling me names through POV. Even ones where they spit on their slave and smack him around do nothing for me. But to each his own, right.
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quote:Originally posted by Michael P: this is the one thing i hate most about our little community
how a guy can get off being treated like a weak spineless turd i'll never know
because you are not into it. Take for example a "normal" guy who likes tits and ass only. He may look at you and say the same thing because you like feet and possibly say something similar to what you said:
quote:Originally posted by LovelyLadies: Yeah, I'm with you on these. I never got off or into the videos with chicks calling me names through POV. Even ones where they spit on their slave and smack him around do nothing for me. But to each his own, right.
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I guess your right Mr Papers..but who the hell wants to get spit on and called a bitch etc etc. I'd rather get a footjob lol. But yeah to each is own
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I would suspect that given women tend to favor "manlier men" on average, the proposition of a guy being their little bitch is not exactly the most appealing.
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quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: Speaking strictly for myself, the appeal is ineffable.
Based on a few conversations that I've had with people who have this inclination, I have come to believe that it is based on a desire to be the center of attention. If someone is going to truly humiliate another, it take a lot of time and thought. To prolong a series of humiliations requires a rather singular devotion and focus on such a goal. I think the "humiliatee" basks in this attention.
It is the motivation of many people to be the center of attention (e.g. comedians and/or politicians) who risk a great deal of embarrassment in their public appearances but who hope to be seen in triumph.
How the desire for attention makes the metamorphosis to be seen in a series of failures...well, you got me there.
There's more to my thoughts than time allows and I haven't expressed myself very clearly but, if I had given the question the thought and time it deserved, I would have forgotten about this post and never answered it. That's a series of my failures (on public display) and I'll likely do it again but not on purpose. Perhaps, I'll try again or not. Hard to discuss things I know only second-hand.
i would just like to say, toetapper tha you are one unique intellectual. what school did u go to? im curious lol.
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