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So lately i've been talking to one girl( I know, that fact alone is probobly my biggest problem) Anyway I brought up the subject of feet over the phone asking if hers were pretty. She went on to say no, they're a huge size ten (she's 5'10") and that feet are gross. In the rest of our playfull convo I was testing her and the thought of toe sucking was totally disgusting to her. I agree, so not so much a big deal. She brought up getting off on her toes though and she said "I feel sorry for anyone that gets off on that". Ouch. The convo was very playful despite that as I was trying to convince her to let me sodomize her ;o). Anyway ive never encountered someone so against foot fetish. Usually women have no clue about it but are open to it. So guys that have had this sort of scenario happen to them...please let me know how you got over it. No theories please, but real world experiences.
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i had a fuck buddy a few years ago...she used to do ballet so she was very self concious about her feet and she never let me touch her feet during sex...which was a huge turn off for me. eventually we stopped our sex meetings and remanined good friends...actually she just had a baby a few weeks ago.
as self concious as she was back then...probably something changed because around 10 months ago i went to her birthday party and got to touch and kiss her feet for the first time, she didnt say anything heh
i guess my point is...if its really important to incorporate feet into sex or a serious relationship, wait for the right person... i must say for me it isnt.
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My gf of three months hated her own feet when we met and couldn't fathom the thought of me having a foot fetish but as the more we talked the more comfortable she became. See, she has beautiful feet but was born with a slight defect on one foot, two of her toes aren't entirely seperated. From a young age she has had a complex and that's understandable. I never saw her feet until a month into our relationship and, once I did, I offered to soak, scrub, and wash her feet. She was like, ok cool. I then painted her toenails, which is something I love to do, and from that moment she began to get comfortable. Now I can't get her to even wear shoes. I have never been able to be in a relationship unless I was able to incorporate feet into sex and she was the first woman that I encountered that had such a huge problem but...we overcame it together.
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I have had experiences on both sides of the coin, when I was 20 I met this girl at a club, later we went back to her place and yatta yatta yatta we are in bed.......all I did was kiss her pretty foot and she was like, "OHHHHH how did you know I like that it makes my pussy wet" OMG I was in heaven.........Many years later I was with another girl and when we got around to that, I said you have such cute feet, as I went to touch them she pulled them away and said ewwwwwww feet are so gross and made some comment like if I wanted to kiss her feet she wouldn't kiss my mouth after, well why dont you just pour a bucket of ice water on my crotch.......... back then I was young and had no patience to work with her on this........everyone is different some you can work with some you cant....but a woman who knows the power her feet have over you and enjoys the sensation of having her feet worshipped is the best and thats what I have been looking for for the last 4 years since my divorce.....not too easy of a quest but I'll find her---------good luck with this one GQ
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can't really help you. why? because i've always moved on if i couldn't get to the toes.. if it was way too much work... orshe was too closed off... kept it moving.
my wife took a lot of patience. she wasn't into feet and really thought it was gross. i couldn't touch for years. but over time.. she got used to it.
i know just about as many girls who think feet are gross as i do those who either don't mind or love it.
RPM
p.s. my only help.. be patient... and if she's the one you want to be with at present.. you'll negotiate slowly for more feet access. however... understand.. you can't really make a foot lover out of one who never cared for feet or was against it...... just a word of warning
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: No theories please, but real world experiences.
In the past 9 years, I've fortunately or unfortunately encountered a number women who were modestly to deeply opposed to foot fetish. I dealt with those individual situations in a variety of ways depending on the given circumstances of any particular moment or girl.
For brevity sake, i will just recount what happened with my most recent girl who initially "had the problem" 6 weeks ago. My experience was to just run thru the normal gammit of getting her in bed and getting her horny. There's plenty of different ways to do that piece and I won't get into that here.
Then when you've got her going and wanting it real bad, just keep giving your hard rod to her in a way that she'd expect it (mish, dog, throat-gag, dick-to-face-slapping, whispering-in-her-ear, or whatever works best) bringing her close to the point of cumming and easing off -- then bring her back to that point and ease off several times. Then at some point while she is loving it, either force yourself to go limp or let it occur naturally (from all this missionary or mainstream bullshit, LOL).
Use feeble attempts at getting it back up (either genuine or non). mine were genuine unfortunately. run her thru different ways at helping you try to get back hard again so she can still feel involved as if it is a mutual effort (to fix the "erection issue").
Then after several valid attempts (of her HJing you or blowing you, or changing positions, etc.) pretend like you are just gonna put your pleasure aside for a moment and use a known erotic fingering technique on kitty. There's plenty out there to choose from and i won't get into that here either.
But after you are fingering her really well for say 5 to 10 minutes (just make sure you don't let her cum before that), then take an opportunity to have her start jacking you instead (with her hand). then while she is working you with her hand (in the 1st 30 seconds), take one of her feet (slowly) and start rubbing the middle toe massaging it with your FINGERS.
Then take the opportunity to work your normal magic from there using any of the known techniques on "how to introduce my foot fetish to a woman". There's been plenty of that particular subset of discussion focus already on these boards, but the key thing now is that you have gotten her in a sexual needy position to where any of those "foot fetish intro techniques" is in her best interest to be understanding of (since it turns you on, and that is now established pre-req for turning her back on).
My choice of "foot fetish intro technique" was to just take the approach of seizing what I wanted and answering questions afterwards (if any). Your's may have to differ depending on how turned on she is.
That forumula worked for me, and should also work for you when you plug in the other known pieces of the equation: (ie. your choices of seduction technique, fingering method, & intro to foot fetish approach).
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GQ, I recently went out with a girl who coincidently commented to me that a guy she went out with smsed her and asked to smell her feet after their date. She commented that she thought it was gross and that how could someone like feet?.
On our second date I asked her what she would do if she meet someone that wanted to do stuff with her feet n toes. Her answer was I would tell him to piss off and never mention it again.
GQ, I need an open minded person when it comes to toes and FJs. When I dropped her off after the date I said thanks but our differences are too great...
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quote:Originally posted by ozboy: I need an open minded person when it comes to toes and FJs.
Absolutely, we all do. I'm sure it's much tougher when you're dating. Fortunately, once you've found the girl you want to marry, she'll either already be into feet or be willing to go there to make you happy. The latter was the case with me. My guess is that, had I tried hard to get into feet stuff wiht her early on she might have dumped me, but because we were friends first, grew close, knew we were meant to be together then started dating, got engaged and married- she's been totally open to my fetish just because she wants to make me happy. And boy does she ever!
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Ouch. The convo was very playful despite that as I was trying to convince her to let me sodomize her ;o). Anyway ive never encountered someone so against foot fetish. Usually women have no clue about it but are open to it. So guys that have had this sort of scenario happen to them...please let me know how you got over it. No theories please, but real world experiences.
