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I really can't stand the term "foot worship". It sounds so submissive to me. Submisive being the opposite of dominant which could be synonym for manly lol. Anyway is the foot fetish inherently a submissive thing?I see guys doing the trample, mistress slave thing and thats cool for them but I wonder....is my love of feet just a milder form of that? Does anyone else feel this way? Like it's putting women on a pedestal? Which women will say they love...but they secretly hate. Exactly why the nice guy finishes last. What are your thoughts? Experiences?
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I sort of feel the same way as you, but I personally don't have a problem with the term "foot worship". However, I most definitely am not submissive, if anything, I tend to be the assertive one in intimate situations, especially when it involves a woman's feet.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Which women will say they love...but they secretly hate. Exactly why the nice guy finishes last. What are your thoughts? Experiences?
My thoughts and experiences are that you are exactly right in your statements.
That is why I try to switch hit on all sides of the spectrum (ie dominant vs submissive & in-between) but women do look down on me as a sick needy freak when I try the whole worship thing.
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submissive, ah.. I love it. I hate being dominant. (I'm male, and very manly) but I hate when people boss around females. It's fucking stupid. So, yeah, I like when the lady starts anything, because that way, we all know she is the one who wants whatever she does.
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I never was into foot worship. I don't like being told what to do nor do I tell others what to do. I'm head strong and fair minded all at the same time.
Aside from that, I love having soles sit flat on my face because I love the way her silky smooth soles feel and the scent that goes with it. It's like a drug that has nothing to do with pretending to be the ground she walks on, if that makes any sense.
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It can be either a sub or dom term. I don't make a judgment on it until I see/hear the circumstances.
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When someone says "foot worship," I always picture a guy kneeling before a girl and praying to her feet, like they'll get him into heaven. Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2005
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I postulate that what everyone actually wants is a struggle for dominance that they ultimately win.
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GQguy: I agree 99.9% of what you're saying. The only statement I don't completely agree with is, in reference to the woman's perspective to foot worship, "Which women will say they love...but they secretly hate". Only because I know of women who do enjoy it, and can be genuinely sexually aroused by it.
But onto the main point. I don't necessarily think of my foot fetish as a dominant or submissive activity. I can role play either way, but mostly it's for the pleasure of it (mine, and preferably hers too). "Foot worship" is pleasing to me for what it's worth, not necessarily for the psychology of being diminant or submissive.
So if the term "foot worship" doesn't fit, what would be a better term to describe it?
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totally agree but lets be honest a lot of foot guys are submissive and like to be dominated
alphas like myself are rare in the foot community
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I agree that the term "foot worship" does come with the cannotation of the woman being dominant and the male submissive, as if the guy is "not worthy enough" to do anything else but suck on a woman's toes, lick her feet, etc.. It seems that anything dealing with feet and paying attention to them is somehow associated with the whole submissive role, which, although may be true for some, is not a hard and fast rule when it comes to everyone who like women's feet (i.e. everyone who likes women's feet is submissive and, therefore, the woman takes on the dominant role). While some guys are submissive, not all guys into women's feet are. I really dislike the way most people will pigeon-hole the whole foot love thing as being submissive. I, for one, like to be dominant when it comes to my actions, even when it comes to enjoying a woman's feet. By dominant, I don't mean bossing females around either. By dominant, I mean being true to my wants and desires, being confident and up front with them and being strong-willed enough to take action in the situation to make them happen, rather than being timid, not stating my desires either through words or actions, and hoping that the woman I'm with miraculously reads my mind and understands what I want.
Although some women may indeed like to be in a more dominant position to guys, from my experience, women enjoy being led by guys far more than they like leading. While I know there are exceptions to the rule, this has been my experience and I know this, also, is not a hard and fast rule.
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quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: alphas like myself are rare in the foot community
i think that is true, and generally beta males have higher chances of being perceived as sniveling or creepy when all other things are put aside and rated equally against their alpha male counterparts (just on that "outgoing-ness" tendency alone).
it may be part of the reason why the fetish in general gives off a creepy vibe to the normal people
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I don't know whether i would consider myself dominate or submissive when it comes to a girls feet. I enjoy a girl to make the move, and tell me what she enjoys and what she wants me to do to her feet, but at the same time, they are all usually things i've discussed with her about what i enjoy doing with her feet. I just enjoy hearing her say it and tell me to do it. I do enjoy being tied up, and sometimes i guess what you'd called dominated or forced to suck her toes, or lick her feet/smell them. But i don't really see it as her being entirely dominate, since i've asked for it.
And i don't agree about the "only being good enough for her feet" bit. Though i enjoy that attitude from a girl sometimes, i don't enjoy having to spend more time on her feet than i want to and i have my limits with everything. So i would say i enjoy being in control of the action going on, but at the same time, only so in control by having let her know my interests and likes. So she's doing what i like because i like it, because i said so, and it turns me on. I dunno what i'd consider myself.
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